Teenagers about the question of courage and face

The school you're in isn't a good school either! Good students don't stir up trouble, let alone gather people to fight! I won't feel honored to fight!

It's not glorious to fight, it's glorious to be angry and study to be in the top ten of your grade! Don't treat fighting as an honorable thing, the teacher can't control you, if you get into trouble, the police and handcuffs can control you! If you don't pay attention to discipline today, will you dare to defy the law tomorrow?

When the time comes, it will be too late to regret it! I advise you, as well as your brother, to take care of yourself, do something serious, and don't let your parents worry about it anymore!

As for face, I have always had a good face among my classmates in junior high school because I have always been a top student. Now that I've graduated from college, I have a decent job and a good income.

There are many people on the other side, and you can run and fight at the same time, and use sports warfare to drag down the opponent.

Of course, you need to have good foot strength and fighting skills that are better than them, so that you can win even if you are beaten by dozens of people

But the best thing to do is to tell them that you're poor, that you don't have a penny, so that even if you beg them to beat you, they won't beat you

I'm still a student.

The student years are simple and complex. Simply due to immaturity; Complex because it begins to mature.

So what kind of student is the most face-saving student? When I was in school, the most face-saving students were the students with good grades. The simplest, most straightforward and widely accepted criterion is grades.

If your grades are good, no one will mess with you again; Of course, you don't want to mess with people.

When a group of people come to beat you, the best thing to do is to run, and waiting there to be beaten is not only faceless but stupid.

Alas, how many people beat you together? If you don't run and tell the teacher, won't you stand and let them beat you?

Your classmates laugh at you because they have no empathy. If they were, they might still be on their knees.

You have not lost your face, so why should you look for it?

I suggest you still don't retaliate. Read your book well. Don't miss your future.

It's just that you are so cowardly, so you don't even dare to go out of the door, so you have to muster up the courage and just sing? If you can't sing well, others won't treat you like that? Face issues?

That's because you care too much about going out? Don't you dare? Why don't you dare?

Don't give up halfway or back down in whatever you do, you only know when you try, no matter what you do right or wrong, you just have to work hard.

Hehe, I started like this too, exercise a lot, and when you wake up and your friends praise you'll have courage.

I used to be timid and didn't dare to speak in front of people, but now I'm not afraid of life at all. You have to remember that people are not always staring at you, what should you do! You just think they can't do anything about me anyway, right? Hope it helps.

,, You're thin-skinned, I'm afraid of losing face.

First of all, the skin is thicker than the city walls.

Be careful to sail the ship of ten thousand years, beauty, although it will not be good not to be swaggering, but there is definitely peace.

Find a friend to go out with you so you can help each other too. Now in this society, it is not possible to break through at all! One more friend, many roads!

It doesn't matter, be strong, and after the bottleneck period, you will find that you can endure anything.

Being able to fight doesn't mean being bold, I think it's not good to fight, make more friends, communicate more with others, so that you can exercise your communication skills, which is also a manifestation of boldness.

Are you a boy or a girl? If you want to be brave, you can try not to fight back when someone hits you. Just stand there and let him beat him、、So sure it's exercised.。。。 If it's a girl, you should go up and fight back without mercy.

Fighting does not mean being bold, sometimes it can only mean that your heart is very weak is not a sign of being strong, boldness and timidity only lie in the fact that you are not hesitant to act when you have to do or want to shoot, to be truly strong, you must first be strong in your own heart.

You don't want to fight a few fights and get bold, do you?

First of all, you have to see, what is the reason for your timidity?

If you are not physically strong, please exercise and not be afraid of hard work until you feel that as long as you work hard, you have nothing to fear!

If you feel that you are not smart, seize the time to study, and are not afraid of hard work until you feel that you use your brain, you have nothing to fear!

If it's a matter of feeling face, please do more good deeds! Not afraid of losing face.

If we can do it, we should be about the same!

Go to the sanda and other fighting training grounds, put on the protective gear, and fight hard with other friends, knowing how to be beaten and how to fight, you are not afraid of anything.

A harmonious and strong country, first the quality of citizens, then the development factors, today's society, is a rapidly developing society, nowadays, the important thing is to strive to improve personal cultural literacy, do things practically, for people to do things without panic, no matter who it is, to take one step at a time, so that you will not see the way back, wrong can turn back, you can also adjust yourself again to work hard, so, it is very important to do yourself, don't care about other people's opinions, you are living yourself, not living for others, hope, can help you.

Hello, happy to help you with your questions.

Isn't the problem of society just the problem of people? Society is made up of people, and there are really many problems in our society, including the integrity problem you mentioned. If you want to change these problems in this society, it is easy to say but difficult to say.

Can thousands of years of thinking be changed if it is said to be changed? Time is the best catalyst. Aren't our generation, your generation, all newborns?

I think it's enough to be yourself, we all understand those big truths, and we all understand those things that should be done well, but why don't we take action? Maybe it's because of the face problem that you are waiting for the leader to appear, maybe it's because other people's gossip makes you lose the courage to act, or maybe you haven't thought about it at all! With the change of this generation, we have the ability to teach the next generation what to do, and time will tell, right?

Hope it helps.

o(oThank you!)

Personally, I think introversion can be overcome, mainly how to make yourself cheerful and confident. Cheerfulness and self-confidence are also multifaceted, and they are not something that can be solved in a short period of time. But I think many things can be changed, including personality, so I'll just make a few brief points:

First, watch more comedy movies, sketches or cross talk to increase your sense of humor and cultivate your happy mood. Think about it: in your own casual sentence, say that the customer laughs, what kind of achievement is that?

