Talk about whether you would choose to be friends or not contact at all after a breakup?

Resolutely do not contact, but there is QQ

If you have already separated, you will let go completely.

Of course, it's not in touch, it's broken up, or don't meet again, it's really to see once, think about it once, and the voice of longing can't be calm for a long time. Don't say goodbye, who knows if goodbye will be heartwarming or heartache. If you still like it, then you still want to reconcile after a second look.

No contact at all. Because I'm going to start a new relationship, I don't want to have contact with him and make my future boyfriend jealous. Similarly, I don't want my future boyfriend to be in contact with his ex-girlfriend.

After all, they used to like each other. If you don't like it now, don't contact it, so as not to misunderstand the current one.

Those who have loved deeply will resolutely not be friends. I really love you and can't be friends anymore, I like you and lose you, I have overdrawn all my sadness and sadness, how can I still let you be my friend again, shaking in front of my eyes and circle of friends every day, affecting me all the time. This is Ling Chi at all.

Moreover, I don't have the courage to know your every move, such as a new relationship, a new girl. So, either I don't leave, or I walk cleanly and completely, and I completely fade out of my world.

For me, it depends on the attitude of my ex-boyfriend, I have always felt that it is possible to be friends again after a breakup, but some boys do not think so, in their opinion, there is no need to contact without a relationship. I'm a very emotional person, if I can keep in touch and be friends, I will always be friends, if he doesn't want to be in touch, then there is no need.

I think it depends on two people, two people are separated because of force majeure, and it is okay to be friends, (as long as you grasp the degree) everyone's life is different, if you are like most people, break up and die and do not get along, then it is just someone else's love, completely look at two people, there is no need to imitate other people's love, a lifetime is not long, you can regret it, but please don't regret it.

I will not contact, because I feel that after the breakup, being friends, both parties have character problems, and they are irresponsible to the current party, and they must not know the current party, but it will not be easy in the soul (with conscience, personality, except for negation; Except for the other party or both parties who have children), the others are not good people.

There is only one answer "can't" If either party doesn't let go of their hearts, it's another matter, there is a saying that "you can still be friends after a breakup, it's not the remnants of love, it's love itself". Sometimes the saddest thing about thinking about a breakup is that two people can neither hold hands and go all the way, nor can they retreat to the stage of being good friends.

After the breakup, I will definitely break off the relationship completely, or I will not be able to remember the losses and sufferings I have suffered. has broken up, isn't it that his value is getting lower and lower if he still contacts. Not getting in touch after breaking up is the best choice, because I have loved and hated, and I have lost my original intention of being friends.

Not to get in touch is to do it after the breakup, the days are separated.

Don't get in touch! There are many reasons for breaking up, no matter what the reason for breaking up, it means that each other is not suitable, there is no fate, everyone's thoughts are different, some people may be because they have really loved, so they will silently pay attention to him and her, so they may choose not to contact; It is also possible that the two parties will get together and disperse, after all, they know each other better, so they may still be friends, because friends may be more suitable than lovers. I used to think that I could be friends after a breakup, after all, I was once so close, the past will always pass, and the person I love is reluctant to disappear from his life.

But then I found out that only those who don't love and don't love enough can be friends, because it's irrelevant. And the person I love, I can't give it myself in the future, but I can't watch her go through her life with others.

I think it's better not to contact after a breakup, so as to avoid some unnecessary misunderstandings, and also avoid contacting each other yourself, so that two people can live better alone.

It is the best option to stop contacting, and both people can start a new life without allowing themselves to be a hindrance to the other.

First, it affects new relationships

If you break up with each other and get a new love, but you are still friends with your ex, what does your new lover think? Who doesn't feel like you're entangled with your ex? The incumbent will definitely be dissatisfied in his heart, afraid of making a triangle relationship in the pull and pull.

More importantly, if you see your ex, how can you forget the days you spent with him? Seeing him kissing me and me with others now, rejoicing, can you really have balance in your heart? Therefore, in order to better avoid this kind of sadness and embarrassment, it is more suitable for each other to stay in touch with each other.

II. II. IIand can't really forgive each other

After a breakup, they continue to be friends, which shows that someone has not let go of each other, and he does not want to completely disappear from the other person's life, so he will find all kinds of high-sounding reasons to approach each other. But as long as you have truly loved each other, then you have a place in each other's hearts, and once you break up, the damage will be deeper. The reality has always been cruel, and it is definitely not so easy for two people who have loved each other to let go of their obsession with each other and become friends.

Third, it is impossible to let go of the previous feelings

If you still have feelings and illusions in the other party, and the other party has long been dead to you, give up, so friends are worthless, it is better to cut off contact, and gradually forget this relationship as time grows.

Fourth, it will plunge oneself into deep sorrow

Isn't it true that you are still friends after a breakup and bring back everything that was beautiful and sweet from before into your own life? Why bother? The song goes like this:

Day after day, year after year, the scars of the gods are forgotten, and only when they are recalled, there is a faint sadness left in their minds, and they cannot be dispersed for a long time. The person I loved in the past is a stranger in the blink of an eye, and that love has long been gone with the wind, and it is said that it can be forgotten, but daily life is like a performance, unconsciously meeting, seeing her distant back drifting in the middle of my mind like the past, that kind of injury is indescribable. Gradually, I found that the enthusiasm and the joy had gradually drifted apart, and I could no longer love. ”

I think it's mainly because these people have a habit of cleanliness emotionally, and they can't accept their former lovers as friends.

This is because they hate each other. Before the breakup, the other party did something that hurt him, so he can't forgive the other person and doesn't want to be friends with the other person.

I think the reason why these people don't make friends is that they still have love for each other in their hearts, so they can't even be friends, and I think being a stranger is the best ending for them.

01 It is normal for couples to continue to contact after breaking up, because if you can't be a couple, you can still be friends, if two people break up peacefully, the possibility of being friends will be greater, of course, if the two people are very stiff when they break up, then don't be friends.

02 The current girlfriend or boyfriend doesn't think that you should reconnect with your ex because they think you already have a new relationship, and if you contact your ex again, it either shows that you and your ex still have a relationship, or you want to rekindle the old relationship.

03 As the saying goes, there is a quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, some young couples quarrel because of impulse, in fact, they still love each other deeply in their hearts, so as long as one person pulls down his face to contact each other, the possibility of reuniting is still very great.

04 If couples do break up in the end because of some conflicts and problems, and even some couples say all the ugly things when they break up, then it will be very embarrassing if two people still contact each other after breaking up.

After breaking up, you can't be friends because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies because you have loved each other! So I became the most familiar stranger!

You can stay with the people you love deeply, at least wish each other well.

There's no need anymore. Love is love, and not loving is not loving. Why leave ambiguity.