Questions about old and new classmates

It is necessary to maintain a friend relationship with old classmates, no matter what, it is not very good for both parties to tear their faces. Try to avoid conflict with her. But it's still necessary to keep in touch and greet people when they meet.

In addition, it is not difficult to make friends with your new classmate, and if you want to meet a new friend, it is of course indispensable to take the initiative to have a good relationship with her. When you talk often, pay more attention to finding common topics and common interests. It is better to invite her to your home, preferably to eat.

That's it.

Friends can be divided into these categories. 1.A friend until death.

Usually refers to comradeship).You can go up the knife mountain and go down the sea of fire for your friends. 2.

Like a brotherly friend. 3.Bosom friends are the kind that can confide in each other.

4.Financial benefits of a friend (partner).5.

Fairweather friend. You don't expect all the friends you make to be the best with you, and if you can't meet that requirement, you will want to break up. This is not right. These friends may be any of those 5 types of friends.

But either category will help you. When we get to society, we will be more aware of this.

Be broad-minded and don't cut off your friendship for trivial things.

If you are compatible, you will come, and if you are not compatible, you will go", no need to be deliberate

This is an old ** from 40 years ago turned out from the bottom of the box, which records the singing years of young men and women in their prime.

This group photo was taken in 1982, and there were very few people, less than half of the total number of students in the class. Due to the age, I can't remember what happened to leave this only precious ** in high school.

It was just the beginning of the reform and opening up, a period of youth and ignorance, encountered the shyness that had not yet been lifted, and the clothes I wore had not yet stood out from the blue, yellow and blue. At that time, in the middle of the desks of male and female students, there was still a clear line of "hostility"."The state (chalk draws a heavy line in the middle of the desk), it seems to be the 38th line, an insurmountable line of fire. In the absence of "negotiations.""Without the establishment of friendly diplomatic relations under the historical conditions, of course, there is no way to talk about a group photo after graduation.

At that time, there was no atmosphere of campus love, and if there was, it was extremely individual. Luckily, there was a magical couple in our class. How they got married, and when they talked about marriage, because the communication and social conditions at that time were extremely closed and backward, and we don't know anything about it.

This major news "leaked.""and spread, it is 20 years later, everyone is at peace, the material life is rich, and the wind of class reunion prevails.

Even more legendary, they had a son and a daughter, and the son gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix twins for them, and it was only natural that they were happy to be grandfathers and grandmothers, a blessing that was unique in our class.

That male classmate, we got along very well when we were in high school, and he still remembers that I gave him dumplings. You must know that for our family, eating dumplings can only wait until the Chinese New Year.

At that time, I began to love writing, and the first essay I wrote was called "Beautiful Morning", and he was my first reader and became my biggest fan. A few years later, he became the director of the district culture and sports bureau, and I was very touched by the praise of my literary talents.

After graduating from high school, he went to join the army, and when he was in the army, he often wrote to me, there were more than 20 letters, and there were ** in a few letters. To this day, I still keep these letters and ** like treasures.

It's been 35 years since we're back together. In the context of the popularity of the surging class reunion, several students have repeatedly found the class president and the study committee members to "petition."""Complaint.""and, eventually, the "team members" of the class"Touched by everyone's enthusiasm and perseverance, we finally got together once, and it was the only time.

I remember a philosopher once said that some people and some things are missed for a lifetime, and when I wrote these words, my heart was still sour...

Or pluck up the courage to talk to others yourself, after all, a class of classmates is just beginning to get acquainted. Don't think about what would happen if others didn't answer you, or be more active when others took the initiative to talk to you. Or you can tell someone that you're more introverted.

First of all, you have to be proactive, you can't always wait for others to come to you to make friends, otherwise. Unless you have a good character.

Secondly, don't pick and choose, and make friends who meet like-minded people! If you're looking for a perfect friend, the chances are low. Pay more attention to the strengths of others, and if you become friends, help them change some bad habits, so that you can also increase your popularity and enhance the friendship between friends.

Finally, and most importantly, it is important to always think about the feelings of others and think about the consequences. Otherwise, it is very likely that the friendship bridge you have built with great difficulty will be broken up immediately. Three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, and the remaining ninety points all depend on character!!

Find a topic, such as asking him what game he plays, what he likes to eat, what he plays, or, where he goes to dinner and sings, or what he does. In short, find something to participate in, and if you are more shy on the other side, you should take the initiative and not be shy.