Marriage is a custom, how to treat those excessive marriages?

There are many places where you get marriedMarriageMost of this is a local custom, and most people feel that if there is no marriage at the wedding, the wedding will be very unlively. Therefore, many people like to go to the cave room or have a wedding when their friends get married, which is very good in nature, but for some people, it is too much, it is a kind of harassment. Many people use marriage as a cover.

Doing something that makes people feel very unspeakable should be stopped. Many bridesmaids or brides turn their faces because of some excessive marriage behaviors on the man's side, although this will make the scene very embarrassing, but this is indeed what these men have done too much. <>

Don't go too far in getting marriedThis custom was originally intended to make the wedding scene more active and lively, so it should not have such embarrassing consequences. At first, the marriage was just to make the wedding more lively, but gradually this custom became tasteless, and many men did not respect the bride or bridesmaid when they got married, and always did a lot of unacceptable things to them. <>

In such a situation, neither the bride nor the bridesmaids are obliged to cooperate with these people, and for them, they do not want to be treated with such disrespect. Therefore, excessive marriage behavior is also very bad, which is not allowed. There are many brides who bring their good sisters to get married happily, but because of some excessive marriage behavior, they are very angry.

Don't go against the original purposeThis defeats the original purpose of the custom and makes everyone feel that it is excessive. Therefore, when getting married, as a groom, he should also remind his good brother not to make some excessive actions or behaviors. After all, when you get married, you want both parties to be happy and happy, this is a lifelong thing, and you don't want to affect the relationship between two people because of these things.

Personally, I think that the act of excessive marriage is a behavior without quality. Since people can stir up the atmosphere by making a proper marriage on the wedding day, it is an insulting act to make a marriage excessively.

I think these excessive marriage troubles should be strictly prohibited, and it is a happy thing to get married, but many of them are ruined by marriage troubles.

Offend public decency. Marriage troubles are a very backward and bad phenomenon, especially now that they are intensifying, causing a bad impact.

I think getting married is a happy event, but it is better to stop getting married, because many times people's patience is limited, and they can't toss the newlyweds excessively, which will make the happy event become a sad event, which originally needed a good memory, but in the end it became a nightmare.

Excessive marital troubles make the whole wedding look particularly vulgar, and excessive behaviors can make everyone very unhappy, so the wedding should have appropriate marital troubles.

These excessive marriage behaviors are irresponsible for their own marriage, which are particularly immoral, and they will not be happy even if they don't value their marriage.

Abolish bad habits. In today's society, the pursuit of equality for all, excessive marriage behavior is to some extent "cruelty" to women, which will cause harm to their physical and mental health, this kind of behavior is undesirable, and we should stop it.

The so-called noisy marriage, in fact, is a long-standing custom, probably meaning that on the day of the wedding young men and women will go to the cave room, there are some jokes that usually dare not make on the wedding day can be blatantly opened, this kind of marriage customs within a reasonable range can enhance the wedding atmosphere and is also beneficial to the emotional exchange between people, but excessive marriage has become an unacceptable vulgarity, can be called a bad habit.

Vulgar marriage troubles are often banned, and some vulgar marriage troubles can be seen on the Internet, I just saw such a news some time ago, the street is full of traffic, there is a groom official who was locked in a cage by relatives and friends, outside the cage is a basket of eggs and a bucket of green paint, the groom in the cage is tricked to wear only a pair of shorts, the buddies who usually play together take eggs and start attacking, the head and body are full of egg liquid, and then a bucket of green paint comes down from the head to the bottom, the whole process makes passers-by stunned, Stopped**.

In this process, it is a kind of vulgar and ** behavior, a cultivated person will not use such a marriage trouble to add atmosphere, and a cultivated person cannot use this way to participate in other people's weddings, I think this kind of marriage trouble is indeed a bad habit, should be managed.

Marriage trouble should have a reasonable degree of marriage trouble can not be called a bad habit, the reason why it can continue for many years, there must be a reason for its existence, young people love to play and get along well, a little too much joke is understandable, especially on such a joyful day on the wedding day, everyone is okay to joke together, but this degree must be grasped well, beyond a degree it becomes vulgar, and good customs have become bad habits, Therefore, I also hope that those who do not grasp the scale of marriage trouble can control their behavior, and don't let the wedding scene become a monkey.

