My dad got drunk and hit my mom, what can I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-10
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, I suggest that your mother go for psychological counseling. We Chinese are very taboo to see a psychiatrist, which is actually very wrong. Because the bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused.

    I also have a lot of friends who are like this, saying how my husband treats her, but in fact, we onlookers can see why these things happen. Ask your mom to get rid of that fear before she can teach her how to improve their relationship. Know how each person's personality affects his behavior.

    Don't look at the strength of men on the surface, but in fact, they are subtle and weak in their hearts, but as a man, they must do what they can't and tolerate what others can't. How tired! When the endurance reaches the limit, it can only be released instinctively after drinking.

    Because I see you say, my dad is usually very good, and he has a good temper, and he will accommodate my mom a lot of times, and my mom will be more willful sometimes. I think that's a big inducement. At this time, if you go and tell my mother how she is usually wrong, you can't say that you need a psychiatrist to enlighten your mother.

    Buy some books about men for your mom.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As an intermediary, you should communicate well with your father and let him be kind to your mother, you don't want the family to be destroyed, and it is not okay to beat people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let the adults take care of their own affairs. After all, they're all adults. You just have to do your own thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As a son, I think you can tell your dad directly, saying that he can't drink so much, and he should listen to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Communicate with my father, it's not right to beat someone, after all, it's a family member, and there is no contradiction that can't be resolved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let time heal the wound slowly, and you, try to be kind to both parents, and persuade your father to drink less in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to persuade your mother, since your father already knows the mistake, don't worry too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should talk to your dad and make him stop drinking in the future, otherwise it won't happen again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Advised my father to drink less in the future If he didn't drink, this wouldn't have happened.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Avoid getting your dad drunk, let him promise that this will not happen again, and both parties calm down.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The most effective and only way not to divorce is to quit drinking, otherwise you will say anything good when you are sober, which is good for your mother and you, and once you drink, you will have a seizure again, which is useless.

    Otherwise, if you can't say it for a while, the final result will still be separated, and it will be your mother who will be hurt by then.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sign an agreement that if a similar situation occurs in the future, all family property will belong to the woman.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's best to persuade your dad more and tell him to quit drinking. ......

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Family conflicts have always been a permanent topic, at this time you have to do a good job of the two of them, first ask whether the conflicts in your family have always been or occasionally (accidents, especially after drinking), if it has always been, it is a bit troublesome, the work of enlightenment should be longer, starting from you to enlighten, for the sake of this family and you, a child who is studying, persuade them, I want to pity the parents of the world, they will slowly reconcile; If it's occasional, it's easy to do, ask your father to quit drinking, for this family, for this harmonious family, to persuade more, but also to persuade your mother, sometimes don't be too willful, etiquette between husband and wife is very important. Hope it helps, thank you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's best to persuade your parents to think more about you. Again I asked my dad not to drink.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the Cold War, my father deeply reflected on his irresponsible behavior.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A slap doesn't make a sound, and there are many unsatisfactory aspects of an adult's life. As a child, no one wants their parents to divorce, but parents have their freedom, even if they are divorced, they are still your parents, no matter who the court judges the children to, no one can change the blood thicker than water, you don't think too much about what to do in the future, and the question of who is right and who is wrong in the parents, study hard and live well, your road is yours.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Legal analysis: If there is another beating, you can call the police and hand it over to the police. In addition, according to the provisions of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    In any of the following circumstances, where mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning a family member.

    Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

    Article 1080:Marriage is dissolved when the registration of divorce is completed, or when the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Parents will not harm their children physically, but their environment is not conducive to your growth.

    My dad and my mom have a spear and a blind lead shield, my dad took a knife and chopped his sharpened fingers, and then he started drinking and beating my mom, I'm doing well, I'm happy, will my dad check Zheng Mom will beat me or hurt me?

    Parents will not harm their children physically, but their environment is not conducive to your growth.

    My dad and my mom have a spear and a blind lead shield, my dad took a knife and chopped his sharpened fingers, and then he started drinking and beating my mom, I'm doing well, I'm happy, will my dad check Zheng Mom will beat me or hurt me?

    You don't have to worry about them hurting you, you can take legal action if they hurt someone, but parents generally don't hurt their children.

    In my family's situation, will my parents beat me and hurt me?

    If their relationship breaks down in the end, of course, it won't be like yours.

    My dad and my mom have a conflict, my dad chopped off his fingers with a knife, and then began to count the lights and drink to beat my mom, I'm doing well, I'm happy, will my parents beat me?

