Why do some good men and good girls always fail to meet the right person?

Whether it is a man or a woman, first of all, there are certain good sides that they like: career success, gentleness, humor, romance, affection, and thrift. The dissatisfaction side is:

Self-centered, unprincipled, deceitful, vain, pretentious, arrogant, insatiable, ruthless, and unjust. There is also the most terrible thing is that there are five poisons (eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, smoking). Men like ladies who are beautiful, virtuous, funny, beautiful as fairies, and can live.

And women like tall and mighty, handsome and chic, successful in their careers, romantic and funny, and rich men. There's nothing wrong with that, it's realistic that there are no problems. The point is whether the person you like is really your ideal type, and the establishment is not acting with you, pleasing you, pleasing you, or pretending to show you.

Or the drunkard does not mean to drink, there are other plans. Whether it is the person you love or not, there is and only after getting along for a while or living a risky life, can you really understand each other and recognize the other party's good conduct.

All of this requires the cost of time, money, and youth. There is a high probability of jaw-dropping, rejection, betrayal, and intolerance. There are some mutual running-in, mutual understanding, mutual appreciation and tolerance, through the risk of very happy very happy days.

Many successful people around me are emotionally stumbling, but they are more diligent and thrifty than ordinary friends, and their wives and daughters are full of popularity. The more successful people are, the harder it is to do so, so time and energy are spent on the road. In the right place, in the right scene, at the right time.

The person who will get the perfect person by using the right method is a woman or a boy. Most of the people who often say good have very high standards and high requirements for the object, which brings great pressure to the other party. Human nature loves the connection of easy release of stress.

Therefore, successful people and excellent people are sometimes very unsociable. Good men and good girls are relative, and whether they are suitable or not must be relatively speaking, because good men are good, and when they meet a girl who is in love, they feel that it is inappropriate and difficult to get away.

This has to do with their perception, some people feel that they can't find the most suitable person for themselves, but in fact, no, they are just confused by others.

A good man can't meet a good woman, and a good woman can't meet a good man, just like the other half of a tall man is almost all short, and the other half of a fat man is almost all thin, and the high-value ones are looking for the average look. This may be the law of balance in nature, or it may be the law of attraction of all things.

Because it is difficult for these people to fall in love at first sight when they get along in daily life, it is difficult to make people feel fresh.

There was once a good girl who fell in love with a good boy, but since she was a good girl,She is introverted, gentle, she is reserved, although she likes that good boy very much, but unfortunately, her education, her personality are restricting her to be reserved, she should wait for the good boy to come to her, a good girl should wait for the boy to pursue, and should not take the initiative to pursue the boy, so that she shows that she is not reserved enough, and she is not good enough.

So she waited, waited, waited, waited, the boy she loved was pursued by other girls, she was very sad, she felt that why the result was like this, obviously she had often appeared in front of that boy, why did that boy just not pursue himself, is he not good enough?

So she began to self-deny, thinking that she was just an ordinary girlBecause of the ordinary, the good boy she liked didn't find out that he was good, he didn't fall in love with himself, so he didn't pursue himself, and what she didn't think about was that the good boy she liked, he was a boy with three views, he was good, so he rarely paid attention to these, he was motivated because he was a good person, and he didn't have time to think about anything else, and this boy was actually very similar to him many times, so they missed it.

And then the girl grew up and came into contact with more people, so there was no such simple and beautiful boy, but there were some boys who had experienced love, and these boys could see at a glance that this good girl was clumsy in her feelings, so he said two sweet words and did two romantic things about the prince meeting the princess, and this girl fell into the love that this boy created for her.

How to say it, it's not that a good girl can't meet a good boy, it's just that when she did, she didn't work hard to seize the opportunity, but missed the opportunity and let the man go, and then the boys she met again were all scumbags, because of the lack of love experience, she was easily deceived by this kind of boy.

I think it's because these good girls are too simple and kind in their hearts. So it will lead to not meeting a good man.

Most of these girls are relatively simple, easy to be confused by rhetoric, naively think that they have found true love, and have no ability to distinguish between right and wrong, so they are easy to be encountered by scumbags.

First of all, it's because today's girls are too independent and self-reliant, and they can do everything perfectly by themselves, plus they haven't met their favorite boys in the surrounding environment.

Many good girls can't meet good men because good men are not good at expression and communication, and good girls are more easily deceived, giving many bad men a chance to succeed.

Because now the girl's vision is too high, the height is required to be high-looking, and the car and house are required, which is more difficult for most boys with poor family backgrounds than to ascend to the sky, so they have turned into good girls and can't meet good men.

Good girls are generally relatively simple, and when they meet these bad men, they are easy to be fooled.

Because a good man and a good woman don't happen overnight, it's not that the two didn't meet, but they didn't go to the end.

Everyone in life has different definitions of good men and good women, but a good man is nothing more than a man who can be responsible for life, and a good woman is nothing more than a woman who can share weal and woe with a man. It's not that the two have never met, it's just that at that time they weren't good men and women.

Neither good men nor good women are born, but step by step they become like this. There are many good men in real life, they are working hard for life, they have a sense of responsibility, and they are willing to pay for their families; There are also many good women in life, who can understand the difficulties of their lovers, can accompany the people they like to endure hardships, and can wait for life to get better step by step.

These people are actually very common in life, but they are not like this at the beginning, but they slowly become like this after experiencing certain things.

I feel like I'm half a good man myself, because I'm also very responsible for my family. The reason why I say half is because my ability is really limited, and I have never been able to bring a better life to the whole family.

But before I got married, I didn't think I would just be a good man. At that time, I didn't cherish my feelings, so I missed a few people I once loved, and these experiences also made me grow a lot. Step by step, all kinds of things in life have made me who I am now.

Good men and good women have met, but the two of them have not gone down in life. Whether a relationship can go to the end and whether two people can embrace happiness has little to do with whether you are a good man or a good woman.

A cynical man can also become a good man after meeting the woman he loves; A girl who is reluctant to enter into marriage can also become a good woman after meeting the person she truly loves.

But the premise is that two people must love each other enough, and only love can really change a person. It's not that a good man and a good woman haven't met, it's just that two people may not be suitable in life, two people meet and know each other, and they pass by in life.

In the real world, women always say that there are no good men, and men always say that there are no good women, I think this is only because they have not met the person they really love.

When you meet someone you really like, you will find that you are that good man or good woman.

Because a good man can't meet a good woman, this is a lot of fate to make people, and sometimes very kind people often meet very scumbag people.

Because there are too few good men and good women, people like this are rare, but we also have to learn to discover the people around us.

In fact, it's not that good men can't meet good women, because when many men meet women, women may have been hurt and have changed. There are also many cases where good men and good women are together, that is, the right time, so they meet the right person.

Because everyone's definition of good standards and good concepts is different, good is relative, what suits you is good, and if you don't fit yourself, it's bad, if a good man doesn't meet a good woman, it means that you haven't met a suitable one.