Let s talk about a detail that the opposite sex made you give up dating him?

I clearly remember that my girlfriend last year, on the last day of separation, my girlfriend told me to break up, she said that she already had another person, she had changed, and told herself not to insist, that night I cried all night, and the next day my eyes swollen into pandas.

He doesn't like hygiene, he dresses sloppily, and on a date, I saw that his nails were so long. Soldier.

When you're with other friends of the opposite sex, you'll say you're a single dog.

will deny your existence, and when you are together, he will actually tell others that he is single now. This kind of behavior of a man has violated you, and it has reached the level that you absolutely cannot tolerate, what you have to do is naturally leave him and let him regret it for the rest of his life.

Speaking of fitness, he said that this feeling was deceptive, which made me think that this person was conservative and old-fashioned, so he gave up the idea of wanting to develop further.

A man does not accept all your kindness, and he turns a blind eye no matter how much tears and sweat you give. If a woman finds that a man denies you, you have to know that he is indeed not a good man, or that he does not let you see his good side in front of you. You have to go with the flow, after all, you can't guarantee that all men will love you and make every relationship work out, right?

You must know that a man ignores you because he doesn't treat your contribution as a give, just like a man will not love someone he doesn't love, and he will never be tempted by a person he hates. If you don't leave, you can only get hurt, this is your helplessness, and it is also your chance to leave in style.

Speaking ill of your ex. Now that you have chosen to leave, then you have to break it cleanly, and there is no need to speak ill of your ex behind your back, which is not only disrespectful to the other party, but also disrespectful to yourself. And a man who will say bad things about his ex in front of you, you don't think how much he loves you, so he will say bad things about his ex in front of you, in fact, he is just narrow-minded to say this, maybe after you leave him, he will also say bad about you in front of the next one.

Others bully you, but he doesn't know to protect you. You find a boyfriend just to love you, give you care, and protect you when it's critical, rather than finding a man who blocks your heart and worries about everything.

We talk to each other every day and say sweet things as a way to strengthen our relationship with each other. When you are chatting with the other party on WeChat, before you say a few words, the other party replies to you with a sentence of "I slept", at this time, you are chatting with another person!

A quiet and gentle girl, but suddenly scolded her parents, which was extremely ugly. Although there will be some small frictions in life or relationships, these frictions can cause a woman's small emotional outbursts. But no matter what, it's absolutely wrong to scold your parents.

I'm "she": I only drink a certain brand of yogurt, don't eat soy food for spicy mixing, don't eat fried, don't eat when I'm angry, don't eat when I'm sick, and don't eat when my aunt is in pain. Angry stomach pain, sick stomach pain, big aunt stomach pain, hungry stomach pain.

It always gives me the feeling that "I definitely won't be able to feed her". I guess it's the details of the food.

I only like to receive gifts from you, but I don't like to give you gifts. Such men tend to be lazy and lazy. He likes it when you order takeout for him, and he doesn't like it for him to pay for it himself; He likes to watch you give or someone else give, and then he sits back and reaps.

Such a man often does not know to give you a better life, which also shows that he lacks a sense of responsibility without him.

It is unreasonable to make decisions for you domineeringly, thinking that your ideas are always wrong. It is hateful and terrible for a man to make decisions for women, and he thinks that all your thoughts are wrong, which means that he really does not have you in his heart, and he just treats you as a dispensable existence.

In a relationship, security is too critical for a woman. And the sense of security is often something that only men can give to women. If it's in this relationship, he'll always do all kinds of things that make you feel insecure.

For example, I have been very close to other women, or I have been lazy and have not had the slightest test score. This kind of behavior undoubtedly makes you feel insecure in this relationship. Once he gives you that feeling, you're leaving.

Low-quality relationships are never as good as high-quality singles. If you are happy every day, but in a relationship, he will always make you cry and make you sad, is this relationship really meaningful to you? Not at all, if leaving a man makes you happier, then I don't have to hesitate at all.

Maybe at the beginning of the relationship, everyone wants to show the best side of themselves to the other party, but when the two have been together for a long time, it is logical to see the most real side of the other party. At this time, if the other party sees your true side, only your own dislikes, then do you have to hide yourself in its face for the rest of your life?

watched such a movie, which is about a woman who gets up early every day for her husband to get his nails done, and has never let the other party see herself with naked makeup, and she is perfect for all things in the house, but this kind of man still betrays her in the end. Therefore, it does not mean that if he can accept your good side, he will definitely cherish it, and he will definitely give you a future. Only a very small number of men who can accept your most intuitive side can know how to cherish you more.

If you feel that there is no motivation to move forward in life, you feel very sad, very uneasy and entangled, and feel particularly insecure, then you can choose to leave.

If a man gives you three feelings, in fact, he doesn't love you, please be brave enough to let go. The feeling of self-doubt A good love is when two people support each other, encourage each other, and become a better version of themselves together.

In the process of being with a man, you feel very lonely, or you feel that you are not loved, then you can leave.

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You are the "trash can" of the other person's negative emotions

Have you ever had such an experience, the other party is always confiding in you about his disappointment, and over time, you will want to escape from the other party.

You are the one who often suffers from cold violence.

The other person doesn't trust you.

The most direct manifestation of coincidence to distrust is suspicion, and suspicion is the greatest damage to the relationship, and no emotion can withstand suspicion and suspicion.

You lose the desire to share.

Feelings are built on communication, and the best communication depends on sharing with each other. If you lose the desire to share in the relationship, it means that the other person is not giving enough support and response.

You have to change for the other person.

The other party always says, "This is for our good, as long as you can change something" As a result, you change, the other party also changes his mind, and even begins to complain that you are not as good as you first met.

