It s going to be the New Year, if relatives and friends tease your child to pinch your child s face,

Relatives and friends have nothing to do with it, after all, people tease children like this to express their intimacy, if you keep pinching it will be too much, I will definitely dissuade him, don't pinch the child, the child is tender.

This is basically a problem that will be encountered every year during the Spring Festival, especially when the child is young, but there is a saying in my hometown that the child's face will be easy to drool after being pinched, and I always use this reason as an excuse to refuse others to pinch the child's face, which is the kind of very resolute and direct refusal, pinching the child's face is a way of teasing the child that I reject very much.

I'll stop it. I don't think any face is as important as the health of my children. It's not just the problem of pinching the face, there are many more, such as feeding the child indiscriminately, wearing more clothes, etc., I will stop it, and even if the other party does not listen, I will take the child away and isolate it.

The Chinese New Year is a day for relatives and friends to reunite and contact feelings, especially when they see a cute baby, everyone wants to touch him affectionately and hug him, but everyone is out of love for the child, but there are really relatives pinching the child's face, as a mother, I will still remind, as long as the hug is good, he is delicate and sensitive, I think relatives will not go their own way.

I think they are all out of liking, they shouldn't be very hard, as long as the child is happy, if it is ill-intentioned or hurtful, let the child refuse by himself!

When I went home this year, I took the child with me, and my aunt kept pinching the child's face when she came, I didn't think it was anything, I didn't say anything, I kept letting him tease the child so much, I like children, it's understandable.

At the beginning, even our aunt and grandmother would stop the child's stroller when they saw someone approaching the sweet girl, and then blocked the front with two big hands: "Our little girl is easy to cry when she sees a child, please don't get too close!" "Whether it's being blinded or being slandered, we should be glad that others didn't touch our children with their hands.

If it's a relative, I'm not against it, if it's a stranger teasing the child. In order to protect children, only those who have a strong force of legitimate defense and a very resolute attitude can be regarded as qualified mothers!

When the child is young, I don't think it matters if you pinch your face or something, everyone really loves children, and if it's not good for children, they won't do it, of course, hug, whatever, it's okay.

Children are born diplomats, and with children, there will always be a good atmosphere. In addition, during the holidays, it is rare for relatives and friends to get together, and it is reasonable for everyone to express their closeness to the baby who only sees them once or twice a year.

I don't want them to mess with my child like that, and I'm not a doll, and every time they mess with my child, I get so angry that I take my child and leave.

It's nothing, I don't mind, I still like them to be so childy, they didn't hold the child when they came to my house that day, I gave the child to them.

Because pinching the child's face can cause the child to drool a lot, because this behavior of the parents can disrupt the child's oral development.

Because if you twist it often, it will cause the child's face to be deformed, causing the child to drool a lot, get oral mucosa and other diseases, so don't say that.

It is because this will cause a certain infection to the baby's **, and there are a lot of bacteria in the hands of adults, in this case, there is no benefit to the baby's**, so it is best not to pinch it easily.

Because there will be a lot of capillaries in your child's face, if your child's face may cause the capillaries to rupture, it will also cause the child's face to develop.

This is because the baby's ** is particularly delicate, and twisting the baby's face will make the baby uncomfortable and insecure.

This is because this behavior will cause the child to be particularly painful, and it will also make the child feel insecure.

Because the baby's face is very tender, and at this time his ** is not fully developed, if you often pinch the child's face, it may make the child drool, which is very bad for the baby's development.

Children's ** is relatively thin, if parents always pinch the child's face, then it is possible to make the child's face red and swollen. Slick old age and pinch the face can also make children feel pain and make children not like to play with their parents. So when playing with children, parents can take other ways and don't always pinch their children's faces.

Children also hate pinching their faces, and they feel pain when they are pinched by adults, and they feel like their faces are like a piece of plasticine, always being pinched by others. Therefore, I especially agree with this statement, parents must not pinch their children's faces when they are teasing their children. We must know that there are many ways to tease children, such as picking up children and letting them get a higher field of vision in the air, which can also make children happy and make children fall in love with this kind of entertainment.