Second, you can read more celebrity autobiographies or success stories, learn about the growth process of celebrities, and most importantly, learn the mentality of others in the face of difficulties.

Third, you can communicate more with colleagues, take the initiative to communicate with customers, and change from passive to active.

Fourth, if you have the conditions and time, you can join some social welfare groups, learn to help others, and also experience the joy of helping others. For example, it can also come to other people's doubts, which is also an achievement (personal opinion).

Fifth, you can do something within your ability, such as pouring water for customers, lighting cigarettes, etc., in fact, some small actions, customers are often very fancy.

Sixth, you can find some common ground between the customer and yourself, talk more about the customer, and then resonate. Won others, and achieved yourself. What you have to do is to let the customer listen to you, not what the customer asks.

Then go together to **, which can achieve the purpose of your sales.

Seventh, be a good listener. Sometimes it is not a rhetoric that can deserve the customer, but also a matter of proportion and timing. Therefore, occasional listening is more worthy of the trust of customers.

Eighth, we must learn to face it and not run away from it. Since you know your weaknesses, you must improve them in a targeted manner. As a salesperson, your words and actions will affect other people's buying thinking and desire to buy.

Well, that's all for now, I hope it helps!

One. There is a saying "we are all forced", there are not a few salesmen who can come up to talk to customers, everyone is honed. I have a friend who is almost introverted with you, doesn't talk much, went to be a salesman at the age of twenty-four or five, complained to me every day, said how he couldn't do it, said how he said it wrong at the time, if it was said that it would be good, it's all these, 28 years this year as a manager, very good, asked him how he came over, at that time he couldn't say anything big, it's been a long time, and a few times I didn't want to do it, but for various reasons I have been mixing in the company, and I mixed it out unconsciously (of course, it's not that it's really a messy day.) , something to do).

If he had retreated at that time and had not done it, he would not have achieved what he is today. You can think of the client as an old friend, and your friend wants you to help him design, so start with the friend's needs. No one is very good at communication from the start.

You can also participate in more crowded gatherings to adapt, especially some friendships, group blind dates or something is better, because there is more need for communication.

To sum up, first of all, insist, identify your position, and keep doing it, there is always a period of time at the beginning that is not good, and slowly it will be fine (everything else is like this), and then you should have a stable mentality, be familiar with your work, and improve your confidence.

Two. There is another sentence, which I saw from the barriness, the author said that after listening to it, it will be used for life, that is, "the whole country is shameless, what do you have to be afraid of".

You're humorous, young man! When you say timid, it's just a lack of exercise! Get out and get in touch with the people and things around you, and you'll be very skilled at interacting with people!

You yourself know that you don't get much exercise at home! As I said, practice makes sense! No matter how much theory you learn, if it is not tested by practice, it will not become your real theory, just a bunch of words! Moreover, after a long time, if you don't use it, you may forget it!

When you wake up every morning, tell yourself, tell yourself with your heart, and speak with your mouth! "I'm the best! I'm excellent!

It's better to say out loud that after 21 days, you'll have a surprise! You will be able to communicate with people smoothly! Your performance will also be effectively improved!

Your previous problem wasn't a problem at all!

Remember, just one thing, insist on telling yourself every day!! "I'm the best! I'm excellent! ”

Seeing what you said, I'm almost the same as you, talking to strangers, I'm nervous, especially talking to my boss, I'm very nervous, very scared, let alone talking, seeing my colleagues speak very fluently, and I don't dare to speak, every time I'm ugly, very embarrassed, colleagues will encourage me, it's okay, but there is still pressure, I'm afraid that next time I still can't say, in fact, sometimes, I have to force myself to go down, it will be better, although I will still be scared now, but as long as I try to have the first time, It should be done slowly, I'm getting over myself now, you should put more pressure on yourself, come on, let's work together,

In fact, you are similar to me, you will be more introverted when you have acquaintances and raw people together. In fact, you care too much about yourself, and in fact no one will pay that much attention to you, but you think that way. Don't be afraid, isn't it just to talk about business, and it's not to do things that are not bright.

Remember one thing: no one cares about themselves more than you do.

The best way and the way to improve your courage are: 1. Change your own image, and with confidence, you will have more courage; 2. Read more books on speech and eloquence, and understand a truth, everyone works in this society, do not speak inhibitively, neither humble nor arrogant, and full of self-confidence. 3. Others won't treat you well, the big deal is failure, don't be afraid, on...

After doing it for a while, keep reading the book and write down the important things yourself; 4. Prepare a notebook, record the content of each day, have a plan to do things every day, have goals, plan according to your goals, start with the easiest plan, and complete them one by one, you must be the best, believe in yourself. 5. CBA theme song "Believe in Yourself" Learn to sing it, go out and sing it once a day, OK You are not far from success.

Salesman, you have to lower your figure, introverted and introverted will be better. The key is to be talkative, nothing to practice in front of the mirror, the most important thing is to be proficient in business, you are skilled in business and have the confidence to sell to others, just say what others ask, smile confidently!! It's going to get better slowly.

I believe that the customer will also understand the salesman, and will not embarrass you, what do you dare not do!! You just think that if you don't dare to pull customers, you won't have the money to support your family and honor your parents, how much pressure is this, turn it into motivation, and just start to bite the bullet! It would be nice if there were more people in contact!!

Tell you, be thick-skinned and not afraid of losing face. Even if you lose face, as long as you work hard, you will always be recognized by others.

It's okay, for the first time in this business, most of the time is like this, you have to silently say to yourself every day: I am the best! You really need to be thick-skinned to do this, cultivate it slowly, and you will definitely succeed!