What did your partner say made you very uncomfortable?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The other half said that I don't care if you live or die, you can bear your debts yourself, I think it's very uncomfortable, we are two in-laws, as if it was a matter of one person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you really want to think so, I can't help it! ”

    Why do you ask so much? What's the use? ”

    You can't be annoyed, whatever you want! ”

    As long as I hear my boyfriend say these things, I want to hit someone, if it weren't for the fact that I love you, I would be full every day to take care of you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Every time I quarrel and say that I want to break up, the most unacceptable thing is to break up at every turn.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My daughter-in-law often complains to me: "Your mother is becoming verbose and stingy now". Mom is old, and sometimes she says it a few more times out of kindness, and I also hope that we don't forget important things, about stinginess, people who are dozens of years old, you always loudly refute what she said in front of others, and you don't even have the least respect, who can accept it?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Okay, okay, you're right. "Can you really be duplicitous, if you are not satisfied, just say it, as if you have been wronged.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My girlfriend said to me, don't come to me now, I'm going to work hard to make money, but I'm very sad because isn't it faster for two people to make money?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes, a sentence will make me feel chilled instantly, my boyfriend said the most chilling sentence I think is "whatever you want" just yesterday, the landlord asked him "Do you want to go to him during the Dragon Boat Festival holiday", and he said, "Whatever you want.""Then the landlord said: Whatever I want? He said:

    Well, I said: Then what am I going to do, it's boring to find myself? He said:

    Am I wrong again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think you understand me at all. "Background: At that time, I bought a toy cockroach to scare her, and the couple was playing with each other, why did it get to this height, I didn't think much about it at first, and after a week, I knew that she was just looking for a reason to get out of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My first boyfriend said, "The reason why I fell in love with other people and became the way I am now." It's all because you like me too much, are too accommodating to me, and don't control me strictly, that I am becoming more and more courageous, and I don't blame you for being too good to me.

    I was stunned. When he was with me, he fell in love with another female classmate in the same class, and he laughed and beat that girl in front of me every day. Hehe.

    It's really the deepest shadow of the most beautiful years.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The saddest words are the painstaking flattery, meticulous care, in exchange for a sentence of "boring". The two of them are in a different place, sending text sentence by sentence, voice by sentence, sharing an article by article, favorite funny** frame by frame**, her always cherishes words like gold, good, well, yes, no, as if a word is really a word, no emotion, and the three most emotional words make me disheartened, the appearance of these three words makes people breathless, the three words are like a knife pierced in the heart, and every breath will cut a new wound. Helplessness and disappointment tell me, forget it, what reason is there to hold on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    His sister said me to his face, and then I got angry and left. The next day he told me that he went to his sister to theorize, but his sister cried, and he said that he relented when he saw her crying. I instantly thought, can everyone do this to me as long as they can cry?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because I don't agree with my mother-in-law's personality, my husband often says to me, "That's my mother, you let her order." "There's nothing wrong with that, but I'm just feeling bad.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I remember that after separating from my ex, I was still a friend, mainly because I couldn't let go, and there were still thoughts of luck and reconciliation. Once made an appointment to go out to meet, and the two of them exchanged the meeting time and distance. I asked him how much time it takes to get from your school to the MixC?

    He said an hour, and I think it would be about 40 minutes for me to take the subway from school. So I said you can tell me when you get in the car, so that the time is right for us to meet. Later, he miscalculated the time, and it was half an hour away, and he kept scolding me in the message on his phone, and I stayed in tears on the subway.

    I keep apologizing, I say I'm sorry, but I'm on your own page. (Everyone knows that the subway running time will not change) but he didn't listen, he was very angry, and waited for me at the appointed place for ten or twenty minutes. Later, when I got out of the subway, I saw a look in his eyes that I will never forget.

    There's disgust, disgust, impatience, and dislove in it and I know he really doesn't love me anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because the child is small, he needs someone to accompany and take care of him! So when my children were young, I couldn't go out to work all year round! He said that I will not make money by eating his and using his, and making it delicious!

    I almost died of anger, and then when my child grew up, I went out to work to earn money, and he said that I didn't even want the children's family to earn that money! It's useless anyway, it's not good to do anything, so I've lived my own life and made a different fireworks! Man:

    You have made a record for me, women are also human beings and parents of life! It is also dignified and responsible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In relationships, it is common to feel uncomfortable. Because there are many people who can't control their emotions after falling in love with each other, there are some things that they can't figure out, and they feel extremely uncomfortable. Today, I would like to tell you how to face these situations.

    We must not listen to the poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, some people say that when your boyfriend or your girlfriend makes you feel particularly uncomfortable, they don't really like you. In fact, sometimes it's just that you can't figure it out, and you don't have anything to do with your object, if you just judge that the other party doesn't like you because of this, you will suffer extra when you fall in love in the future. When we are in love, only we know the ups and downs, so don't use other people's emotional experiences to bring them into your own feelings.

    What matters is the attitude of the other party, if the other party comes to coax you immediately after you are sad, then what do we have to be angry about?

