Regarding feelings, I am quite conflicted, so everyone gives some advice

Your boyfriend is not self-motivated, and he doesn't want you to be motivated, It shows that he is an unconfident person, I am afraid that you will not want him after graduate school in the future, and he is quite selfish, although he is honest, but he is an honest person who suffers this year, you have to think clearly, live with such a person for a lifetime, what kind of life will it be in the next few decades, don't make hasty decisions because of the house or something, there are many people with a house, and you can go to graduate school, which means that you yourself are also a very good girl, and your level is high, The level of natural contact with people will also improve, don't be afraid of not finding a better house, take a long-term view, be confident in yourself, you have considered these, indicating that you yourself are also a hard-working person, if you get married like this, you will definitely feel very depressed, and it is likely that you will regret it when you encounter difficulties, rather than regret it in the future, it is better to be decisive now, your relationship together is quite good, but after you really get married, you will find that when you encounter material problems, there are many contradictions, and the feelings will slowly wear away, You can't just think about the present, in general, this society, if you don't work hard and struggle, you will be eliminated, it's his fault that he is not motivated, and you don't have to feel any guilt.

I think there are a lot of people who support you to go to graduate school, you can't think that the boy is very good because of this, you should communicate more with your current boyfriend, why doesn't he support you to go to graduate school, after all, you have been for three years, it is not easy to persist for three years, he is not motivated because of the social environment, you can't just look at one side, communicate with him calmly, say your thoughts, the two will always have something in common, and a good man is guarded.

So who do you really like? If love is deeply loved, if love is not let go, no one should delay anyone

Use your own heart to understand what you really want, what your boyfriend really wants, in today's society, personal problems are not only marital feelings, but more importantly, future issues. Nowadays, most people are more realistic, and your boyfriend should support you to do what you want to do! Instead of being selfishly afraid of what will happen if you have a higher education!

So I suggest: put aside the relationship first, take the postgraduate examination seriously, and then look back when you have a good future in the future, maybe it's just a faint regret.

If you've been with you for more than 3 years, you give up, but when you give up, you don't get along with the guy you confessed to, that's just my advice.

If you love someone, you will support them to do what they like.

It's really hard to let go of feelings. Remember that time is the best medicine for feelings!

Does he love you? True love, love and liking are not the same. Why did you go to teaching and research? Why do you want to go to graduate school? Think about it for yourself, love it or not.

What about confession? What about supporting your teaching and research?

Do you understand love?

I don't understand either! I know that love is something that makes a person give unconditionally for the other.

Let's calm down for a while, don't be too impatient, especially feelings, the more impatient you are, the more likely it will backfire, give both parties a buffer period, if he really doesn't want to break up with you, really cares about you, you will take the initiative to contact you to find you, it should be yours at all, not yours no matter how reluctant you can't get it, what do you say? Be patient, it's normal for two people to quarrel and quarrel often in love, but don't take it too seriously, after all, no one can bear to leave anyone, since it's all like this, give both parties a free space, so that each other can better care about each other and treat each other, what do you say? I hope these suggestions can give some help, and I wish you happiness and happiness every day, and you love each other sweetly!

Love is not the whole of your life, you need to give some proper proportions to all the parts of your life. As a man, I may be able to understand his approach, maybe your relationship has also caused him some damage, you can understand that his current approach is healing, you love him, you just need to change the way, very objective, without emotion to tell him what you think, you can send e-mail, you can QQ message, at the end tell him what you want him to do, what kind of reply you want to receive from him. You don't know what ** did wrong, he wants to tell you, but he will also worry that it will be the beginning of another war, not everyone can learn to communicate and exchange in quarrels, so he will want to talk to you face-to-face, you don't think too much, what he does may be a manifestation of loving you and caring for you, just think about it differently.

I wish you all happiness!

This kind of thing seems to have happened to me, men are more evasive when they encounter problems, and I, like you, am also the kind of person who must end up immediately if there is a problem, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable.

My advice is to meet with him and figure out the problems between you, if he is still cold and indifferent after meeting you, then he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

Men generally don't like to talk about breaking up, and some people will distance themselves from each other in a cold way.

Don't apologize in a low profile, a woman who loves herself is qualified to be loved, and disregard for dignity and other practices only make the other party look down on you, and even less care about you.

There are still many good men in this world, and every time you fall in love, you can let yourself know yourself better so that you can improve yourself, even if you fall out of love, it is a good thing.

Men often don't care about quarrels, and they will deal with it themselves after a while, so don't hold on to it, don't always mention this when you talk about other things, it's likely that you won't like to tell you anymore in such a stalemate. The boy has a very rough heart, and asks him what he is doing, what is interesting, what is troubled and sorrowful.

He said that when he met, he might want to hug you, men are the most gentle, no matter how big your mistake is when you are gentle, it is not a mistake, men are the least afraid of toughness, if you fight for reason, endlessly, men's hearts will be stiff.

Say more considerate words, it is useless for a woman to be coquettish in front of a man, he needs you to hug him.

I wish you all happiness!

First of all, don't worry, if he still loves you, he will definitely tell you that you are wrong.

If he's not interested in you anymore, what you're doing won't save your love.

You can calm down with each other for a day or two, give yourself and him a little free space, maybe he will tell you that you don't do well.

Don't be too low-profile, a boy can't do everything to him, and he must be strong and independent.

You have to find a time to talk about this, talk to him about your thoughts, ask the reason, if he really loves you and doesn't want to leave you, he will also work hard with you, everyone will have this or that shortcoming, the most important thing is to see how much you tolerate his shortcomings, I feel that you are talking about this situation, you two are not very suitable for being together, what if you love, the person who will enter marriage together in the future is not necessarily your favorite, but the most suitable.

After experiencing a life-and-death relationship" As a result, you are not dead and are still posting here, showing that you will soon be able to love someone, hehe Don't care.

It's good to be down-to-earth, she can give you a steady, which means that there is a small cornerstone between you, but you are always in a hurry, and being anxious is the biggest failure.

His indifference is actually psychologically entangled, you simply said: I should have said everything, I also care about the relationship between us, I don't want to make myself so painful, you can watch it yourself! And then you wait, 1 day, 2 days, 3 days...

Not for a week, that means your little cornerstone is still a little smaller, over! Then you go to climb Dashu Mountain, oh I don't know that you are from Hefei. Hehe.

If not, you can find a mountain to climb and wait for the next relationship again. Tomorrow will be fine!

Objectively speaking, it's very likely that he can't stand your character, or that Tianya doesn't love you anymore. Because I think his attitude is very cold now, that is, he clearly wants to break up with you... I always put the responsibility on you, but I don't reflect on it,,, I advise you to throw it off first, so as not to end up sad

I think it's just your own thoughts, you first shift your attention to think about other things, go home on the weekend and make it clear to him, ask him to understand what he thinks, you can't do anything now, urge him more, he will ignore you even more, if you ignore him, he will worry about you, and you have the initiative.

I don't think this man likes you anymore. Girls should have a temper, girls without a temper, I don't think that boy likes it.

Why do you lower your profile like this, and apologize without knowing the reason, it will only make him feel that he is right, and if he doesn't tell you the reason, you will ignore him.

The breakup made me and him also didn't say anything to make it clear that we wanted to separate.

He doesn't care, why do you want to force it.

Ask clearly to solve it at once.

Or ignore him.

Men are cheap. You ignore him, he has a temper.

Don't ignore him once.

He panicked. Of course, that's if he still likes you.