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If you are a boy, your uncle tells you that men cannot pursue happiness, some just work hard, be strong and unyielding, and cripple, grit their teeth and stand up. Your back will become a myth, and happiness will follow. Like what***.
If you are a girl, you have to protect yourself, appreciate the good things, and make yourself beautiful. Don't touch dirty things, don't try to break in, that will only hurt you. In this way, you too will be happy. For example, Xue Yunxi.
Finally, I wish you good health.
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Me neither. I don't even have a good memory when I grow up this big.
How to say, happiness is still there, but it may have a little impact on future love:
For example, men who may like to be more mature have a sense of dependence on their boyfriends and are insecure about their relationships.
But it's all the little things.
It's not that there would be no happiness in the world without a father's love.
The world is still very happy!
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I'm sure I'm going to be happy, so how can I think I won't be happy?
Happiness is earned by oneself
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When you feel that you don't have a father's love, have you ever thought about it, some children don't have parents, and some children are always pressured by their parents. Happiness is not how much you have, but how much you cherish. Comfort yourself psychologically.
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Happiness is to be fought for by yourself, and there is no gain without hard work.
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One, it's not the right one. White-collar women in the city don't look down on country men, and white-collar men don't look down on country women, resulting in a good match, which directly causes two people to not be happy, but if there are too few people who really love each other, they are simply single.
Second, the circle is small. Now there are only a few girlfriends or buddies around many people, and after getting used to getting along with them, they will feel uncomfortable when they see others again, and they still feel comfortable with their closest friends, so they have been single.
3. Parental reasons. Nowadays, many people say that from elementary school to high school, parents are required to keep their ears open to the outside of the window and focus only on learning. As soon as I get to college, I have to have a golden beetle son-in-law who has been talking for more than two years, and there are too many blind dates and too little true love, and instead of falling in love, it is better to spend time working and making money.
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The reason why the post-90s generation is single: small circle, busy work, and too perfect for love fantasies.
The survey results found that small circles (40%), busy work (15%), and overly perfect love fantasies (12%) are the main reasons for the post-90s to be single. In terms of gender differences, in addition to small circles, the main reasons why men are single are introverts and unsociable (busy at work (and unsatisfactory economic conditions). The main reason why women are single is that they are too perfect for love fantasies (busy with work (and introverted and unsociable).
More than 8 percent of the post-90s are eager to change their single status, and men are more eager to get rid of singles than women. That's pretty much it!
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There are economic, family, and social problems.
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Love to play, gnaw at the old, can't do it at work, and can't get tired, and the heart is higher than the sky, and resolutely don't do that kind of tiring work, and there is no idea of saving money.
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There can be a variety of reasons for people who actively choose to be single, such as:
1. Personal interests: Some people may choose to be single because of their personal interests or the pursuit of freedom, and they prefer to have more time and energy to explore their interests and hobbies, pursue career success or travel adventures.
2. Marriage concept: Some people may choose to be single because of marriage concept and family background, they may think that marriage and family are not necessary elements of life, or have specific views and attitudes towards marriage and love.
3. Economic pressure: Modern social and economic pressure is greater, especially in cities with high real estate, many young people may delay marriage and love because of economic pressure, and choose to be single to reduce pressure.
4. Love experience: Some people may choose to be single because of past love experiences or wounds, and it may take a while for them to repair their mental and emotional state, or find a more suitable partner.
In conclusion, there may be a variety of reasons for people who actively choose to be single, which need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. We should respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, not impose our values on others, and let everyone be free to pursue happiness and fulfillment.
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In terms of proportion, there are not many single-parent families, but due to the large population and technology of our country, the proportion is actually very low, and it seems that there are quite a few.
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Turnips and cabbages have their own love, If it were me, I might not accept it, but I can understand this kind of year-old love, because everyone's needs are different, and his concept of love may be different, for example, a boy lacks maternal love when he was a child, then he is likely to have love for those who have maternal care, so when choosing a mate, he is more inclined to find those who are older than himself.
Fate is a very strange thingHe may involuntarily make you fall in love with someone, and you can't tell why you would fall in love with someone much older than yourself, all in all, everything is so sudden, love comes too quickly, like a tornado, sometimes it's a sudden storm in the clear sky.
From my personal point of view, I think there are still a lot of problems between this kind of year-old love, the age difference is too large, so as you get older, this problem will be stretched more and more obvious, and eventually it will become a difficult to recover exercise in front of two people, for example, in another 10 or another 20 years, a person in the prime of life will face an old companion, what kind of mentality is he at this time? Will he still maintain the same feelings as he did at the beginning? It's hard to say.
To sum up, people make different choices, we respect those who forget their love, but if I were to choose, I might choose my life more rationally.
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If it is acceptable to love each other sincerely, but on the premise of acceptance, you should think about it if she can't have children, and when she gets older, she may be more likely to get sick earlier and cause a burden to the family, if these are acceptable, I believe that you are true love, then what reason is there not to be together?
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The post-90s guy fell in love with a single mother in his 40s, are you willing to accept this kind of year-old love? If it were my son, I would never accept not marrying a wife for the rest of my life, and I would also help him go like this, you are the mother you married, you are still the daughter-in-law you marry, well, you will be thirty or forty in the future, she is seventy or eighty, he is fifty or sixty, who is ugly who? Who's taking care of whom?
Well, isn't that equivalent to marrying a mother? I don't accept that at all.
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I won't accept it, after all, it's too big, and sooner or later the post-90s guys will dislike themselves.
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I definitely can't accept it, but as long as people can accept it and think it's true love.
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Hello landlord, for such a situation, and a single mother, I think it is unacceptable, maybe I am more traditional in my thinking.
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I can't accept it, I think this kind of love should not be real, it may all have a plan.
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Article 3 of the Marriage Law clearly stipulates that other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. Falling in love and getting married is a personal matter, and as long as it does not violate the law, others have no right to interfere. The love between a post-90s guy and a single mother in her 40s should be respected and protected if there is no legal prohibition on it.
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Short-term love will be very happy, when the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea of life need to be run-in, it is difficult, the consumption concept and experience are different, there are more and more disagreements, and the disgust and love of both parties are unbalanced!
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Acceptable, it's okay with me anyway. You take it easy.
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I don't want to accept it, the age gap is too big, maybe there will be real feelings, but time will break this feeling apart.
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Don't accept it, this may be done on a whim, but after a long time, there will definitely be various problems.
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As long as two people truly love each other, don't care about age, and don't care about boundaries, I'm okay with that.
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This kind of love is called family affection, and it is acceptable to recognize the godmother.
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You're just saying it's in love.
You haven't seen anyone married.
How do you say this?
Love is theirs.
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First of all, it's not that someone else wants to, it's not that someone else can't find it.
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I think most of the post-90s generation is willing to be single now, how good it is to be alone, without having to think about the feelings and thoughts of another person, and feel at ease.
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It's not a taste to be single for a long time.
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