My friend and I are not in the same city, what do we do 30

Hello, I just looked at it, maybe it doesn't solve the problem, but I want to help you too. Your relationship is still grounded, and it can be seen that he loves you too, I think, you might as well go to live with him for a while and don't go to work. Relax your mind, and if you can calm down, then look for a job, first find the kind of relaxed, uninhibited, happy.

Try to adjust your mood first, slowly adapt to this place, and then think about other things. If you are ambitious, it is difficult to say, if it is average, you love him. Then you go to him, because if you are married, you have to go too.

To love him is to give. I'm sure you'll take care of it.

My boyfriend and I are not in the same city right now.

In a week we will not be a country.

Actually, there is nothing in the other place.

As long as 2 people love each other, they can persevere.

I know there will be a lot of difficulties.

But I would like to believe that people who are destined can overcome it together.

Fate is destined.

I'm going abroad, and my boyfriend is very determined to wait for me.

I'm going to go for 3 years, and my boyfriend and I have counted down to 1,000 days.

But we can be together in 3 years.

What about you? It's like no one can leave their city, right?

If you really can't give up your city or live in each other's city.

It's better to open up a new world together.

But this seems even more unrealistic.

In fact, if true love is determined, it will stay together for a lifetime.

Any sacrifice is willing.

No kind of difficulty can be overcome.

But if the subjective factor really can't overcome the objective factor.

I advise you to forget it.

If you continue like this, you will only waste each other's youth.

There are many men in the world.

It can only be said that you are destined.

He's not the one you meant to be.

When the golden wind and jade dew meet, it is better than countless people in the world. Maybe it's more romantic to change the way of thinking!

I think many people will face this problem, especially college students, because of the problem of employment, everyone will be scattered in different places. All I think relationships, including friendships, need to be managed。If physical distancing increases, you'll need to learn to use the internet to close the distance.

Nowadays, the Internet is very fast, and I think you can communicate with your friends online during your off-duty hours, and you don't have to worry about disturbing each otherBecause everyone is the same, working alone in a strange city, and going home from work is all by yourself, if you take the initiative to contact, the other party will be pleasantly surprised, and communicate with each other to learn about each other's recent situation, can also exchange work experience, unhappy or wronged can also complain to each other. I found thatGirls complaining about the same things together can enhance each other's feelings。So don't close yourself offPick up your phone and keep in touch with all your friends.

In this way, your friendship can last for a long time。Otherwise, after a long time, you will be even more embarrassed to contact.

In addition, I think that every company has annual leave or compensatory leave, and you can use this time to play with friends who are closer to you. Going out to visit friends and eating together can not only exchange feelings, but also a kind of restBecause you go to different places and meet different people, it is to change the brain to a fresh environment, which is another way to rest

Now that society is developing rapidly, everyone can only go their own way for developmentFriendship is an asset in life. So be sure to take the initiative to grab it。At the same time, we can develop new friendships in a new environment, and as long as we are sincere, we can become friends if we have similar interests.

Think about what interests you and kill time. If not, develop some hobbies, and maybe meet some like-minded friends who won't be so lonely.

It's just that you're not in the same city with good friends, it's not that you don't have good friends, loneliness is only temporary, as long as you study hard and work hard, and when you get ahead, you don't want your friends, your friends will miss you!

Try to meet other people. And friends who are not in the same city, it's good to get together once in a while. I'm afraid, even in a city, I don't have time to meet, and now the pace of life is too fast.

When you arrive in a new place, of course, you can start to gradually adapt to the new life and try to make new friends.

Actually, you are not alone, but you can meet new friends, just be very good friends with your colleagues and so on.

If you really can't let go, you can go back to them, or you can let go of the past, start over, and live again.