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For boys who are more homely, it doesn't seem to be easy to pick up. But it's not without a method. You have to figure out what the reason for his house is, and then find a targeted way to tease him.
If he stays at home because he doesn't like to socialize. If you don't participate in group activities, that is, play games in the dormitory or at home, then I think you can talk to him more and persuade him not to waste his time on such unnecessary things. Participate in more group activities and socialize with the people around you, which will also be good for your future development.
If a girl says these things to Ken, I think he must have been touched in his heart, and this girl will like him very much, and I think he will pay more attention to you. You will slowly integrate into his life, and I think maybe the relationship will be slowly cultivated.
If she chooses to choose to study or be introverted and doesn't like to get along with people, you should also guide him more, let him improve his interpersonal skills, you can, prepare some bento boxes and small gifts for her at ordinary times, so that he can feel your delicate thoughts and intentions for him. At this time, you must make more appointments to play and use all means to cultivate feelings, the boy who is more homely is very slow to heat up and is also very slow to be emotional, if you don't take the initiative, he may never find out your feelings for him, so don't think that girls take the initiative is a very shameful thing, special circumstances, special treatment, after flirting, the otaku in the love stage will definitely change.
But if you can't get him with all your might, I think you might as well give up, maybe such a homely person is not suitable for being with you, even if you are in love, if you have been taking the initiative after that, you will sooner or later feel tired of this relationship, it is better to give up as soon as possible and find someone more suitable for you.
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You can see what hobbies he has, you can also go and study, and then talk to him more when you have nothing to do.
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Boys who are too homely just don't like to talk, they don't like to go out all day long, they like to stay at home and buckle their mobile phones, play games, etc., and they don't like to communicate with too many people!
2. Find common hobbies.
I will also look for our common hobbies from the chat, I will also tell him that it is not good to stay at home, so that the whole person is isolated from the world, the whole person can not keep up with the trend, I want him to know, you should follow the trend of the world, this is very popular, people can only be invincible in the society if they communicate more, I will ask him out to eat with my other friends, which also allows him to have the opportunity to contact more people, and slowly his friends have become more, so that he feels that more friends are how happy it is, It's also a great way to get him in touch with others.
I will also ask him out on the weekend to play, sign up for a small tour group, so that he can feel that travel is a very beautiful thing, because travel can make a lot of unpleasant become happy, so that better things can be injected into his soul, so that he can also absorb the fresh air brought by nature, but also enrich his life experience, increase his knowledge and skills, so that he does not like to stay at home, and slowly follow me to go out to see, so that his soul will also be baptized, the whole person has a view of the world, life, Values are all different perceptions and perceptions!
Otaku depends on who is a friend, if you are with a person who doesn't like to talk, two people are together, it will definitely not be easy to get rid of the title of otaku, so, as long as we use a positive attitude to guide him, so that his thoughts also change with me, he has a new understanding of things, and slowly he will get rid of the title of otaku, otaku is really not terrible, what is terrible is that he does not communicate with people, in this case more and more otaku, which requires us to know his interests and hobbies, encourage himGuide him and make him more active, so that he will also do a lot of meaningful things with me.
Therefore, it is also very easy to chase an otaku, and for those you like, you can boldly chase it! As long as he likes you, he will change because of you, as long as you chat with him often and do what he likes to do, his steps will follow you closely!
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There are two ways to do this. The first way is to keep asking him out and don't let him stay at home. And is it uncomfortable?
Boys generally don't turn down girls, and even less so if you're invited multiple times. Because a boy is too homely, it's not very good. Boys want to stay at home just play games or something.
Actually, it's not interesting.,Playing games is a pretty boring thing.。 The game is a thing, and it's going to get boring when you play.
If you happen to ask him out, and then he thinks oh, it's really a bit boring at home, and he will go out with you, because the more time you spend together, the relationship between the two of you will naturally rise. Of course, you can ask him out for dinner, go to self-study, study together, and go to the library, which are all very good choices. Ask him out, of course you have to do something a little emotional.
Don't just eat or drink, communicate more and find more similarities between you. It's okay to press the road.
The second way is for you to approach the world of his house. For example, what game he plays at home. You can also try this game, become a game friend with him in the game, get acquainted with him in the game, and then chase him in reality will be relatively easy.
Because you have something in common, you have a deeper exchange.
You see, if you look at the "A Smile is Alluring", aren't they just playing games to know each other and fall in love? You can learn from the great god of Xiao Nai. Although this TV series is not realistic, it is a good method.
I'll tell you, you can give this one a try. After all, it's not easy for otaku to make appointments, and it's relatively easy for you to walk the world where he stays.
The boy is too homely, in fact, because he feels that the real world is not as attractive to him as the online world. So what are you here for? It's to pull him out of the online world and into real time.
It makes him feel that the real world is also very beautiful. You're wonderful too. It's also nice to have a subject.
It's also wonderful for the two of you to be together.
