An example of the disadvantages of early love and a case of lax school management

Puppy love is a kind of motivation, which can prompt people to have a force to show themselves well in front of each other, which is a valuable motivation for some people, a kind of learning momentum.

In kindergarten, I had the urge to kiss a girl.

Elementary school had my first girlfriend.

Junior high school is broken.

High school was autistic.

Now the universities are dropping.

Confused about surfing the Internet at home.

Just boring comes to your question.

A good example of this.

According to the latest data from the National Bureau of Statistics, there is a 100% chance of failure among school students in China. Is it necessary to do something that is completely impossible to succeed?

It can only show that this statistic is too unscientific, and my parents are

Precocious love among junior high school students is now a very common phenomenon, parents and teachers are against precocious love among junior high school students, but because the correct method is not used to deal with the precocious love incident of junior high school students, it will lead to some bad things happening. I hope that parents will pay attention to the right way when dealing with the early love of junior high school students.

A 14-year-old junior high school girl (Amin) in Xiamen was opposed by her parents because of her early love as a junior high school student, not only quarreled with her parents and ran away from home, but also injected mercury from 7 thermometers into her hands and wanted to commit suicide.

Amin's parents work in factories all year round and don't pay much attention to their children. This summer, Amin met a young man in society, and Amin, who rarely gets warmth from his family, soon fell in love with this "brother". This relationship lasted for two months, and after being discovered by his parents, Amin was scolded, and in a moment of impulse, he thought of fighting to the death.

Amin wrote in his diary: "No one will understand my feelings. If I can't be with him, I'd rather die. Eventually, she smashed the thermometer and injected mercury into the back of her hands.

I recommend: "What should parents do if their child is in love in their third year of high school".

A week later, the careless parents finally discovered Amin's abnormality and sent him to the hospital, but during the whole process, Amin never cooperated. Today, Amin is out of danger, but because of the late detection, the harm caused by mercury poisoning will follow her for the rest of her life.

Cases of the harm of early love among junior high school students (2).

There was a ** case near the entrance of a middle school in Shaanxi, where a girl was shot through the throat and was in critical condition, and the suspect was only 13 years old.

According to the city's public security bureau, the county's public security bureau's "110" command center received a report from the masses that a shooting occurred at the back gate of a school in the county, and a girl named Li was injured. That night, the investigators of the Criminal Investigation Brigade arrested the suspect Xue, who was armed with a gun. At the same time, one bullet was confiscated.

**The investigation found that the criminal Xue had already dropped out of school and often mingled in Internet cafes, dance halls, etc., and was a young person in the society who was looking for others to make trouble for the police because of love disputes. At the same time, the cause of the incident was announced. ** Wheel inspection said that 13-year-old Xue had fallen in love with a girl at the school, Li, and the girl later proposed to break up and talked about her boyfriend at school.

At about 3 o'clock in the afternoon of the 11th, Xue brought a gun to the school to make trouble with the girl's current boyfriend, and met the victim student Li not far from the school gate. After a few words of verbal altercation between the two sides, Xue shot Li in the neck with the weapon he carried with him, causing Li's throat and trachea to be shot through. Li is now resuscitated in the intensive care unit; Li's parents said:

I didn't know about the child's early love at all, and I was scared. And Xue's parents who committed the crime said: The child has been wandering around since he didn't go to school, and he didn't stay home at all, let alone know about his son's early love.

They were terrified by such a tragic event.

Let me tell you from my experience, to maintain a friend relationship, if the two are really suitable, and there is a fate in the future, it is not too late to be together again.

First of all, a relationship in high school is basically not going to be successful, maybe your parents told you so, and you didn't believe it, I didn't believe it before, but I believe it now, because in high school you don't understand what kind of partner you want in the future.

Secondly, every girl will be very cold to his boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and I think if you don't want you to really go with you for the rest of your life, if the person who is really the most important thing to you is sad, think carefully about your current relationship with her.

Then, the college entrance examination is really a hurdle for your life, maybe it is much easier to get into a good university in Beijing than in other places, but you still have to work hard, I tell you with my lesson, it is impossible for these things that I thought at that time not to distract my heart.

In the end, you can't give the girl you love now a bright future, or a stable life, and when you get old, you will only feel how much you owe her at that time, and you will feel guilty for the rest of your life.

So, for your own good, don't fall in love.

There are no good, many disadvantages. Children who are in adolescence are not yet mature in their thinking about problems. Easily impulsive and emotional.

Children at this time are the age of fantasy. You can only see the advantages of the other party, and you can't make a comprehensive and practical judgment on the shortcomings. As people get older, their judgments change, their thoughts and goals change, and their future changes.

If you fall in love too early, you can only lower your choice of mate. So don't fall in love.

The advantage is that they can encourage each other. The disadvantage is that the parents disagree with each other, and they are worried all day long. This early love has become common.,Even if it's not early love.,There's still that he or her in my heart.。。

I don't have a convincing case, but I tried to get my parents to agree to let me fall in love, and as a result, my academic performance went up and I went to college. Sometimes, having one more person by your side to share your worries and accompany you to do your homework or something is good for your study and life.