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Haha, interesting. I also look like a child, but I'm much more silent than you, because I'm an introvert, so this causes me to be silent in the first place, and I also have a few good friends from junior high school, and I will talk to them about my troubles, my sorrows. Because I was like a child, they all treated me like an adult, and when I crossed the street, they all took me by the hand and said be careful.
Depressed. Hey, it's best to talk about any unhappiness, otherwise, hey, friends are compatible people, so don't mind those junior high school friends, it's okay to send a text message to confide. I tell you that your personality determines whether you are silent or not, and you can read more books to give yourself connotation.
You can be there by yourself in a daze. Oh, so you can be silent. Sad things can be booked, and other things can be repelled from sad things.
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Concept determines everything, if you want to live an easy life, only change your attitude and concept of life, and strive to make one or two confidants seriously, which will have a great impact on your future life, cherish your high school life, because you will inadvertently become more and more silent at the same time, and want to go back to the past, so cherish the naïve and cute now! May you be happy every day!
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Silence is not deliberate. You should become mature. Learn to be sensible, learn to understand, and learn to be considerate.
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In life, you should feel that nothing matters, and your classmates should not talk to give people a feeling of rejection, but also don't completely become cold-blooded, when others need your help, you should try your best to help, be a passionate person, so that others will definitely like the silent you, hehe, personal opinion.
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For the most part, silence isn't a compliment, and I'm guessing you're trying to be mature.
Books are man's best friend and the ladder of human progress. Therefore, we have to read more books and learn more, when your knowledge accumulates to a certain extent, you will become very connotative, then naturally you will lose the impetuous atmosphere on your body, and slowly become more and more calm. It can be said that reading and studying is the first step in cultivating a calm temperament, so everyone should be well-read.
When you have goods in your stomach and something in your head, you are not afraid that you will not be calm.
Mature and stable people generally have good sentiments, and ** can cultivate a person's sentiments, and ** cultivating sentiments is not only about playing the guitar and singing pop songs.
But everyone must learn to appreciate and understand, especially the national and classical.
and so on relatively elegant**. You can also listen to the symphony when you have time.
opera, and learn about their origins, which will also help improve your ** cultivation, and of course, it can also accelerate the cultivation of your calm temperament.
A weak person must feel unstable and insecure.
On the contrary, a person with a strong physique will definitely feel his calm and sunny breath. Therefore, we usually have to exercise diligently, strengthen exercise, and keep the skinny body away from us. And life is in motion.
A person who loves sports must have an extraordinary temperament.
When you have the above habits, your temperament will basically not be impetuous, but more calm. At this time, you will think about everything from multiple angles. Thinking before acting will be vividly reflected in you, that is, think in advance and plan carefully; In the process, we must think and implement it conscientiously; Think about it afterwards and summarize it objectively.
This kind of tepid, unhurried and impatient attitude is the calm temperament we are pursuing.
Your appearance will affect your calm temperament, because this is the first impression we give others, so we usually pay more attention. Often, people feel that the face of a calm man is angular, **bronze.
And there is a sense of vicissitudes, so we don't let our ** be too white, our hair is too oily, and we don't wear casual and trendy clothes, which are all symbols of "cream students". Then men will look calm and substantiated when they wear more suits. For women, don't wear heavy makeup, just put on some light makeup.
At this time, with some professional attire, it can better highlight your calm temperament, and it can also exude a dignified and elegant charm.
When we speak, don't babble and talk, don't talk nonsense, we must be able to speak. That is, we should not speak too fast or too slow, the tone should be changed according to the topic being said, the topic should be positive, and we should not say sarcastic words. At the same time, we should behave politely, and be neither humble nor arrogant, even if the people we meet are of high status, we must correct our mentality.
In this way, others think that you are calm and knowledgeable.
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Usually try to think twice before you speak, don't say anything when you think of it, try to slow down your speech, so that you will easily become silent, because before you speak, you are like thinking about trying to make yourself talk as little as possible, especially in front of everyone. Don't talk about it.
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Hello, these are your personalities, why do you need to change, in fact, you are really you, if you want to change, just talk less, just be unsociable, friendly, please listen to me, don't make yourself a scary, insidious in order to change yourself. Vicious people, then it's not who you really are, it's not your personality anymore.
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Read more books to increase your experience, and go out more to increase and decrease your knowledge. I've seen a lot. Naturally, the perception is different.
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Don't say everything, you can think about saying your own words before you say it, and you can also appear mature.
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Don't go to the circle of friends, stay alone on vacation, don't chat with friends; Eat, read, and listen to songs alone.
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Keeping your mouth shut is something you need to learn over a lifetime.
Just learn slowly.
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Summary. First of all, the mind must be still. When the mind is calm, it doesn't care about the things around you, so it naturally becomes silent.
Then try to restrain yourself from thinking about things that silence you, and if you make up your mind, remind yourself of silence as an aphorism. In fact, many things are easy to say, but it is difficult to do, you need to be able to remind yourself at all times when you want to speak, silence is golden.
First of all, the mind must be still. When the mind is calm, it doesn't care about the things around you, so it naturally becomes silent. Then try to restrain yourself from thinking about things that silence you, and if you make up your mind, remind yourself of silence as an aphorism.
In fact, many things are easy to say, but it is difficult to do, you need to be able to remind yourself at all times when you want to speak, silence is golden.
1. People who can talk don't necessarily stay silent. As the saying goes, there are seven points in words, clever words are wonderful, many people speak, never consider the other party's feelings, often when they are talking loudly, others listen to the heart like a knife, so, people who can talk, but also to speak smartly, but also to understand that silence is golden. 2. Know how to respect others.
Many people are impatient, often obedient and only listen to half of the words, and before others finish speaking, he will interject, making others embarrassed. If your superiors are talking to your subordinates, and you interject rashly, the leader will only think that you are a daredevil, so that your impression will be gone.
It is best to follow the requirements and recommendations of some professionals. 3.It is best to keep a distance of 2 meters from people in contact and conversation.
Don't spit casually, cover your sneeze with a tissue, etc. 4.To ensure a hygienic diet, it is best to eat hot food and get enough rest.
5.Don't get rainy, tired, and so on, and all these things that cause your immunity to drop.
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