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In fact, everyone will experience confusion, and they all have it. Confused is not knowing the direction, not knowing where to start, you can feel it so much I believe you must think of borrowing early to change, of course, change is difficult, it takes perseverance and courage. Just like you said about your dorm buddy, I can boldly guess that your buddy must have an extraordinarily introverted personality, and you must have a slightly introverted personality.
In fact, if you envy someone else's today, why don't you turn his today into your tomorrow. Life is confused, mainly because you have no goals or ideals and ideas but have not done it, will you have a crazy day in the Internet café back to the dormitory but feel sad, and try to do a day in the library and find that it is indeed very fulfilling to go back? You're still a young sophomore, if you have an idea, you do it, no one will laugh, no one will say, today you take a step, maybe not very beautiful, but the next step you will be 100 times more wonderful than the person they didn't!
In fact, this is my summary, no one teaches me, that's how I got through college, but I studied finance, and now I am in the company step by step, and I have never walked through it! I think everyone will feel that after working hard for the goal, you will find that feeling is endless, and it will be your capital to show off and be proud of!
Confusion in life is inevitable, and the achievements after taking a step to solve a problem will be more flavorful than after the Internet café is crazy!
Of course, it takes perseverance to do things, so let's go with that buddy of yours more, maybe it will be beneficial! Of course, when the environment persists you, then maybe your path will be slower than others, and I myself am an example!
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Hehe, you will experience, maybe you are confused about the direct future, but you must not lose confidence, goals, ideals.
It's a good choice to encourage yourself, because you have to walk out on your own, and no one else can help you. Can only advise you.
Here's a piece of advice: don't pick, don't choose, don't give up (you can learn anywhere) School is like a mother's embrace, when you get out of your arms, you still have to face it yourself.
Always remind yourself what to do, it's only temporary.
You still have a long way to go!
I hope these words can help you, and also help all the confused people.
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There is no necessary connection, after graduation, the various officials are not necessarily the best, of course, they are not the worst, everyone has their own place in the end.
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If you want to study well, devote most of your time to it. If you want to improve your relationships, participate in more activities.
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CAD those shortcuts are familiar with the keys, find some drawings to follow, look at the works of peers, and when you draw more pictures, you will find that the landscape design is really similar to his sister. If you have nothing to do, just walk along the road to see the street trees, color ribbons, or go to the flower and tree market, and I can't remember how many times you see them at a time. If you really want to do this line of gardening in the future, it is recommended that you go deeper to learn ps, as well as the modeling software.
You have a lot to learn, how can you have time to be a Maomao official.
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1. Balance your studies and life.
There is really a lot of free time in college, but there are still people who feel tired and lack of energy. Mainly because it is too easy for us to turn "pastime" into a kind of "consumption".
We cut our time into pieces every day, and after completing some necessary things, the rest of the time is not to quietly read this book, or listen to the classics, but to choose to swipe the mobile phone and play games.
In fact, playing games is really a particularly big internal friction, and it requires no less concentration than you do in learning.
After all, eating, drinking and having fun is only a part of life, and learning and life are the whole.
As Mr. Lao Shu said: "This matter will not be successful, let alone others." ”
Since our current task is to study, let's do a good job in this part first, balance study and life, and don't lose big because of small things.
2. Have self-judgment and don't lose your "self".
There are many clubs and departments in the university, and some people have a more swaying personality and like to move with the wind, so they often have the behavior of following the trend, thinking that whoever is in our dormitory, which department or club has been reported, then I will also report it, don't waste time for useless clubs.
I should come first, my judgment, my decision, my thinking is crucial. After all, you will only do what you feel like and what suits you.
Otherwise, I always feel like I am missing a few screws, and I can't do it loosely.
The reason is that I am really not active, but at first I couldn't stand the encouragement of my friends, so I ran to report it when I was hot, and then I felt that it was not suitable.
I'm also in college now, I think you should keep studying, college is a great place to study and practice, if you really think that what is taught in school is useless, then you should not just be satisfied with what is taught in school. In addition to knowledge, you can also practice other skills in college, such as communication or management. >>>More
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