Parents can also put their fingers in front of their children, let them grasp the fingers with their hands, and then pull on both sides, so that they can also weigh the child's grip and arm strength, so that the child's limb development is better. Therefore, there are not many ways to tease children, and parents must not tease their children in the wrong way.

There are many ways to play with children, for example, parents can read books with their children, read picture books to their children, so that children can understand what will tell you later, and they can also build blocks with their children and pile up small blocks of different shapes, such as building blocks to build a small house and a bridge. These two games are also more fun, not only can make the parent-child relationship more harmonious, but also cultivate the baby's logical thinking, so that the baby can be better at thinking, because the stacking blocks also need to think, if you don't think, the child will not be able to pile up a good-looking building block house.

Parents and friends buried in the child's play, must not pinch the baby's face, because the baby's skin is more delicate, the accumulation will lead to the baby's Tong's damage, so that the baby's redness, may also cause the baby's oral damage, affect the baby's oral development. The bureau was dissolved.

Don't pinch your child's face when playing with your child, because your child's face is very tender, and pinching your child's face for a long time will also affect your child's mouth and teeth, which will affect your child's overall development. The frequent pinching of the baby's face will affect the normal development of the baby, which is particularly dangerous. It can also cause the baby to drool, so parents should not pinch the baby's face.

My opinion is that it is best not to do this, when playing with children, do not pinch children's faces, it is easy to hurt children's **.

There are many acupuncture points on the face, and twisting the child's face is easy to make the child drool. The socks are delicate and easy to become red and swollen. Children are less timid, and doing so will frighten them.

That's not the right thing to do. If a baby's submandibular and parotid ducts are pinched again and again, it can lead to conditions such as drooling and mucositis inside the mouth. Therefore, it is not suitable to pinch the baby's face.

You don't have to let your friends, relatives or passers-by tease your child, or reprimand your child for what they think. In order to better protect the child, only those who have a strong ability to defend themselves and a very firm mentality can be counted as a mother who meets the standards!

I can stop it, and I don't feel like I'm not going to do it. I think I am the mother of the baby, and I take the maintenance of the child's physical and mental health as the first priority, which is also a regular thing, just pay attention to the way in the process of refusal, and the average family and friends will not care too much. In the case of endangering appearance and physical and mental health, and should be rubbed by relatives and friends, you should politely refuse!

Relatives and friends immediately expressed: "Please don't pinch my treasure's face, it will become a "saliva baby".

It is very easy to become crooked, and it will also grow **eczema" If there is a treasure mother who cares about relatives and friends teasing the child or pinching the child's face, she can minimize the contact between the child and others, or when relatives and friends come to hug her, inform relatives and friends that the child is a little scared, which can also prevent some embarrassment. If the baby feels uncomfortable, you have been taking the opportunity to let the adults do not tease the child to become justified, and you can also let the child himself tell the old man that he hates to be pinched face, and the child talks like that, and it is not easy for relatives and friends at home to pinch the child's face.

Be able to discuss bringing the child home, or tactfully explain your state of mind. You don't have to be jerky, just in case you make the atmosphere stiff. Mom and Dad not only need to water more and fertilize frequently, but also need to protect the child from the erosion of the storm and heroically maintain the child, so that the child can grow and develop in a safe and loving condition!

Then our parents need to go out to maintain, respect the child's heart, and don't have to let the baby think that the parents are also like these strangers' uncles and aunts to tease themselves for pleasure In that case, there will still be some abnormal harm to the baby's heart

I know, because the baby's ** is also particularly fragile, if you pinch the child's face, there will be some inflammation, and it is not conducive to the growth of the child.

This is because the baby's ** is particularly fragile, if you often pinch the baby's face, it is likely to cause damage, and it will also affect the baby's oral development.

