I m confused about my future, I m confused about my future, what should I do?

To be honest, I'm in a similar situation to you. I just graduated from high school, and I've been studying hard, but my grades have never gone up. But I never gave up.

Even with the 30-day countdown to the college entrance examination, I already knew that I was no longer capable of achieving my goals, but I still insisted on studying, and I didn't skip class and go out to surf the Internet like the rest of my class. In the class, there were a lot of people who despised me. I said that I was not a reading material, but I still didn't give up.

I still remember that time, one of my tutors said to my parents. I'm the most serious kid he's ever met, but I can't get this grade. To be honest, I was so happy when I heard that.

I'm still studying hard. Hearing this, you may say that I am stupid, and yes, in the eyes of others, I am indeed stupid. But in my own eyes, I feel like I'm a strong person.

I've had a college dream since I was a child, and I've always been fighting for my dreams. Today, however, the ideal may only be a thing of the past. But I don't regret it, at least I fought for my ideals.

When I just graduated, I felt really uncomfortable, I couldn't help it, life was like this. I've been looking for a better university lately. I've figured it out, I'll wait until I'm going to graduate school to get into my dream university.

I've said so much, you know what I mean. Indeed, as long as you feel right, you should persevere, and don't hold back because of the cynicism of others. In this life, you don't have to be able to achieve yourself only through the college entrance examination.

I know that no one wants to kneel at the bottom of society, and we need dignity. You remember that when you are better than others, you don't need to ask others to respect you, others will naturally respect you. All roads lead to Rome, and perseverance for the sake of their ideals.

Everyone has a time of confusion on the road ahead, once we are in such a period, we must quickly return ourselves to normal, so as not to delay the pace of progress. So, what if you are confused about the future? Let's take a look. How it works:

Take a break. We may be too tired recently, and our thoughts have been confused, at this time we might as well let ourselves temporarily stop moving forward, rest in place for a while, give ourselves a little vacation, maybe we will be full of hope for the future again.

Know how to talk. Many times we suppress something in our hearts, these things make us feel very lost, do not know how to deal with it, at this time we should learn to talk to someone, and seek a solution, so that once we move the big stone in our hearts, we can naturally continue to be on the road with ease.

Set goals. Some people are confused because they don't know what they want. If you can't find a way out at the moment, you might as well set yourself a goal and go for it. Then we will become scrappy.

Read good books. If you really don't know how to go in the future, you might as well read some good books to see how your predecessors were successful, how they were freed from pain, and how they came through confusion. Learning from our predecessors, I believe that we will also break through the haze and see the sunshine.

Calm down and think about it.

When you feel very confused about the future, you will be very anxious and irritable, at this time, calm down and think about it, think of practical methods, and make a plan, the more specific the plan, the better, so that the implementation will be effective.

Many people have been confused, you need to calm down and think about it, sometimes work is just to survive, only survival can be said to be ideal!

Ask familiar and unfamiliar friends around you, Fa Xiao and classmates, see what they are doing, whether they are experiencing the same as themselves now, but don't find someone who is the same as yourself to get together and complain to each other, that will only make you more confused, but to find someone who is currently mixing well, or who is working hard for their careers, or who have just harvested love and are successful in their careers, and have a good chat with them! Look at their current state of life and break their current ways, maybe it will have an impact on themselves!

Determine the direction of future employment, the best way to determine the future employment direction is not to change jobs frequently, at this time what you should do is to ask friends around you for advice through books, the Internet, to understand the nature of a position, content, prospects, current situation and other basic information of the industry, when you understand these clearly and then make judgments will be more accurate. ‍‍

Confused about the future is because you don't have the ability to make your future life better! Maybe it's because today you're still worrying about how to survive, you don't have the extra heart to feel other things, you repeat the same life and work every day, and there is no progress, such days are scary. Think about what kind of life you want to live the most, set yourself a small goal that can be achieved, and then set a longing future, you need to have the motivation to achieve, then give yourself a little motivation, life is only once, you can be rich a little, and it is not in vain to come to the world to walk! ‍‍

Learn a skill, when you decide on the direction of employment, don't rush to find a job, the most important thing to do now is to learn relevant skills, so that you can find a better related job, and it will be easier to get started in the future.

