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Some people are very selfish by nature, and they can't be tolerant of selfish people with magnanimity.
You have to be more selfish than them, so that you can get a psychological balance, which is good for your long-term life in the future, since you have time, then you can take it according to your own ideas, there is no need to hand over the child to others, the child is still young, there is no need to suffer so much, if you want to endure hardships and exercise, you must wait for the child to have a sense of self-protection and then give it to the mother-in-law, so that it is not easy to die, and you can also get the opportunity to exercise and endure hardships.
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It's okay if you don't go home, or if you do odd jobs. By the way, hone your will.
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Students, it doesn't hurt you to read more extracurricular books. And go out and get in touch with more people, after all, your future sky is more than just home.
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A good man is ambitious in all directions, you don't have to be too homesick, find something to do for yourself,
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If you don't go home, you can study, you can also go to the movies, the time in school is so long in a lifetime, you have to go home, but don't go back every week, you should be out and have more contact with the world.
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The guy was stunned for a moment, and said to the camera: "During the Chinese New Year, I finally didn't call the spring to go home, and there was no one at home!" The guy's words hit the tears.
After speaking, he immediately turned his head and wiped his tears with his hands, this situation is really moving.
Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents go, life is only the way back! Life is short, how long can we stay with our parents?
Ten years later, when I left home at the age of 18 and went out to study, and then graduated and worked in other places, I finally understood that if I didn't spend the next few decades of my work and life with my parents, siblings, it would be meaningless.
So I resolutely quit my job in a first-tier city, became a member of "Escape from Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou", returned to the third-tier city where my hometown is located, and worked hard from scratch.
In the past few years, my career has just improved a little, and although I don't have as much income as before, my happiness has increased a lot.
Every weekend, I can take my children to their parents' house and have a small family get-together. When there is a happy event for relatives in the family, you can share the joy of witnessing their lives. Whoever needs a hand in the family can rush over immediately, this is called life!
In the past, when I was alone in a big city, I didn't have a relative, so I could only call me alive.
I have a cousin whose parents are both farming families, but he is very good at reading, and he was admitted to university, and after graduating from university, he went on to graduate school and later pursued a doctorate. When he was in his thirties, he taught at a university, then went to the United States to develop, and now he teaches at a university in the United States.
After more than 30 years of training by his parents, he went abroad to work for foreigners. Gave birth to a child in a foreign country and the child got a green card. After that, the time to return to China to visit relatives became less and less, and he could only return to China once in a few years.
His parents are old, and if he comes back once every three years, he has seen his parents less than ten times. Is it really worth it?
I believe that where there is a family, there is happiness, and without a family, even if there is a good life, it cannot be regarded as true happiness.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be filial and does not wait!
Parents are aging faster than we thought, and every time we come home we see an increase in the gray hairs on their heads. In your lifetime, if you can spend more time with your parents, try to spend as much time with them as possible, and don't let yourself regret it.
Where there are parents is home, there is a home, and children who have a home are happy; It's the New Year, go home early and give it to yourself.
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