Some people say that the deeper the love in love, the more people lose, what do you think?

The depth of love, the more affection and sincerity will be given, including material and economic things. In the end, they separated, and their feelings, love, and money were all paid. What is left, only the shell of the walking dead.

I don't even have the courage to continue living. The feeling is indescribable.

Maybe in the short term, the person who gives the most in the relationship, because of the breakup or various reasons, will feel that he is miserable, and he has paid so much, and the relationship has not been maintained. However, people who pay a lot often don't regret it afterwards, because in that love, he has done his best to pay for the person he loves, and they have done their best for this love, so they have no regrets.

In terms of love, not being in love is unrequited love, preference, or even doting. Feelings are touched by a person's actions to another person, and she has feelings for you from the heart after being touched, that is, with mutual affection, she is worthy of the word affection. You can't just give it because you like her, of course, there's nothing wrong with giving in order to get the affection you want.

But don't be too attached to the never-ending giving, this kind of giving is not called selflessness but selfishness and stupidity.

I want a good relationship, but I don't want to take out my own beauty, worrying that others will take away that little bit. I didn't know this nature when I first came into contact with it, and I didn't understand this emotion until I was hurt in my heart. The most paid is wishful thinking, dreaming of using your own efforts to keep the other party, and not knowing that what you are giving is not what others want.

What the other party is pursuing is to be free and happy, to enjoy your efforts while looking for other love, to move on to the next goal, leaving you behind. The person who really loves you is not willing to let you be wronged and pay so much.

In love, the more you give, the deeper your love is proven, although giving and reciprocating are not necessarily proportional. However, giving is beautiful, and it is when you settle down in the hustle and bustle of the world to listen quietly, be true to your feelings, and follow the direction of your heart. The love you give is to give yourself a kind of pious and firm strength, to do everything you can to fight for a share of happiness for yourself, and to let your world shine with the warmth of gold.

You understand that giving is another kind of gain, a kind of spiritual enrichment, a kind of emotional sublimation.

Of course, I couldn't agree more. Because the more these people give, they will regard love as the most important thing in their lives. And will even treat love as the only one.

Yes, I agree with this statement, because for many people, they are fully committed to the relationship, but the other person is taking advantage of you, or taking your efforts for granted, and in the end, they lose badly.

Men who lose badly in love generally ignore that love goes both ways, and they always insist on going their own way. It will even become a licking dog. In the end, there is still no way to get love.

These points are ignored are one's own emotions, one's attitude towards others, the way one gets along with others, some speaking skills, and one's attitude towards emotions, and the degree of loyalty to emotions.

Ignoring the way they get along with each other, ignoring their own attitude towards each other, and ignoring the feelings of two people towards each other, as well as their own character.

Always busy, neglecting a woman's feelings.

Sometimes, "busy" is actually a kind of laziness, if you are too busy and can't get the life you want, you should reflect on whether your work efficiency is too low, see if the tools you use are lagging behind, and see if your time management is a problem.

People who are constantly indecisive are all affectionate and affectionate, stubborn in a relationship, and there is no trace of deviation. Affectionate people, say a little is stubborn, maybe listen to some is a tendon, originally in the other party to use themselves, but they are constantly indecisive and tolerant, and they know that the other party is a short-term choice of themselves, they will still wait again, as if they never noticed that they were hurt and let down, the people around them are upset for them, only they are indifferent, feel indifferent.

There are really so many Buddha-nature people in the world, and the answer is yes, especially for affectionate people. Affectionate people, not to feel pain and collapse, but to feel very high, if not as a last resort, they are unwilling to give up and turn around, of course, everyone has a bottom line, when someone deliberately indulges this happiness, they will not hesitate, for example, many times damage and disappointment; Frequent rebellion after tolerance is the limit that they cannot accept again.

After all, they are human beings, not gods, and no matter how deep their feelings are, they will not be able to withstand repeated destruction, until one day, they will collapse and turn around, which is probably the last affectionate. Affectionate people, just like that, even if they are desperate, they will not fight back, but leave, use affection to satisfy other people's disappointments, and respond to the other party's poverty and luxury with regrets.

Looking at feelings, being careful and attentive, you can reach something in this one consistently, for example, being happy in this life, growing old together, and full of expectations and expectations for life. The most disdainful thing for affectionate people is to just talk about it and not do it. They are more accustomed to giving and caring in the relationship, spoiling and comprehensive, they would rather the world live up to themselves, rather than live up to the world, belonging to the people who are very willing to bear hardships and stand hard work.

Some people may wonder that there are still such stupid people in this world, and the mentality of affectionate people to give has always been like this: willing, unrelenting, and without hesitation. If you meet someone who knows how to cherish, you are lucky, but if you meet someone who deserves it, you will be unlucky.

People who value feelings, most of them are serious and careful, once they are tempted, they will think of what to give, what to pay, to what extent, they are the most particular, whether the benefits are, whether they are cherished by others, they don't care. When it comes to giving, affectionate people are usually unreciprocated and fearless, but also open-minded and tolerant. Not everyone is so noble, and not everyone is so serious, living in this colorful world, it is inevitable to be stained with some colorful, and it is normal to meet people who do not know how to cherish, and it is not surprising to be let down or damaged by others.

In getting along with the opposite sex, the more affectionate the person, the easier it is to be deceived, and he may lose very badly in terms of emotion, so he can't be too careful.

At your brittleness, and a concession you make to her, and the more affectionate you are, the worse you will lose.

Repeated soft-heartedness, in the relationship will give everything to themselves, especially serious and focused, their lover is their own weakness, if you are not careful, you will sink.