Originally, I had no contact with public welfare, but under the influence of my friends, I slowly began to get in touch with public welfare. When you are confused, you can do some public welfare, go to see which children need help, go to teach them, look at their eager eyes, you will find that in fact, compared to them, your life is already very good, and your soul will be cleansed, so as to be full of hope for life and work!

It's normal to be confused, and Jack Ma also had times when he was young. Since you don't know where the future is in, you might as well stop moving forward, calm down and seriously review the years you have gone through, and summarize your past gains and losses, such as what you have gained over the years, what you have learned, what mistakes you have made, what you regret the most and what your original dream was. Maybe give yourself some inspiration.

When you find yourself confused, something special must have happened, either a mistake in your work or a bad life. In short, I must have been wronged in my heart, this kind of grievance wants to be said but finds that the right person can tell it, when I silently endure the grievance alone, people will be extremely vulnerable, and often think about why they are the way they are now! At this time, if someone can listen, your grievances can be vented, and people will return to calm relatively quickly; If there is no one to talk to, then give yourself a vacation, find a quiet place, or a lively place, in short, it must be a place where you can divert your attention, empty yourself, to put it bluntly, let yourself not care about the confusion. ‍‍

Approach life with a positive and serious attitude.

In the course of everyone's life, we will always encounter such and such setbacks and difficulties, and our cognitive ability of the natural world, society and life is limited, so there are often times when we are exhausted.

But life has given us an answer, and how to make life a perfect answer, we need to enrich our knowledge, skills and talents.

In study and work, we may feel very tired, but today, with the rapid development of information and science and technology, and the fierce competition for talents, we have no choice but to complete our studies and work tasks through active and serious efforts, and master one or several life skills and work skills in order to be invincible in today's society.

Everyone has been criticized in front of a teacher or a boss and they are constantly saying, "See what you're going to do?" If you don't study well, you won't be able to use technology!

Classmates and colleagues will laugh at you for your clumsiness. Do you think about it, what self-esteem do you have when you get into this field? If you can't go to a higher school, your salary is small, and your family life will be difficult!

What to do? Facing life with a positive and serious work attitude and life attitude - charging, on the one hand, we strive to study and study various scientific knowledge, on the other hand, we can master several survival skills and work skills, and we must exercise interpersonal skills, make achievements in academics and create in our work, so as to win everyone's respect! At the same time, it will also be accompanied by an increase in wages and an improvement in family housing, so that you will have a good living environment.

The road of life is very long, we must face the hardships and pains, difficulties and ups and downs in life, we are brave and will never be crushed by the unsatisfactory in life!

How far a person can go depends on your circle, and if you want to integrate into the circle and continue to go to a higher circle, it depends on your emotional intelligence and thinking. So it's good to have a little bit of mixed interests, because you can avoid being just a listener.

It's normal to be confused, and I once felt lost, whether it was in school or in society, and reading would worry about my future job or future. Towards the society, we will face a lot of choices, the best way is not to be cranky, going with the flow is the best way, as the saying goes, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, everything has a solution, don't worry. ok？

Many people will be like this, that is because they don't have their own dreams and goals, try to set goals for yourself, but not too hard, and you will feel that life is meaningful.

Hello, everyone will encounter times when they are confused. Don't know how old you are? Have you tried to change these confusions? I hope to know more about your situation so that I can better help you.

Have a good talk with your father, really!

It's rare to be confused, cherish and enjoy it.

Everyone has this time, because the future is unpredictable, what will happen in the future, no one knows, sometimes people don't make themselves too tired, the plan does not change quickly, you think about the future things no matter how beautiful, don't you still live in the present, do what you want to do now, everyone's path is their own choice, as long as they do this thing If they don't regret it, it's OK, it's useless for others to say anything, the most important thing for people to live is to be worthy of themselves, confused because they can't see themselves clearly, Think about what you really want, what kind of life you want to live, work in that direction, don't think too much, even if it doesn't achieve the results you expected, but I believe that in the end, you will feel that the process you go through is much more meaningful than the final result!