Should attention be paid to the art of language in couples or couples?

Speak in a civilized and polite manner, be able to understand the feelings and troubles of others, do not say and say less hurtful words, and cannot be full of foul language and swearing. It is not only a requirement for the progress of social civilization, but also a basic requirement for individual citizens. A person treats people and things in his daily work and life, and what he says represents a person's cultivation and knowledge.

Be able to show a person's comprehensive quality and character. A person who is good at communicating with others, speaking civilly, and knowing politeness can be loved and recognized by everyone in daily life and work.

It should also be the case between husband and wife in the family, you can't pay attention to politeness just because you are a husband and wife, you also need to be cautious in your words and deeds, no matter how good-tempered people are, they also have a bottom line, and they feel that there is no need to be polite to others, and they speak ill of each other. In order to maintain the long-term stability of the relationship between husband and wife and have a happy family life, husband and wife need to be cautious in their words and deeds. Words like "divorce and breakup" must not be talked about when the relationship breaks down.

It is a hurt to the other party, and it will inevitably make people feel cold.

Avoid disturbing the child. For couples with children at home, it is even more important to say that parents are the first teachers of children, and the first step for children to grow up is to imitate their parents. It is also to set an example for the child and make the child a better person.

Avoid misunderstandings among elders. It is well known that the relationship between Chinese mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and if husband and wife do not pay attention to the language, once they are heard by the elders, although they will not say anything on the surface, it will inevitably be misunderstood by the elders.

The most important thing between husband and wife is to be in harmony and be able to raise their eyebrows. Some suitable topics can promote the relationship between couples, while some more taboo topics can have a very negative impact on the relationship between two people. Therefore, you must remember the taboo topics between husband and wife, and do not inadvertently hurt each other.

To sum up, from all angles, the necessary caution between husband and wife is needed, but it is not necessary to be cautious all the time, if you have been cautious, it is not normal, avoid the necessary words and sentences, there is no problem with harmonious coexistence, you must communicate honestly.

Yes, because couples need to respect each other and avoid hurting each other's self-esteem, it is necessary to pay attention to the art of language.

It should be noted that in this way will life be enjoyable, and the daily life is very emotional, and the daily life is free.

Couples and couples should pay more attention to the art of speech, because the two are very close relationships, and if you don't pay attention to your words, it is easy to affect the relationship between the two parties.

Needs attention. Couples spend the most time with couples, and even if the relationship is very close, it is necessary to pay attention to how to speak, which will make the relationship between the two stronger.

Whether it is a couple or a couple, communication between two people is always inevitable. Even if you don't get along day and night, day and night, there should always be intimate contact. Therefore, you need to pay attention to how you speak and how you do things.

Not to mention, this is a sign of unfreedom. If you like this person, you naturally want them to be happy. If you don't pay attention to art when you talk and don't pay attention to how you do things, don't you say it won't affect your feelings?

So what is the art of language? The simplest, say the words of concern. Don't be blindly concerned, but be really nice to him, hoping that the other party will listen to your words and be a little moved.

It's true that there is no such emotional intelligence, so to make a long story short, the simpler and clearer the better. Otherwise, it's even worse to be self-defeating.

Everyone has different requirements for the quality of marriage, and for a high-quality marriage, both husband and wife must have a common language. Before marriage, a common language is like a bridge, which can connect men and women of different ages, backgrounds, countries and races to form a husband and wife and hold hands for a lifetime. After marriage, a common language is a preservative of ordinary life, a lubricant to reduce quarrels, in short, a common language is very important to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.

When falling in love, two people have endless words, not necessarily because they have a common language, but more because of dopamine secretion. If you have been married for many years, two people can still communicate like friends, this is the real common language. I have seen many couples who have a big gap in culture, education and cultivation, but they can stay together for a lifetime.

In fact, there is an invisible balance between husband and wife, and if you want to maintain the balance for a long time, you need to work together to advance and retreat together. If there is no common language, then each will complement each in taking what it needs! There is also a mutual accommodation in character.

In fact, the test of whether husband and wife can hold hands for a lifetime is not to listen to what both parties say, but to see what they have done for each other! Perhaps couples who do not have a common language have long since adapted to each other's tacit understanding!

You should pay attention to the language, after all, you are the closest people, so when you speak, you should not hurt each other, and you should encourage each other instead of blaming each other.

It should be noted that even if the relationship between two people is very close, it should be paid attention to, and it is necessary to pay attention to the language skills.

Yes, this is very important, so be sure to pay attention to your words, otherwise you will inadvertently hurt a lot of people.

There was once such a couple, and the husband ran away angrily because of a quarrel. In the evening, the husband strolled to the beach and found his wife gazing at the seashore and weeping silently. When they looked at each other for a long time, his wife said in surprise, "You ——?."

The husband also responded guiltily: "You ——?."Then the wife said again:

I'm here to complain to the sea, to reminisce about the 'holy land' of my first love, and since our first sweet date was here, it should be ......here that I want to pour out my feelings todayWe have been married for eight years, in order to live, I have worked hard, at home and abroad, sewing, washing and cooking, but I rarely see you have a smiling face, and I hear you have a good word......Just because I have a bad temper, I am so angry that you run away from home, as soon as you leave, I regret it, you punish me by running away, can I stand it? ......As the saying goes, what about a hundred days of grace for a husband and wife in one day......?

Her husband was deeply moved, moved, and in the embrace, the waves of first love were reborn. Generally speaking, non-principled conflicts between husband and wife can be resolved through "peace talks", and proper words are the dissolving agent for eliminating contradictions.

