What kind of mood will it be if you haven t been able to repay your favor?

I feel the same way. Those who owe favors, can't pay it back, feel guilty, and always want to repay favors as soon as possible are all young, accepting favors for the first time, or "too kind" mentality.

Life is short, but there are decades, so why rush to return it?

Those who have the heart to help you don't want you to pay it back;

If you want to help you, you have to negotiate with you before helping**, or put forward conditions afterwards.

There is an old Chinese saying that great grace is not grateful. If someone else helps you, it means that you don't have the ability to do something on your own and need help.

When you can, see how many people help you? You find that there are very few people to help you. Why? Because you are more capable than others.

At this time, it is time to give back. When they are able, they may be old and need help, give priority to those who have helped you, double the repayment, and not be ungrateful. At the same time, help some people in need of help and give back to the society.

Some people with high moral standing do not need you to repay when they help you, but hope that you will be like them and help those in need in society.

I still remember Sun Li.

Xiang Haiqing, a college student who once sponsored.

Is it? Sun Li's kindness did not bring good results, but the sponsored students took a bite back. Sun Li helped him get admitted to university, but he hurt Sun Li with words. This is called inch by inch, and grace will be avenged; I only know how to ask, but I don't know how to be grateful.

Those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed.

Little Elli, Big Ellibon; People must constantly improve their personal quality and standards in order to match their moral position; Abandon selfishness, respect God and love others, unite knowledge and action, and be a useful talent for the society and the country.

That's right! It is indeed very guilty and uncomfortable to repay the favor. And I have always had a concept in my heart, that is, the grace of a drop of water is reciprocated.

Now, in order not to owe favors, I am always gracious to others, and I will repay them immediately. For example, when it was the most difficult, I took a few hundred yuan from a friend, and after more than ten days, I still haven't paid it back. I'm always embarrassed to see my friends can't lift their heads, and their faces are red and shy.

After a few days, the salary was paid, and I quickly returned the money to my friend, and in order to repay his kindness, I also bought a set of clothes and a pair of shoes for his child. Therefore, it is best not to owe favors, and if you owe it, you should quickly double it so as not to feel uncomfortable.

Look at who owes it.

Friends, you may not care much about it, and you can pay it back.

The person who hates it is very uncomfortable, and it can't go up or down, and it can't be done if you hate it.

At most, there will be some worries, which will not affect the usual mood, and it is more likely to forget.