To sum up, reasonable marriage troubles are not bad habits, but excessive marriage troubles should be considered bad habits.

Marriage is a custom in some places, I actually have to be similar to the hole room, the purpose is to make this marriage more lively, but now it has slowly changed its taste, some unsightly tricks have also appeared, and even some are really unbearable, so I think it is really a bad habit now, and it can be abolished, because marriage is a sacred and solemn thing, so what is the mess, as long as it is lively, some people take the opportunity to bully the bride and bridesmaids, It's really unbearable. Ruining a grand wedding is completely unacceptable.

Troubled marriage, also known as "noisy bride" and also known as "noisy cave room", is a wedding entertainment method that has been retained by Chinese folk since ancient times, and a blessing performance to the newlyweds when they get married, which can be said to be in order to render the wedding atmosphere, which is not a bad habit.

The traditional Chinese wedding customs and allegorical forms are very beautiful, but in recent years, some places have made inappropriate use of "troubled marriage", so that "embarrassment" has become harm, and fun has become a spoof. On the road of promoting the process of social civilization, we must not forget these beautiful customs and customs, let alone create our own vulgar so-called "wedding games".

The custom of the haunted house will not be unfamiliar to the friends, whether it is relatives and friends or they are married, there will be a haunted house or the phenomenon of being haunted by the hole. In fact, the custom of the haunted cave house can even be traced back to the pre-Qin period, and it is still circulating until now, so the haunted hole house has a very long history, and this custom has a very great influence even all over the country. But in some places, there are some excessives in the holes, which are simply some vulgarities.

Theoretically, as long as the degree of the cave room is not too excessive, it can be used as one of the ways to set off the atmosphere, but once it is excessive, it is vulgar and needs to be abandoned.

"Troubled marriage" is a lively behavior before marriage, which can completely bring out the atmosphere of the wedding, which is not a bad habit, but a product determined by Chinese culture.

Marriage refers to the "bride" also known as the haunted cave room, which is a way of wedding entertainment preserved in ancient China, and the groom's relatives and friends will go to the haunted hole room, I think this is not a bad habit, as long as the scale is maintained.

Marriage is what we often say about the meaning of the hole room, in fact, it is a good blessing to the newlyweds, I think if the normal marriage is not a bad habit, if it is some unreasonable or even vulgar marriage behavior is a bad habit.

"Marriage" refers to the noisy house of relatives and friends. This is a time-honored custom, not a bad one. It's just that now some people have to keep the bottom line when they are in a hole and can't spoof.

Marriage, that is, when you get married, someone is playing with you, joking, simple marriage is not a bad habit, excessive marriage I think is a bad habit.

Marriage is the act of some good friends playing tricks on the groom when they get married. Although this can enhance the atmosphere of the marriage, such behavior will have a negative psychological impact on the groom.

I resolutely do not allow this kind of scene to appear, this kind of marriage trouble is too **, I hope that my wedding is harmonious, lively, and can leave good memories.

There's nothing I can't accept, as long as there is a marriage trouble, I won't accept it.

Many Chinese do not respect marriage.

It is enough to take the marriage certificate, register the marriage at the Civil Affairs Bureau, and tell everyone that you are already married.

The last thing I can accept is the drunkenness, which I don't think is good at all.

The custom of getting married is not found everywhere, but if I want to get married, I definitely can't accept it.

I can't accept these chaotic customs, because I think, I think everybody's ugly.

I think that the current marriage custom is completely incomprehensible, and if someone dares to do this to me, I will directly turn my face.

I don't accept it, I think I will definitely understand the situation here before this, and I must say it in advance, I think if it is very excessive, it will turn around.

Marriage is a vice. A lot of boys take advantage of the opportunity. Some people also think that if they are drunk, they may make a big fuss.

Many people feel that getting married is a big event, so they don't want to be unhappy. But many people have captured this mentality. So it's even more unscrupulous.

So you should turn your face on the spot.

It's bullying the bridesmaids, because now almost no brides are bullied, they are all bullying bridesmaids, because the bridesmaids are almost all single, and they are also the targets of being bullied, which is very bad.

