I m a junior high school girl, what should I do if I quarrel with my classmates because of something

Updated on educate 2024-07-11
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If classmates quarrel with each other, find someone else to apologize to. If you want to save face, write a small note and write everything you want to say on it. This is a good way to work.

    Also, find an opportunity to talk to him, I think whether it is your sincere apology or some small gesture to let him know that you want to deal with him, as long as he still treats you as a friend, he will generally forgive you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on what it is, it doesn't matter, it'll be fine in a few days. If it hurts someone, then apologize.

    I am a teacher, teaching the second year of junior high school, and our students still have a big fight, but I let them know one truth: a slap does not make a sound! If there is a contradiction, first find your own reasons; If you don't control yourself and something happens accidentally, then calm down and apologize.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm also a junior high school girl, and I've felt your feelings too. Don't take it too seriously, these contradictions can be resolved, only at the time will you feel difficult to let go, in fact, you will find out afterwards that these are small things, and the real friendship will not break up because of a quarrel. We must learn to let go and face everything calmly, we are all living in our flower season, the years are like water, fleeting, we must grasp it well, cherish our youth.

    Bless you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really regard him as a friend, why might as well put down your posture and take the initiative to make peace, if you can't open your mouth, then ease it through some small things, such as taking the initiative to say hello, after all, it's good to talk about the quarrel between friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's just say that, there are no two people in this world who will not quarrel, even if brothers and sisters will have quarrels and quarrels, in fact, sometimes it is really a smile to avoid enmity, treat others well is also treat yourself, or it won't be long before you will find that those little dislikes will become the spice of life, think about the happy past between you, I wish you a speedy reconciliation!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What exactly is the matter? It depends on the situation.

    If it's just a small fight, just laugh it off.

    The premise is that the classmate has no ill will towards you.

    If he or she has bad intentions, he wants to quarrel with you'

    Then don't lose out.

    Kindness. Hopefully, you can reconcile with each other soon. Thank you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal, junior high school girls have a lot of trivial things, and it's difficult to have a classmate relationship.

    I often encounter this kind of thing, I will look at how people have a relationship with me, if it is an ordinary classmate, I usually don't pay attention to it.

    If it's a good friend, I'll make a big thing a small thing, and if it's a small thing, I'll be generous and let this matter pass.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's good to apologize, I think at your age, there won't be a big misunderstanding, if others don't forgive you, then he is not worth your association with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know what to ask...

    What are you fighting about?

    Do you feel like you're at fault? Is the other party good-tempered and reasonable?

    What do you hope for?

    In any case, in the end, it is always the individual who apologizes first or breaks the deadlock.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. At the age of the second year of junior high school, girls' minds are more sensitive, and they are easily influenced by the outside world, you are a boy, you may think it is a trivial matter, but it is not for the other party, the boy is a little more atmospheric, and he is at the same table, and he gets along well with the same table.

    A boy quarreled with the lesbian table because of a small thing (I think it is), and the more the quarrel became, the more intense it became, and finally the girl cried, what was the situation, the first semester of the second year of junior high school.

    Wait a minute.

    At the age of the second year of junior high school, the girl's mind is more sensitive, and she is susceptible to the influence of the outside world, you are a male Zheng Song child, you may think it is a trivial matter, but it is not for the other party.

    It's so coaxing, and the same table directly plays tantrums with me<>

    How to coax it, the same table directly plays temper with me<>

    Hold on. Is she still angry with you?

    That's right, it's been two days, cut off the National Day.

    Now it's all at home, and you can talk to her through mobile phone contact.

    The girl is very coaxing, buy something she likes, it doesn't have to be expensive, it's just right.

    You can ask this question to show that you still care about your tablemates, and you can use more words to coax each other, or apologize and give each other a step.

    Uh-huh. Okay, if I'm helpful to you, please give me a thumbs up, thank you

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can think that she is not talking about you, maybe sometimes she is really not talking about you, or maybe she doesn't want to admit it, and since she says she doesn't have the right to do it, you just think it's not. If you want to reconcile with her, admit your mistake to her, ask her to forgive you, talk to her more later, take her favor, the girl is not hard-hearted, you get along with her more, sooner or later she will understand. But don't be too anxious, or the girl will be easily disgusted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From a personal point of view, he should be talking to you, there is a sentence that the tighter you grip, the more dao you miss, the more you care about him.

    Edition looks at you, overstepping.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't explain anything, and don't talk to people.

    Grinding and grinding, or it won't get darker and darker. That girl may not like you, but I don't feel like this, if you can give up, give up, I feel that such a girl is not very good, if I were her, I would not be like this, and I don't need to be like this if I don't like others. Rely on time to dilute it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Charge her three-seven-twenty-one. Just ignore her!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In the junior high school learning stage, it is inevitable to have trouble with your classmates, and even quarrel, how should we solve the conflict with our classmates, I will share it with you today.

    First, you need to calm down first, calm down your emotions, don't let yourself be so irritable and angry, bad emotions are very bad for the human body, serious will affect the health of the body.

    Second, diverting one's attention to good things is conducive to calming one's emotions. You can look at the flowers and plants of the school, look at the blue sky, listen to some ** or watch a movie. can dispel bad emotions.

    Third, after calming down your emotions, you should reflect on yourself, reflect on whether you have done something wrong, and not think about how the other party is wrong, you can empathize with each other, so that you can understand the other party very well.

    Fourth, after figuring it out, you can try to resolve it, you can ask your classmates out, and then communicate well, with sincerity and apology, to endure and stop arguing.

    Fifth, if you resolve the trouble by yourself or don't want to go because of face, you can seek the help of the teacher, let the teacher help adjust, and take the initiative to apologize, I believe that under the teacher's adjustment, you will definitely be able to get back together.

    Sixth, at this time, your interpersonal relationships must be improved, and you will also learn how to socialize with classmates and how to form good friendships with others, which will also be very helpful for you to enter the society.

    Seventh, we can make a summary and write an article on our feelings, which can not only exercise our writing, but also cultivate our sentiments, and also a kind of experience for ourselves.

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