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Hello landlord, your behavior is not confident.
First of all, you can make some friends online. It's not the same in real life and online. You can talk about yourself very comfortably in the network. In real life, however, you have to bear the pressure of studying. You'll need to make friends who match your personality.
If you are not confident, you can read some books to improve your courage, and try to raise your hand to speak in class, even if you are wrong, no one will blame you. As for classmates, you have to open your heart. Share your feelings with your classmates
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Hello I think you should know what you are afraid of others laughing at you, whether it is the figure, looks, studies or something else. In fact, everyone has shortcomings They also have their favorite topics and disliked topics There are many topics that classmates can talk about Girls talk about clothes ** Idol dramas Boys talk about football, sports, etc. I think you can have a simple chat with your table mate between classes Even if it's a question you don't understand, please be busy at the same table and you can solve it You are just afraid of being laughed at But in fact, is anyone really laughing at you? A lot of times it's us who make a circle for ourselves, stay in it and refuse to go out, and as long as you take a brave step, you will find that everyone is actually very friendly, and you have a lot of advantages.
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How old are you? Boy or girl?
You can calm down and do your own thing, and when someone talks to you, don't be too cold, or wonder why he is talking to me and why he is saying this.
When you are kind enough to accept the initiative of others, you can take the initiative to interact with others.
What is the reason for the lack of confidence?
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Don't care about other people's jokes, just be a kind of motivation. If you want to be confident, you must have a strong heart, so that your heart becomes strong, and you will not be afraid, cowardly, and timid. If you want to be strong, you must work hard to train yourself, have the courage to challenge yourself, constantly try to innovate, not afraid of failure, care about gains and losses, and only if you let go will you be able to accommodate more.
I used to be a person who didn't have self-confidence, I didn't know what I wanted, I was afraid to contact new things, I didn't dare to look into other people's eyes, I couldn't express my thoughts when I spoke, I didn't know my future was **, I felt very lost, I couldn't find myself all the time. Until one day, I realized that I couldn't fall into myself like this anymore, I had to face myself again, otherwise I would really be hopeless, I had to change myself. To change oneself is to be thorough, from the inside out, to change one's face and be a new person.
First of all, I found a thing that brought me luck in **, that is, the light blessing bag, I have heard before that the light can bring good luck to people, can bless people, and make people better, shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said that this is the most popular thing in their store, and their store is called to help you get rich. With such a lucky object by my side, I am even more determined to change myself. I began to communicate with everyone around me, boldly say my thoughts, bravely look into the eyes of others, show a natural smile, bravely try new things, only after trying will I know the fun, will I find a different self, it turns out that I can do the same.
Gradually, I found that I was different, I would smile unconsciously on the corner of my mouth, I would express my opinions in crowded places, and occasionally I would show my singing voice in the song hall, and I would get praise from others, which I never thought of before. I really became different, confident, brave, strong, and said goodbye to my inferior, pitiful self forever.
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Self-confidence comes from within, and when you are gradually enriched, self-confidence will follow. The more this situation is, the more we have to get in touch with society and communicate with the outside world. When you reach a certain level, no classmates will make fun of you because they don't dare to make fun of you anymore.
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