Know, because the baby's ** is very delicate, the parents' hands are not clean, the baby ** will have a rash, plus the baby's development is not complete, twisting the baby's face will cause the baby to drool.

I feel that the child is very cute, so I will often pinch the child's face, which is particularly incorrect, and there will be infection, and even affect the development of the child's face.

Because pinching the child's face is likely to cause the child's ** to be damaged, and it is likely to lead to the child's oral development is not good.

Because this is not good for the baby, it may pinch the baby.

The baby's face is very cute, if you want to tactfully prevent relatives and friends from pinching often, we can use the method of diverting attention, you can also pretend that it is the grandparents who do not let others pinch, or you can say that the baby is not happy and will cry.

We will find that many babies have cute faces, and many adults like to pinch children's faces, in fact, pinching their faces like this is not good for babies, not only will it hurt their **, but it may also cause them to drool. If we want to tactfully discourage friends and relatives from doing this, here are a few ways to do so.

First of all, we can go through the method of diverting attention. When we find that our friends and relatives want to pinch the baby's face, we immediately go up and guide them to observe the baby's other places, such as letting them look at the baby's hands, see the baby's new clothes, and in short, don't let them focus on the baby's face. Some people just want to pinch their baby's face, and when they are interrupted like this, they forget to pinch it.

This method will not offend people either, and it is relatively tactful.

Secondly, we can pretend that grandparents don't let others pinch it, which can avoid direct embarrassment. When relatives and friends want to pinch the baby's face, tell them directly that they dare not pinch it, and the grandparents will not let them do it, and then tell the reason through the mouths of the grandparents and explain that it will drool. It is better to put the blame for this on someone else than to directly prevent someone else from doing it.

Because the grandparents did not allow it, the person concerned prevented the other party from pinching the baby's face, so that others would not be embarrassed by the rejection.

In addition, we can say that the baby does not like others to pinch his face, and every time he pinches his face at home, the baby will cry. This explanation is actually very good, I believe that no one will know that the baby will cry like this, and deliberately pinch the baby's face. If you don't want to be too direct, just say that your baby doesn't like what others do and will cry, and the average person will stop doing it.

These are some of my euphemistic suggestions.

You can find an opportunity to say it directly while you are eating together, and tell them that it is very unhygienic to pinch your baby's face all the time.

In such cases, if you want to effectively stop the behavior of relatives and friends, you should use rather subtle language to effectively stop it.

You can tell your child in a joking way that it will make my baby's face ugly, so that he will feel it himself, and it won't be like this again.

It should be explicitly stopped, or it should be said in the child's voice: "Uncle and aunt, I don't like this", and the child should be taken away.

In China, especially in rural areas, teasing children is common. In fact, this is a "reef" in children's lives, which can have a negative impact on children's psychology.

Here's why:

First, these people's interest in children is not from the bottom of their hearts, and they do not respect children. They just like to make the kids laugh. What they give to their children is not real praise, but it will make the child's self-confidence greatly inflated and become conceited. This is not a good thing.

Second, some strangers will misunderstand the gender of the child, calling the little boy a "pretty little girl" and the little boy a "cute little girl", which should also be avoided as much as possible. From the point of view of individual psychology, it is important to tell children when they are two years old whether they are a boy or a girl, and to tell them that their gender cannot be changed. This is important for their gender identity as adults.

3. Some people deliberately tease their children, and when the children show dissatisfaction or anger, they start to belittle or blame the children again. This may lead to the belief that "I'm not good enough" or "I'm not good", and this lack of confidence will also have an impact on the style of life in adulthood.

The importance of the family environment to a child's development cannot be overlooked, because through the family, the child can see the family's participation in social life. A child's first impression of interpersonal interaction comes entirely from the family environment. Parents have the courage to express themselves and uphold the dignity of their children, and children can learn courage.

Moms and dads, don't lose face and miss an opportunity to protect your children at the right time.