The art of conversation between husband and wife is very delicate and needs to be built with love. In order to build a happy family, in order to keep love forever young, dear friends, if you are married, then you will definitely care about the conversation between husband and wife, and I recommend a few principles to you:

1) Be polite and courteous in your speech.

Husbands and wives also need to be emotionally and intellectually at the same time. Emotions are guaranteed by reason, and reason is catalyzed by emotions, otherwise life will be tarnished, speech will be extreme, and contradictions will arise. Therefore, both husbands and wives must pay great attention to courtesy and propriety in their speech.

And be strict with oneself, strive to avoid contradictions, and ensure the balance of husband and wife's life.

2) Equality and humility.

Equality is a principle of personality, and humility reflects the spiritual outlook of people. The speech between husband and wife also needs to reflect this principle and style. Neither of the two sides of the speech should be above the other, and if anyone wants to be above the other, he will reap the consequences.

People with noble qualities and couples who understand the value of love understand this simple truth very well. In their daily conversations, they never appear as dominant, never pay attention to your superiority and inferiority, but always adopt the principle of equality, a modest attitude, a tone of discussion, always and everywhere, a few words, there is always an atmosphere of equality.

3) Sweet and elegant.

Butterflies love flowers, bees love honey, this is the magnetic force that attracts each other between living beings. And the mutual respect between husband and wife, eloquent and considerate words, is undoubtedly a huge magnetic field of love. Therefore, all couples who live happily are always full of tenderness, sweetness, comfort and love in their speech, speech, and behavior.

Husbands and wives should live in love, and sweet and elegant words are the nectar of love. On the contrary, vulgar and bitter words, rigid and cold tones, will make the flower of life and love wither.

Quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House, "Eloquence Makes a Life".

If a couple or couple wants to pay attention to the language technique, first of all, we should learn how to communicate and express, no matter what happens, we should not be too impulsive, if we are impulsive, there will definitely be problems, this point should indeed be paid attention to.

The most important of these are: two people quarrel not to involve both parents, let alone anger each other's parents, even if they are very angry, do not accuse each other's parents in person, you can say that you can be alone and say that you should give the most basic respect to both parents.

Women need to be coaxed, no matter how strong a woman is on the outside, or a smaller woman on the inside, as long as she understands and tolerates more, because women are naturally sensual, they are hard-mouthed and soft-hearted. Men generally love face, just pay more attention to saving face for him when they talk, usually talk more coquettishly, and men like women to show their little women's side.

Between husband and wife, a man should humble his wife. When encountering small problems between husband and wife, they should be solved calmly. Secondly, never involve the other party's parents when arguing.

Because the parents involved in each other can be a fuse, and this is not the way to fix it, but the way to ignite it.

Don't talk with swearing, you need to learn to use means when you talk but your brain wants to get angry.

When the other person is in a good mood, you need to say something coquettish to let the other person know that you have her in your heart all along.

When the other party is in a bad mood, you don't blindly comfort them, first of all, you need to stand on the same angle with the other party to consider the problem, say what you are doing instead, and then get along with each other to solve the problem, endless comfort will not solve the problem.

Couples or couples also need to give to each other, communicate more, say more coquettish words, and consider problems from each other's point of view.

1.Don't be rude because of familiarity: husband and wife have been together for a long time, inevitably have the feeling of touching the right hand with the left hand, one party only says the first half of the sentence, the other party already knows the second half of the sentence, because both parties need to continue to learn all kinds of knowledge and care about the inner growth, the boring marriage is very lethal to thinking people, politeness and respect are the eternal premise of communication, it is each other's attitude that creates a harmonious marriage, not a harmonious marriage that creates each other's attitude.

2.Listen first, then communicate: understand the other party's ideas and starting point before communicating, you can't just take into account your own blind nagging, ignore the other party's ideas and positions, the so-called one word is useless!

3.Speak in a deliberative tone: No one likes the commanding strong dialogue of accusations and inequalities that others are always pointing fingers at them.

Speak and do things with a lot of discussion, and the marital relationship is as stable as an iron triangle.

I think couples and couples must not say anything too hurtful, and when two people talk, try to save face for each other.

When you talk to someone about your lover, you must have a proud face on your face, so that others will think that you are very affectionate as a couple.

The more intimate the relationship, the more careful it is to maintain, so you should pay extra attention when speaking, don't poke at each other's weaknesses, and what couples and couples need to tolerate each other, not tear each other down. Showing intimacy and care in language can be very beneficial to emotional warmth.

Clothes like pigs should be conscious in the small things that are usually there. Deliberately pay attention to these things, so that the language art between the couple or couple can be better and more convenient. In this way, you can make your love or relationship more long-lasting.

Don't be "unreasonable". The Chinese have a weakness and are accustomed to being "familiar and unreasonable". Because they are familiar and unreasonable, they will not pay attention to their attitudes and methods when they speak and do things, and it is easy to simply become a "straight line".

It is precisely this straight line that often inadvertently hurts the feelings of the other party. For example, because he is acquainted, he no longer regards himself as an "outsider", and he speaks regardless of the occasion, regardless of the depth, without scruples, and sometimes scolds, lacking the respect that people care about. This is especially true between husband and wife, who have lived together for a long time, and will become so familiar that they ignore each other's existence, and truly become "familiar and blind".

The degree of "familiar and unreasonable" is also even higher, and it is not easy to say anything if there is something to say, and the opening is sarcasm, sarcasm, attack, and exposing shortcomings, the language is vulgar, and the attitude is arrogant. The consequences of such an exchange can be imagined, and there is no need to say more. <>