It is certainly very difficult to give up the person you like. But since you have decided to give up, you have to make up your mind to do it. Time is good medicine, and it is destined that this period of time will also be very difficult, and it requires a strong heart to bear it.

Learn to forget, don't talk about him, make new friends of the opposite sex, make yourself happy, and naturally drive away the haze in your heart, not afraid of losing someone, but afraid of not meeting a better one, as long as you find someone who can play a role in his place, you will naturally not take him to heart. People, there is always a problem of liking the new and hating the old, which is nothing, after all, it is summarized by psychology, and it is better to believe it.

Keep yourself busy while you're still enthusiastic. Don't let a favorite person be at the mercy of your own life, you should love life and live for yourself. To do something you like, to put in one thing, you will concentrate on thinking about it, and emotional problems will naturally gradually fade away.

You can also go to listen to a ** meeting, a drama, divert your attention, and discover the funny sense that life brings you. Writing down your life is also one of the ways to calm your mind. Find a faith and use prayer to decompress and share your worries.

Why not get in touch with nature, learn how to shoot, and maybe even tap into your potential.

Don't look for shared memories, which will only add to your pain. If you decide to give up, you have to deliberately avoid it, and over time it will form a habit. Slowly fade, it will fade from life.

Value the friendship of friends, go shopping and play together, eat hot pot and go to the playground, dress yourself up beautifully, and live with another mentality.

Are you really going to give up? You don't need a reason to like someone, but you don't need a reason to dislike someone. I really found that it was not suitable, and if I made up my mind to give up, I must give up completely.

Even if it will be sad and heart-wrenching to let go of this feeling, it is still necessary to be decisive. Feelings are the most taboo and indecisive. If he or she knows what you want, then go and explain it to him or her, and put things clearly under the sun, so that there will be no more misunderstandings between the two people.

If you can, go to a new place. Give yourself a change of mood, a change of environment, and then start your own life. It's a bit of an escape, but that's okay, we just need a buffer period when the most intense and difficult period of emotion is over and everything will get back on track.

Time will ** everything. Don't underestimate the invisible and powerful thing of time, it is like sand in your hand, no matter how tightly you hold it, it will be lost. The things, people, or things around you will gradually disappear with the passage of time.

Give yourself some time, don't be too anxious, the deeper the scar, the longer it will take to heal. Hurriedly pulling seedlings to help them grow will leave a legacy of trouble. It depends on how deep the love is, it can be as little as three or five months, and as much as a few years.

The feelings that are really mentioned cannot be easily let go. Especially when liking a person becomes a habit or an obsession, it will take longer.

Keep yourself busy, live a little more every day, and have less time to miss. Go to events, go out with friends, develop a hobby ......Find something to do, even if it's chasing dramas and playing with your phone.

Sometimes the pursuit of a person of the opposite sex wants to pursue, but it is impossible, then we can only give up. In fact, sometimes it is very simple for us to give up pursuing someone, as long as we divert your attention, then it will be easy. It's not so easy to divert attention.

In fact, time is a very magical thing, and many things will fade after a long time. If you like it very much, but you can't pursue it, as time goes by, then your liking for him will slowly be diluted. If you are a student in school, you can focus all your energy on studying, find fun in learning, and slowly the feelings of the opposite sex that you like will slowly fade.

If you're a worker, focus on your work and hang out with your friends. Don't calm your brain and don't be in the blank space. If you are not in the mood to miss you and like the opposite sex, then you won't think too much about him.

Gradually, as time goes on, you will give up on the opposite sex you like.

You can also transfer targets. Transfer to another person. This can't be said to be your heart of flowers, although you like him, but you want to pursue another, it does seem to be quite hearty, but you know that you can't pursue it, but you pursue it hard, that's a helpless result.

So you can shift the target appropriately, so that you may find in another person that the opposite sex you originally wanted to pursue is not as good as you think. <>

It's also pretty simple to give up on someone, as long as you want. Especially when I'm concentrating on one thing, I forget about the other. So it's very simple to pursue a person of the opposite sex, concentrate on another thing, and time will draw an end for you.

It must be difficult for everyone to forget someone they have loved, but time is a good medicine, and no matter what it is, it will pass with the passage of time.

There are always some things in real life that can't have the best of both worlds, how difficult it is for two people to like each other, most people are you like me, and I like him, but in the end, there will be someone who will stay with us in the end, and those things that we once couldn't let go of will become less important with the passage of time. Sometimes it's important to learn to give up, because for a person who doesn't like himself, his love will only become pressure on others, so when it's time to let go, you should let go and let yourself be a person who can afford to take it and let it go.

If you decide to give up on someone, it may be that you are very disappointed in him, so don't think about him, and when you have saved up enough disappointments, it will not be so difficult to give up. Don't force yourself to forget a person, because if you do force yourself to forget, the easier it is to remember, you can let yourself relax, go with the flow, do what you have to do, you can listen to some brisk **, you can also exercise, go running, climb mountains and ......Do all kinds of things that you can do to vent your feelings. You can cry when you hurt, you should be strong after crying, don't just slump, life is short, you have to do something quick to make yourself happy.

You can go to some art classes, learn to learn, art, play piano ......Go to listen to the ** meeting, go to the movies, travel with friends, and talk to friends about their hearts, these things, can make your vision more long-term, more open-minded, in short, is to keep yourself busy, when you are busy, there is no time to think about other things, with the passage of time, the person or thing you cared about before may not be so important, you may look back, you will feel that you were too stupid at that time, know that you have been in pain, but have long forgotten the feeling of heartache.