Is the relationship reliable?

The relationship is unreliable, and it depends on the mutual efforts of two people. Of course, there are reliable ones, but they may not belong to themselves.

If the feelings are reliable, the pigs will have to go up the tree!!

Alas, I, as the most stratum psychologist, can't help but sigh when I see your question.

Feelings are not something to be relied on, let alone affirmed or denied. Naive, isn't it something you can tell, can it be for a lifetime? Alas, the feelings are yours, but you are not feelings, the macrocosm of feelings, relative to the feelings you speak, is that no one can give you an answer.

Alas, I'm not here to take points. Actually, this can't be a problem, please listen to me, you live is a kind of feeling for the world, if you die, there will be no feelings, think about it!

Feelings are so the sum of emotions that cannot be compared.

The relationship is reliable, and it depends on the relationship between the two, if they are together, they may be able to rely on it, but if they are not together, I think most of them are unreliable.

Unreliable ! Now 15% of the population can live a lifetime!

Real feelings can be trusted!

Unreliable. But I'm also going to put a lot of input.

But I don't believe that feelings are for life.

Feelings are unreliable.

Life is reliable.

In today's society, there is money and feelings, and there is no money and no feelings, and there is a saying that is true, 8 points are enough to love others, and the remaining 2 points are reserved for loving yourself.

The first time I understood that feelings were unreliable was when I saw my ex holding another girl's hand.

My ex and I met in our sophomore year of high school, and we had a sweet relationship, and he took very good care of me. At that time, our classmates said that we were a good match. He will bring me breakfast tomorrow morning and will come to the door of our dormitory to accompany me to dinner.

He would send me back to the dormitory at night, and we would fight and fight with him, but he was always infinitely tolerant of me.

I thought that this kind of relationship would go on forever, and I also thought that if a boy could tolerate himself infinitely, this relationship would be reliable, and it turned out that the relationship was unreliable.

After graduating from high school, we started a long-distance relationship, he went to his college and I went to mine. When we started, we would often call ** and send messages. I can also occasionally log on to his WeChat to see his news.

But suddenly he was very indifferent, and gradually he didn't reply to my messages much, always saying that he was very busy and busy. Until one day I logged on to his WeChat, and then I found that I couldn't log in to his WeChat, I sent him a message to ask why I couldn't log in to his WeChat, but he didn't reply to me. I called him **, but he refused.

In the evening he messaged me back and asked me if I could not always message him, don't always call him **. In fact, I have probably guessed that he doesn't love me, how can anyone who loves himself not want to send messages himself.

But I really love him very much, so much so that I can't let go, even if only one person is in love. I thought it was because love was out of freshness, I thought it was because we were in a different place, so on his birthday I bought a plane ticket to his city, I wanted to send him a blessing and give her a sweet surprise.

It wasn't until I saw him holding the hand of another girl that I knew that the relationship was unreliable, even if our relationship for two and a half years could not withstand the arrival of another person. It turns out that it's not that there is no freshness, it's just that I don't love anymore, I just fall in love with someone else.

When I was silently looking forward to our love and future, he had already planned his love with others, and in the end I didn't go up and ask him why, I heard that the person who was not loved in love was a junior, so I silently withdrew, I mentioned breaking up and said goodbye, deleted his WeChat. But I don't believe in love anymore, I already feel that feelings are unreliable.

Men and women have basic common needs, and feelings are the least credible.

Is there only affection between men and women? I think the most unreliable thing between men and women is affection. Because the relationship between two people is very easy to change, whoever can say love can live a lifetime of love than real gold.

Feelings are the most reliable and unreliable things. The relationship between men and women, I think it is not as reliable as family affection, if men and women love each other, then each other's feelings are very deep, and they are willing to give everything for each other, but when there is one party. If there is a relationship of interest between two people, if one party changes his mind, then he should be careful, after all, many divorces are examples of the scene, men and women because of the good feelings, love each other very much, come together, enter the palace of marriage, but the divorce rate in recent years is also higher than the ratio, which can prove that between men and women, unreliable is the relationship.

Otherwise, there wouldn't be so many divorces. I believe that the only thing that can be relied on between men and women is interests. If there is no way to divide the interests of two people, there is no way to separate them, then even if these two people get married and come together, they look at each other and hate each other, but for the sake of interests, they may not divorce.

If you can't even tie up the interests of the two people, then it means that the two people have no way to continue. After all, feelings are illusory, they can be changed at any time, and interests can be seen in real life, and it is not so easy to divide them. Therefore, in the adult world, only interests and money can be relied on between men and women.

Love does not rely on your mouth, but on your actual ability, dedication, and a life guarantee, so that love can last for a long time

The most considered thing in love should be whether the other party loves you, whether the two of you have a good mode of getting along, about career, this is a guarantee of life, as long as the man is down-to-earth, he can do it. In de facto love, you should not intersperse too many things into it, be innocent, be honest, pure, preferably, you love her and she loves you, you can meet the necessary expenses of life, such as rent, food, commuting, communication, etc., and it is best to have a part of the balance, which can be used relatively freely, or stored to deal with various unexpected problems.

In general, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan in second-tier cities, and a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan in third- and fourth-tier cities can almost meet the above requirements.

Indeed, with the basic living guarantee, there are conditions to talk about comfort.

For example, if you earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but you have a salary of 996 yuan, and you have a goal of buying a big house in Beijing, then most of you will not be comfortable, but will easily become angry and complain.

Another example is that you earn a few thousand dollars a month, and in a second-tier city, although you live in a tight position, you are optimistic by nature and do not have much ambition, and at the same time, your work is very easy, you have a lot of leisure time, and you may be able to live a quiet life.

It is difficult to satisfy people's hearts, when you first work and share a house with others, you feel comfortable in a small room, and after a few years, the salary goes up, and you don't want to live in a house without a bedroom and a large living room.

The income is high, and the eyes are also picked. The poor have their suffering, and so do the rich.

Therefore, the key to comfort or not lies in the mentality.

In this life, it is inevitable that people will encounter unsatisfactory times. If you have a good attitude and live a relaxed life, you will be more comfortable.

Everyone understands this.

What really makes people happier and healthier comes from good relationships.

And in all relationships, it is the quality of intimacy that plays a decisive role.

It turns out that a marriage full of conflict and emotionless is bad for health, and can even be worse than divorce.

And living in a good, warm relationship is protective.

People in relationships who really feel like they can rely on another person when they need to have a clear memory for longer.

People who feel that they really can't rely on another person in a relationship will have memory loss earlier.

This shows that the quality of intimate relationships has a direct impact on a person's mental state.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not strong, no matter how good the mentality is, it will collapse one day.

Therefore, the quality of intimate relationships determines a person's state of mind to a certain extent.

Personally, I think that when a person encounters great setbacks and difficulties emotionally, or which waiter is emotionally stupid and hurt to a certain extent, then in this case, this person will often have a more negative and repulsive attitude towards feelings, thinking that feelings are fundamentally unreliable for themselves, and Li Ying's quarrel In this case, this person's ideas will become more realistic.

Men are unreliable, because from the day you marry a man who can be relied on, you want to rely on a man, and your life will be wasted. Marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat. If you completely depend on this man for your happiness and future from the day you marry a man, then your life will be really useless, 18 men like 18 girls, and 80-year-old men also like 18 girls.

It's definitely unreliable, and in the end, you have to rely on yourself.