    First of all, we can think about whether we are too sensitive, because everything cannot be said to be too good, and the other party may also be in love for the first time, so there are some times when we are not particularly right, then we can bring it up in time, don't be too angry. When we feel that this matter is particularly serious, we can vent our emotions to our object, and when we vent it, we can deal with it calmly.

    In fact, when I was in love, there were also uncomfortable periods, most of which I didn't figure it out, and then I felt that this was a very small thing in itself, but we were too much of a bull at that time. It is recommended that everyone must give each other some tolerance and understand each other when they are in love, everyone cannot do everything perfectly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In a relationship, if your partner makes you feel uncomfortable, it may be that there is a communication problem between you, or it may be that he is not the person you are looking for, and he can only bring you negative emotions and make you make a quick break.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes. Two people will inevitably have quarrels and conflicts in their relationship, and I will feel sad and sad when conflicts occur. But when the problem is solved, everything will be fine.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Good love is warm and sweet, if your other half makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to compromise, separation may be a better choice.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No. Because my significant other loves me very much and never lets me be wronged, it doesn't make me feel bad.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, he will take care of his emotions very much, and he will not allow himself to be angry, and will often make himself happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It does make me feel uncomfortable, but it's only occasional, and the two of us are mostly sweet.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the sweet period of love, two people may look at each other, which is more unpleasant, and maybe the other party is just a small action, which will make you feel very disgusted. And everyone has different requirements for the other half, and maybe the other half will make some behaviors that make them feel unhappy. In a relationship, my boyfriend does the following behaviors that make me feel uncomfortable:

    Personally, I think two people need to respect each other when they are together, so I will ask his opinion before making a decision, but when he makes his own decisions without asking my opinion, it will make me feel more uncomfortable, feeling that he may not care about my feelings, and may not want me to know about it, and think that he may deliberately hide something.

    When the two of them were chatting, they said three sentences, which may correspond to three things, but he only replied to me about two of them, and for the other thing, he chose to avoid answering and ignoring what I said, which made me feel a little uncomfortable, I think he may be running away from something, or he just doesn't want to at all. If you don't see it, it's too perfunctory.

    Personally, I hate that he doesn't say anything before he does something, maybe the two of them are chatting and chatting, and suddenly the person disappears, and then after a long time tells me what he just did, this thing makes me feel more uncomfortable, I feel that I am not cared for, and the other party does not pay enough attention to myself.

    The above is only a personal point of view, in fact, after the conflict, two people need to communicate well, and say the words and deeds that they feel the other party should not mention when they do something, and after communication, the other party will also notice their own behavior. How does your significant other make you uncomfortable in a relationship? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Do what you don't like. In fact, girls will feel particularly uncomfortable in this situation, of course, there will be some boys who feel the same way in real life, but no matter what, this situation is definitely not good.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because he always does something that makes me very sad unintentionally, I will be very uncomfortable and very sad.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My partner recently had a check-up and was found to have a tumor, which made me very uncomfortable.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Men and women treat emotions differently, so sometimes when I am arguing with my love partner, I hope that the other party will come to coax me, but the other party will have a cold war with me, and I will feel very uncomfortable at this time. Because the purpose of looking for our other half is actually to find someone who can take care of us, not to find someone who can reason with us. So, I find it hard not to feel bad about my partner when I'm in a relationship.

    1. Home is a place of love, not reason.

    Two people build a love nest together, in fact, they both hope to get warmth from the other half. But there is a saying that love is easy to get along with, so we often quarrel with our significant other. At this time, we don't want to reason with each other, we just want to vent our emotions, and then the other party can come and coax us.

    But sometimes the development trend of things is contrary to our original intention, the more we want the other party to coax ourselves, the more the other party wants to fight with us, and even has a cold war with us. At this time, our hearts are indeed very uncomfortable.

    Second, I hope that lovers can better understand each other's psychological needs.

    It's hard to expect to be unhurt in a relationship, but we can try to make amends after the hurt has passed. At this time, we have to find a way to understand what each other's psychological demands are. For example, after a woman quarrels with a man, they don't actually want to pursue who is right and who is wrong, they just want the boy to say a few nice words to comfort him.

    At this time, if the boy does it, then it will definitely be easy for both parties to reconcile. If the boy fails to do so, the woman may feel uncomfortable for a long time.

    3. Think more about the other person's strengths when you are uncomfortable.

    Quarreling is a process that couples have to go through, and couples who don't quarrel are almost non-existent. And when arguing, both sides do not feel very well. How do we resolve this at this time?

    It's best to find a way to calm yourself down quickly when your emotions come up. At this time, even if we are still psychologically uncomfortable, we must think about the good of the other party on weekdays and think more about the advantages of the other party. The more you think about it, the more you have to admit that there are indeed many shining points in the other party, you will slowly dissolve the bad emotions in your heart and miss the good things about the other party.

    You won't be so uncomfortable anymore.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because of the differences in temperament, life experience and education level. There will inevitably be some conflicts in love, and it will be difficult to reconcile, which will make people feel uncomfortable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, sometimes his words or her behavior will feel very unpleasant, at this time, you are not good to get angry, if you are angry, it will affect the emotions of two people, so at this time you will feel very uncomfortable, you can't speak, but you feel very uncomfortable.

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