What should I do if I am about to get married but I don t feel for my boyfriend?

Before getting married, I don't feel that I can only make do with life in the future, basically everyone will experience marriage, but there are very few who can be truly happy, and now there is still a chance to choose, don't force yourself. Since there is no feeling, there is no emotion, and there is no love, so it is good for each other to separate. ‍‍

Numb. Normal. To put it simply, it's aesthetic fatigue.

Marriage is just about living a life for ordinary people. Do you love him? If you don't love it, let it go!

Don't hurt others and yourself. If you stay together, I would say that one day, you'll still be separated. Love is not something that will come out immediately, and if there is no heartbeat feeling, there is no possibility of continuing.

I think at this time, you must re-examine yourself, calm down and think about it, what is the problem? If it's true that you don't have feelings for your boyfriend anymore, you should talk to your boyfriend and see what he thinks.

I suggest adjusting your state as soon as possible, it may be caused by your own psychological problems, at this time you need to get the love of the other party the most, you can tell each other your current thoughts and state, two people work together to find a way to get rid of such a state, with the best attitude to meet their happy marriage hall.

If you are reluctant, you must bear to leave, otherwise you will both be hurt in the end! He is reluctant to let you go, you can't do without that habit, but where will the relationship between you be? Have you thought about it?

If there is no heartbeat anymore, then let both parties be free, get together and disperse, and don't end up unhappy! Even if you are reluctant to give up, you must follow the feeling of your heart.

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis. As for people, they can't always be greedy for novelty. And to keep the feeling of being in love forever, it is impossible.

As for people, they have to learn to adapt at every stage of life. You also have to work hard to play each different role. Only in this way can you be a winner in life.

So, maybe come and feel it. Even if it's not the feeling of being in love, the concentration of emotions hasn't decreased.

In fact, it is a good emotional experience to be able to go from falling in love to getting married. Everyone wants to have a good process and a happy ending. Entering marriage is actually a new stage of life.

It's a little different from what it used to be, and it's a matter of course. So, your attitude towards your boyfriend has to change. Because, you are about to become husband and wife.

From the beginning of the vigorous, to the current ordinary. ‍‍

The feeling of being in love is essentially the action of dopamine. Just because you don't feel in love doesn't necessarily mean you don't love him anymore. After the feeling of love, it must be mutually supportive, interdependent, and inseparable from each other.

I think you need to look at yourself from that. Of course, there are also some people who are constantly chasing the feeling of being in love, and one relationship does not feel and begins to repeat the next one. ‍‍

The union of marital issues in life is the most important thing, and marriage matches his family prosperity and career success. If the pair is not matched, the family will be decayed, the people will be sick, and the wives will be separated. Therefore, before you are unmarried, you should be cautious, serious, and careful, and do not act rashly.

If you don't accommodate, if you don't accept, forget about it, break up early and be happy, and choose another branch.

Then don't get married, even if you get married, you won't be happy.

When you are reluctant, so disappointed for a lifetime, make do with marriage is not a temple, often leads to the grave. In the end, each other is in two directions, marriage is not a child's play pretend, there is no agitation of love, so what's the point of slowing down the rhythm of half a beat. Think carefully about whether you can spend the rest of your life together, unless only you will shine.

The only one who can choose an object, and he will not put his hand at any time.

Love is a matter of 2 people, marriage is a matter of 2 families, is there some run-in in the matter of marriage, specific problems are analyzed, communication must be communicated first, if you really don't feel for each other, or think clearly about whether to get married.

If this is the case, it is better not to get married yet, so as not to harm the family, and make it clear to your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend doesn't feel the same thing, then you should tell him, what happened?

Analyze the reasons, list the reasons, and inform the other party if they can solve it, and break up if they can't.

Fortunately, I haven't gotten married yet, so it's still too late for a day. Be sure to choose carefully.