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I don't think your friend's current situation should be considered a broken love, and the key to the problem lies with the parents of both parties. If your friend is in free love, then it is all about marriage, which means that the two still love each other sincerely, otherwise how can they consider marriage. And your judgment of her boyfriend is too arbitrary, he listens to his parents, which shows that he is very filial and his character should be good.
It's rare to meet someone who makes you want to marry him, so the most important thing now is to persuade your friend and her boyfriend to find a way to get rid of both parents. Parents love their children, and they did not object to the two dating or even talking about marriage at the beginning, which shows that they still approve of this marriage. So, I think there's room for manoeuvre in this matter.
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You should tell him that it's not actually your fault, even if it's barely together, it won't end well, and you'll be able to find a better partner in the future.
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Girls can also be as cared for each other as boys are for girls.
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Accompany her out for a walk, make him food, etc.
After falling out of love, he became alone, and began to like to wander the streets alone, listening to those sad songs, and always immersed in his own sad world. Many times the party who is broken up is always the most difficult party to let go, not only because of love, but also because they don't want to be the abandoned party. will also indulge in the pain of falling out of love, every day to the extreme, why bother.
Since it's all lost, don't torture yourself anymore, don't care who is the outcast, what self-esteem it is, it can't give you happiness, and it can't change the worst state now.
Let's make something delicious for them!Cooking food for a loved one is always full of happiness. When your friend falls out of love, why not try making something delicious for him?
Whether it's homemade chocolates or cookies, you can pass on your happiness to them, and if you are particularly good at cooking, you can also prepare a table of delicious but not overly grand dishes (don't let your friends mistake this for celebrating their breakup), I believe your friends will forget their worries for a while!
Let's go out for a walk with him!Don't let them feel sorry for themselves all the time in the house, take your lovelorn friend out for a walk!In a quiet café, find a window position, let the warm afternoon sun shine on you, and then order a delicious dessert and two cups of latte, chat with him, spend a comfortable and warm time, I believe that no matter what troubles, will be evaporated by the sun!
Be careful, though, if your friend has just broken up, don't take them to a bar or club! This will only make them more depressed.
Good friends can share happiness and frustration togetherYou can live without love, but you can't live without friendship. Once there is no friendship, there will be no pleasant harmony in life. So please cherish the friend who wants to make you happy when you are sad.
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First, listen carefully. The best way to deal with a friend's breakup is to listen. Listen to him talk about how he felt about falling out of love and what happened with his ex-love.
Maybe he will cry in front of you, maybe he will scold his ex, these are his ways of venting. And what you have to do is to accompany him and listen to him, so that he can excrete his sadness and cry a little, which is good for alleviating emotions. Be careful not to try to interrupt your friend and give him so-called advice during this process.
You just need to listen to him carefully, accompany him, and ensure his safety. Because what he needs is not to listen to anyone to reason at all, but to need someone to accompany him through difficult times.
Second, take him to meet new people and experience new things.
A good way to comfort a friend who has fallen out of love is to distract him. How do you divert your attention? By taking him to meet new people, go to unfamiliar places to relax, experience feelings that he has not experienced before, etc.
These methods are to tell him that the world is big and that life is not just about one love. We can always meet new people, experience new things, and create new lives. And falling out of love is just the end of a relationship, and this end just means that he has more possibilities.
You don't just want to be comforted, you want to take his boyfriend's place, don't you?
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