Hello, I would like to ask the teachers, how can I get out of the confusion in my married life?

Dude, yes, women are like this now, and I'm in your situation too, but I'm still talking, and it's a headache. Women can't get mad at me, I can't listen to what I say, it's a headache. But as a man, you should bear with it, women now can't afford to mess with it.

You work hard yourself, to put it mildly, why don't people care about these things, because she herself has regarded herself as an outsider, and your own grandparents and parents are filial to yourself. You will also be a mother-in-law and father-in-law in the future, you tell your wife, your mother's present is your future, any practice of parents has the greatest impact on children, do you see the advertisement on the ** station: a daughter-in-law brings water to the elderly mother-in-law to wash her feet, and the son sees it in his eyes, watching his mother come back from work, and washes his mother's feet with a basin of water, and the water is spilled.

So communicate more with your wife, you still have to live a lifetime, you are already relatives, why do you know so clearly. Everyone shares a little, the days are all lived, why not be comfortable, the family is happy, why not do it.

It's really hard to do, but it's good that your mother didn't say anything, but sometimes it's more worrying that the old man doesn't say anything. I know it's not easy to take on a family, but you are the pillar, stick to it, talk to his friends, relieve it through friends, or discuss it with your mother-in-law, don't hold it back, sit down and talk when it's time!

Hey, a person is humane to the benchmark, if there is no grateful heart, not a chic daughter-in-law, if it were me, I would rather not, not to spend words again, now China, the East has to be grateful to not many people, sympathy, helplessness in life, it is really difficult to solve, but I still hope you can find a good way to solve it.

I don't think it's a big deal, it's really a good life.

Everyone's marriage has ups and downs, and they will encounter difficulties, so they should be open-minded, broad-minded, look forward, and cheer up.

Whoever is married, the days after marriage are the same, banmi oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, and then you have to take the children, raise the elders, and serve your husband, basically a copy of the life, there is no difference, so don't be confused, just do it.

Everyone will have such a period of confusion, at this time you can find more friends to chat and vent your depressed mood.

Think about the reason for your confusion, find out the root cause of the problem, solve it, and persuade yourself to accept everything.

Since the two of them have come to this point, they should manage this marriage with their hearts, and the ending cannot be worse. Everything should be a good thing, it's just that I haven't done it well.

What is the point of your confusion. If you feel that it is really not appropriate for two people to confuse you, then it is advisable to separate. If it's just a small friction in life, you can still communicate with each other.

Confused about what! Marriage is like this at the beginning of sweetness, and after marriage, there are many problems that come out, you blame me, I blame you, quarrels, some marriages are more noisy and better, some are more noisy and fierce, the good and bad of marriage is completely dependent, the feelings between you, if neither of you let anyone, then the marriage will break down, if you are humble to each other and considerate of each other, then you will meet the better!

Well, play mahjong for a long time, it doesn't affect the work, it doesn't affect the family, I think it can still be played, the key is the communication between the two sides, find time to talk to him, analyze the pros and cons, don't be too tough, you can also use tears to move him, know his affection, move with reason, and then give him a certain space, such as a week or, half a month can be played once, or something.

There is a law to follow, and if you make another mistake, there is no need to negotiate. It's not worth getting divorced for the sake of playing mahjong. The prodigal son will not change his money.

I'm having the same problem as you, isn't that an old adage? Those who can work hard! Since someone believes in us, let's go ahead!

In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?

It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.