After the confession refuses, reject the other party s confession

I feel that she may be testing you, she should at least not be disgusted with you, but it feels like it hasn't penetrated to the level of boyfriend and girlfriend, so she should also be groping, starting with understanding you and knowing you well, and then slowly see if there is any possibility of development. At least you have a guarantee, that is, you can at least be friends of the opposite sex. You can also probe her at the right time and place and ask her what she means.

Or if it's good for me to introduce you to your boyfriend, you can know whether she really doesn't like you or just doesn't want to fall in love at this stage.

It is blissful to feel that someone loves you, 1. She doesn't want to accept you but doesn't want to give up this feeling, and if you love her deeply and with your heart at this time, then it only shows that you are unlucky. 2。

Whether she is willing to accept you or not is still difficult to determine in his psychology, and he can only refuse you because of the situation at that time. (provided that you don't socialize with other people) if you are looking for proof that there is still hope. Then it depends on your own performance.

It's simple. It means that I want to be good friends with you.

You're in a hurry.

I confessed after only three days of dating

Although the current pace of society can make you so.

But students

After all, it's a little worse than a social person.

Don't be in too much of a hurry. Spend time with each other for a while.

Watch her more.

Don't be too direct! This girl is a good girl for sure, you have to consider her receptivity. Take your time and take the time to show your liking and love for him, and she'll understand.

Sometimes love becomes a need, a tyranny, and a pressure. Hope you understand.

She's just telling you that it's not so easy for her to agree to deal with you, like this kind of woman's small fire slowly simmers, hehe, and when the time comes, she will naturally catch up with it, as long as there is hope, don't give up, come on.

It means that she likes you! Otherwise, I won't let you accompany her to study on her own and watch movies with you!

She also said that she didn't like you, and asked you to accompany her to study and watch movies, is it her vanity?

Hello. The first return is rough, and the attitude must be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you.

Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds. If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is still hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing to know and love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you have rejected him.

This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.