    Then if you have the worry that Fang You is not bored, you can let them choose to divorce, after all, they have already bent their minds to pass through Chasun like this, it is still very serious, and I don't think there is any need to go on.

    They are reluctant to divorce.

    I'm doing well, I'm happy, will they hurt me?

    Their reluctance to divorce shows that they care about your feelings and that they will not hurt you.

    I'm doing well, will my dad beat me or hurt me?

    If to a certain extent, people's emotions will be filled to a certain level, and sometimes they will not be able to control themselves.

    There may be a chance of this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your father is always abusing domestic violence and your mother is still very serious, I suggest you call the police, because now the Civil Code stipulates that domestic violence is not allowed, as long as you call the police, the police uncle will definitely make decisions for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My father always likes to beat my mother after drinking, first of all, I should quietly take a picture of my father beating my mother's **, and keep it secret, and discuss with my mother how to deal with this matter, and hand it over to the police in time to deal with this matter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should collect evidence of Dad's domestic violence, and then take Dad's to court so that Dad's punishment can be brought to justice, so that Mom can get a new life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't stop your dad directly, it's impossible for your dad to listen to persuasion at this time, and he may beat you too, you should call 110 in time to ask the police uncle for help.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To communicate with the mother, it is recommended that the mother must go through the divorce, because domestic violence is not allowed, which is good for both parents.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I should protect my mother, don't let her get hurt, and if the situation is very serious, I should call the police.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can stop the father from hitting the mother, because the father will not do anything to the child easily. Enlighten your father more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think I should call the police, let the law protect my mother, and let my father be punished as he deserves.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your dad beating your mom while drunk is domestic violence, and when you encounter domestic violence, you should:

    Neighborhood committees, village committees, women's federations, shelters, and their units and organizations are requested to stop, dissuade, mediate, or report to the police. The public security organs will promptly handle complaints of domestic violence in accordance with relevant provisions. Where a violation of the administration of public security provisions or a criminal offense is constituted, an evaluation of the victim's injuries in the case of domestic violence is to be conducted in accordance with law.

    The details are as follows: 1) In cases of domestic violence where the circumstances are minor, the principle of upholding mediation shall be followed in order to preserve both the victim's lawful rights and interests and family unity, and to criticize and reprimand the perpetrator, inform them of the legal responsibility they should bear and the corresponding consequences, and prevent and stop the expansion of the situation;

    2) Those who violate the provisions of the administration of public security shall be punished in accordance with the "Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments";

    3) Where a crime is constituted, file a case for investigation in accordance with law, do a good job of investigation and evidence collection, and pursue their criminal responsibility;

    4) In cases of abuse that are handled only after complaint is made, and cases of minor injuries where the victim has evidence to prove, the victim or his legally-designated ** person or close relatives shall be informed to directly file a lawsuit with the people's court, and the case materials and relevant evidence shall be promptly transferred to the people's court with jurisdiction.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The man who hates beating women the most, men's fists are used to fight the world, not women. A woman marries a man to make the man hurt, not to make the man beat. Drunk men beating women is something I look down on even more.

    Using drunkenness as an excuse to say that you are not sober-minded to beat a woman, you are really not sober-minded, why don't you beat yourself? To say that you are drunk is purely an excuse, an excuse!

    Every time your dad gets drunk, he hits mom. You really should talk to your dad. Said that if you hit your mother after getting drunk again, then don't drink and quit drinking.

    If you don't drink alcohol in the future, you won't beat your mother. You tell your dad that you can't get used to this kind of thing anymore, and that mom is hard enough to take care of this family every day. If it continues, let Dad quit drinking.

    If your persuasion doesn't work, and Dad still comes back drunk and beats Mom, then you have to tell Mom's mother's family. As the saying goes, live to ninety-nine, and your mother's family will still have a back hand. This is when my mother is bullied at my mother-in-law's house, my mother's family can support my mother.

    Ask your uncle to come and clean up your dad and give him some color. Usually at this time, Dad will bow his head and admit his mistake, and then the next time he gets drunk and picks up his fist, he will be a little scared in his heart, and he won't dare to hit your mother again.

    A family needs a home and everything is prosperous. Drunk, domestic violence against women, this is the most despicable thing a man does. Your mother was able to live with this kind of man for so long, and her personality is also cowardly.

    So you must stand up and protect your mother, find a way to solve this matter, and be your mother's umbrella.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Each lives in his own way to find the feeling of first love hehe.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When your dad wakes up and takes him to see the consequences of drunk driving, he won't drink indiscriminately anymore.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let's do psychological work for two people, the children are so old, are they still divorced.

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