What kind of marriage troubles are normal, rational, and worth advocating? Regarding marriage troubles, Duan Xinxing believes that rational marriage troubles should be advocated. She said that the marriage owner requires a lively scene, and the companionship is not only in line with traditional customs but also in line with the psychology of young people, which can not only increase the heat of marriage and love, but also set off the atmosphere of the celebration.

She expects that some easter egg programs can be set up in the form of marriage troubles: such as naming the future baby, guessing the fit of two people back-to-back, flying flowers and other literary dramas, allowing couples to do some guessing games, body language expressions, and important date games. Zhang Jing also supports advocating rational marriage troubles.

She believes that people's economy and living environment have changed dramatically, and the form of marriage should become more civilized, such as making a commemoration for the bride and groom, carrying out various talent shows, and recalling the details of the bride and groom when they first met, etc., "This should be advocated through civilized and interesting forms to highlight the festivity and liveliness of the wedding scene." Duan Xinxing, a psychology expert, professor and doctoral supervisor of the School of Public Administration of China University of Mining and Technology. Photo provided by the interviewee: How to avoid vulgar marriage troubles in weddings?

Psychology believes that social customs have a strong inertia, and the change of individual behavior will be greatly touched, and the social situation will affect the choice of individuals. As for how to avoid vulgar marriage troubles, Duan Xinxing gave the following suggestions.

The first is to communicate well. The first is to communicate with the master of ceremonies, and when arranging the wedding process, try to avoid some vulgar and harmful wedding troubles into the process. Second, the parents of both the bride and groom should clearly indicate their relatives and friends, especially those who like to make troubles.

The third is that newcomers should communicate with their friends in advance to avoid outrageous behavior. Fourth, if the newlyweds come from different places and have different customs, they should fully communicate before arranging the ceremony, and be clear about the other party's bottom line and unacceptable parts, so as not to be embarrassed at the wedding. The second is to start from the Li family, hold a special and interesting wedding, pay more attention to the newlyweds in the wedding process, try to be short, and do not leave enough space for marriage troubles.

In recent years, Zhang Jing has noticed that the Ministry of Civil Affairs is advocating a crackdown on vulgar marriage troubles. She suggested that to avoid the emergence of vulgar marriage troubles, it is first necessary for the local civil affairs bureau, women's federations, neighborhood communities, etc., to jointly launch actions to stop vulgar marriage troubles, stop the bride price, stop the acceptance of wedding gifts, and prohibit extravagance and waste, extravagant weddings, etc. Second, it is possible to adopt the method of criticism and education or public security administrative punishment for cases of vulgar marriage troubles, and detention may be taken for those who infringe on personal rights and property rights.

Thirdly, the society should also help young people establish positive marriage customs and etiquette that are in line with the positive energy of the society, and strengthen publicity, reporting and guidance. In addition, the form of group weddings can also be advocated to effectively avoid extravagance and waste, and avoid vulgar marriage troubles.

In recent years, with the rapid development of the Internet, the problem of marriage troubles has also been widely understood, and of course it has also caused a bad impact, so how to reduce marriage troubles? The main points are as follows.

1. Go to the dregs and trees to seep into the cave and fresh air.

Changing customs is a change in behavior and habits on the surface, but in essence a change in values, which is a "big problem." "Old" is a thousand-year-old legacy and "big" is in thousands of households. Party committees and relevant departments should take the initiative to take the initiative and act actively, subtly change the old customs that are out of place, and implant the new fashion of the people's pure customs in the silent moisturizing things.

2. Formulate township rules and regulations.

To put an end to the bad habit of "vulgar marriage troubles", the key is to change customs, and towns, villages, and communities should call for auspiciousness to formulate township rules and conventions, promote civilized and harmonious wedding forms, carry forward traditional excellent culture, and prohibit marriage troubles; At the same time, a wedding supervision organization composed of representatives of the masses was established to supervise the form of weddings, to stop and criticize and educate the vulgar and vulgar marriage troubles in a timely manner, and to guide the masses to gradually abandon the vulgar marriage troubles.

3. Establish a bottom-line awareness.

From a legal point of view, a marriage disturbance is an act of "going out of line" against the marriage partner at a specific time and place with the express or implicit authorization of the person being troubled. However, it still needs to be made clear that the person who has been involved in marriage has only given up part of his rights, and marriage trouble does not mean "doing whatever he wants, without a bottom line".