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And you have to know that you must take the initiative for the boys who are too homely, and you can't express yourself too implicitly. Because they put all the spiritual world on those few things and are still immersed in them every day, if you put it mildly, he may not be able to understand, in layman's terms, it is low emotional intelligence. So, for this type of boy, you must take the initiative, and you must be thicker when you should be thick-skinned.
If he's addicted to two-dimensional or something, you can also give him some merchandise. Because for them, this anime humanoid little gift is simply super cute. All in all, for their type, you have to take the initiative, do what they like, and die shamelessly, so that you can gradually enter his heart, of course, you must master the proportions of your work, and make him feel annoying, but the gain outweighs the loss.
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It's relatively easy to chase a boy who is too big than a cheerful boy, so how can I chase a boy who is too home, and I'll share my method below. Specifically, it can be divided into three steps:
Step 1: Mainly get close to him and build a good feeling.
Boys in the house are general, like to stay at home or stay in the dormitory and are reluctant to go out, this kind of person is generally more introverted and does not like to communicate with others, which determines that you must follow him first to close the distance.
If you want to chase a boy in Tai Otaku, the first step is to follow him to get closer, or you have to take the initiative to get close to him, and then do what he likes to do, so that he may have a good impression of you.
Step 2: Get to know him in full, especially his preferences.
For example, what he usually does at home, what he likes to eat, and what hobbies he has besides staying at home. Through these aspects, we can fully understand his character and know ourselves and others.
Step 3: Pay attention to the details and get him interested in you.
People who are relatively bored with Tai Zhai are relatively boring, but this does not mean that he is not a good person, but his personality is often more introverted, and after you gain the favor of this kind of person, you must have further action.
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The pursuit of a boy who is too home, you must understand the word "home", the word "house" is not unfamiliar to today's society, everyone must have their own understanding of home, otaku, nothing more than that, just like to stay at home, don't like to go outside, what does he do at home, why does he like to stay at home, what he may like to do, etc., these problems are all you must consider before chasing him.
To sum it up, there should be no problem in doing it.
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I don't have much personal experience with this issue, but my friend has such a successful example. When I was a freshman, I was in the same club as this girl, and I played better, and she would tell me anything. One day I suddenly showed a boy's **, it looked very quiet, she told me that she was going to chase the boy, I thought she was joking, and then I realized that it was real.
For example, a friend knows that he especially likes to play Honor of Kings at home, so she has changed from a person who doesn't like to play games to a game maniac, playing Honor of Kings every day and night, and often discusses with me, although I don't know much, but I will listen to her carefully. Because that boy is very powerful in beating the king, his friends always ask him to take it. A mentor-apprentice relationship was also established.
Friends often look for her on QQ.,The purpose is to play games together.,Because of similar interests.,So the boy didn't think she was particularly annoying.。
In the first two weeks, my friend was looking for a boy, and suddenly in the third week, my friend ignored the boy, and after two days, the boy took the initiative to send him a message and asked him if he wanted to fight the king together. My friend smiled and told me that he was halfway there, and he shamelessly said that this was called wanting to get away with it. So for a boy who is too big, you must know what he likes to do, and then go with him to do what he likes, so that the two of them have a common language, because generally speaking, the boy's personality is relatively quiet, and she doesn't like to wander outside, so you don't want to drag him shopping.
In this way, the opportunity to make the other party feel good is completely lost.
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In fact, the difficulty of chasing an otaku is really very small, for them, the lack of opportunities to deal with women for many years, often for the relationship is a blank, when faced with a woman confessing to them, most of the time will blush, and then very moved to agree to the other party.
Of course, the premise of all this is based on appearance, for otaku, they have higher requirements for appearance, so when a woman with high appearance pursues otaku, it can be said that it is effortless. Of course, if the appearance is relatively low, then it is the best way to develop in the direction of cuteness, and they are very addicted to this set.
But the best way is to get to know each other first, first of all, to determine whether the other party has a crush in their hearts, if there is someone in their hearts, the difficulty of pursuing them will be a higher level, and the second is to understand his hobbies through various anime, games, etc., when you can talk to him about some things that otaku are interested in, their favorability towards you will skyrocket. In this case, as long as you feel that the other party doesn't hate you, then there is basically no reason to fail in confession, if you are worried about failure, then you can use some hints, such as asking him to go to the movies, etc., otaku's emotional intelligence is not as low as imagined, and they will generally feel these very sensitively.
In addition, some otaku have low self-esteem in their hearts, and when they face girls, they often feel that they are not worthy of each other, and even have the idea that they don't want to delay each other, so in this case, they need to enlighten each other more, enter his heart, and help him build self-confidence.
In the end, otaku is actually not difficult to chase, the difficult thing is the problem of getting along after two people get together, getting along with otaku is a very difficult thing, ordinary people often can't adapt to their way of getting along, of course, if you don't mind anything, or think you can get along with them in harmony, then be brave to confess.
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