How to get along with an eleven year old boy

Let me tell you what I have to say from experience:

First of all, don't be too enthusiastic and don't be too indifferent, anyway, just like a general friend and get along with the little boy for a while, you can control the length of time, the task is to observe him, understand his habits and interests, if this can't be done, don't look at the rest of it;

Second, according to the observation of the child, if you want to find some way to impress the child, it is best to let him come to you automatically and establish his dependence on you; There are a lot of these methods, and some of them are mentioned upstairs, but what are the so-called food, play, and what to bring to the Internet or something, these ideas I think are bad ideas, there is no value, can only be exchanged for a temporary relationship, just imagine, if you can use food, play to get his attention, others can, can not establish a long-term relationship, but you can consider. It's good to think more about what troubles the little boy has in life, relationships, etc.

Third, treat children with sincerity. Don't think that children can deceive, in fact, children are also very ghostly, so sincerity is very important.

Eleven years old? At this age, you should like to play games online like Transformers and the like.

Buying him toys, talking to him about games, talking about things that interest him, I think he should hate talking to him about his studies the most.

Take him to the playground and take him out.

Playing games with him or playing with toys can do things that interest him.

Buy him toys or something to eat.

Children around the age of 10 do not like sports, in this case, we must communicate with the children in detail, with a peaceful and equal attitude to understand their specific reasons and ideas, to find the root of the problem, in order to effectively solve the problem.

1. Be sure to communicate with your children on an equal footing, and you must not be condescending, or even not always understand that your children have matured and grown up, which may make your children feel that there is no way to communicate and communicate with their parents, or even feel that their parents cannot understand themselves.

2. Be more tolerant and patient, especially when the child already has a sense of independence, be more tolerant of the child's thoughts, and then let the child express himself bravely and have more opportunities.

3. We should also use skills to communicate and communicate with children to effectively alleviate the problem of poor communication, such as giving children more opportunities to express, and at the same time giving more affirmation to children's opinions and suggestions, encouraging children to have their own ideas, and when children have some very good ideas, we must encourage children to do it bravely, rather than always giving children negative opinions.

4.If you want to communicate with your child, you must choose the methods and skills that are suitable for your child, you must treat your child equally, treat your child as an independent individual, and when communicating with your child, you must not regard your child as a child, learn to respect your child, and communicate with your child on an equal footing, so as to gain your child's trust and friendship.

Learn to tolerate your child's different opinions, and even respect them. You should also learn to build friendships with your child, only in this way can you make your child trust himself more.

At this stage, children begin to enter puberty. After every child enters puberty, it will become a headache for parents, and they will be angry when they mention their children. However, adolescence is a very normal thing, and parents must not blindly overdo it, otherwise it will have a lifelong impact on their children.

Be sure to respect your child's ideas and avoid arguing.

Respect] If you want to say what is most lacking as a parent, it may be that most families lack respect for their children, thinking that children are just children, what kind of self-esteem do you want. Its high envy is not true, especially the adolescent child Sen Nian guess is more sensitive, and it is necessary to respect the child.

Communication] children in adolescence, can be said to have bitterness can not be said, at this time parents need to be patient with the child to communicate, must not be angry, patient, understand what the child needs, a precious conversation is the child's lifelong wealth.

Persuasion] Children in this period are in a very important stage of the development of values, and they are easily influenced by the outside world. Persuade children to follow the right path in life and establish correct values.

Listening] In traditional education, parents generally teach their children as speakers, but now children are more precocious and have a lot to say to their parents, so parents need to be aware of this and listen to their children's thoughts.

Avoid quarrels] Quarrels are the most unproblematic behavior, not only hurting each other's feelings, but also causing disagreements to become more and more serious. When you realize that you are about to have an argument with your child, keep your tone gentle and talk to your child calmly.

Encourage children's ideas] Many times parents blindly think that their ideas are for the good of their children, but the children are not angry. In fact, this is very wrong, children have their own ideas when they are older, and if you can't respect your children's ideas, the result will be very bad. Parents should encourage their children's ideas when they have better ideas.