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Parents never know how difficult it is to raise a child, I heard my mother tell me that I loved to cry very much when I was a child, and my mother was very anxious when I cried, and I felt that raising a child was really difficult to raise a child, and it took a lot of effort for the child, I don't have a child yet, but I think when I have a child, I will be angry and cry. Personally, I am also very afraid of children crying, I panic when I cry, I can't do anything well, which I admire those children crying for their children, and they will be their own mothers. As a result, many mothers are begging for ways to stop their children from crying.
Change children's attentionEvery child has his own interests when he is young, such as playing with toys, watching cartoons, etc., children generally cry because they don't have something they like to do, nothing that attracts him, or they encounter something that they are uncomfortable with. Children are still relatively easy to coax, so you can bring him what he likes, such as toys or turn on the TV for him to coax him. My little niece is very fond of playing with Barbie dolls, and when I look at her, I give her Barbie dolls when she cries, which is still more effective, and the child needs to divert her attention when she cries.
When the child is young, she patiently teaches her that when the child learns to lose his temper, it is generally a little older, and when he understands something but is not completely sensible, at this time he needs parents to patiently say to the child, "There is something to say slowly in the future, you can't cry all the time, crying can't solve the problem", if you can't do it once, then say it a few more times, and slowly the child will grow up a lot better.
All of the above are when the child is older, when the child is still a baby, there must be a reason for crying, either hungry, urinating, or just uncomfortable, and the parents find that the reason is solved. One thing to pay attention to is that when the child cries, don't be too fierce to the child, it will make the child become timid and have no temper.
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Yes, it is to divert attention, find a toy that the child is interested in or call out to someone the child is interested in, and the child will stop crying immediately.
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Don't say "don't cry" to your child in the future, when your child is crying, parents can use many ways to divert your child's attention, don't divide the situation, pay attention to the child's needs, and help the child when necessary, but sometimes we should talk about principles, give children confidence and courage, and let children face difficulties and not give up, so that children will be stronger and more responsible.
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No, the child's crying means that the child has a problem and needs to be solved, and if it is not solved, it will cause a headache.
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There is no effective way to make a child cry for a second, because different children like different things, and there is no universal way.
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Children will not cry for no reason, it must be uncomfortable, thirsty and hungry will cry when the urine is full, as long as you find the right reason to meet the baby's needs.
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No, he's not a robot, and he can stop crying by pressing the switch.
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Strangulation, don't you stop crying?!
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Many parents don't like their children crying, as long as the child cries will have a big head, in fact, the child crying is just venting their emotions, to correctly deal with the child's emotions will make the child have a good calm character, so we must pay attention to the method when dealing with the child's crying.
The first step is to understand the child's feelings, listen to the child's inner thoughts, try to empathize with them, and show them so that the child feels that you understand him.
Don't blindly coax when the child is crying, you have to understand why he is crying, crying is the child is venting his emotions, at this time just hold him and say "Mom understands you, don't be sad, just now you (how)" shows that you understand him.
The second step is to understand the child's thoughts from the perspective of hunger.
When the baby's mood is slow, be sure to say, "Mommy knows you're upset just now!" The child will dilute his sadness when he hears this, thinking that you understand him, and will adjust his emotions well, and the baby's ability to change emotions is very fast, so as long as the baby is correctly guided, he will quickly adjust his emotions.
The third step is to let your child know that you love him.
After completing the first two steps, immediately say "Baby!" to your child. Mommy loves you. "You can also kiss your child on the cheek. Let your child know that he is loved by you and deserves to be loved.
After these three parts, your child may have gotten rid of negative emotions such as sadness and grievances, especially boys, you must let him learn to vent and express his emotions, and don't stop him from saying things like "boys can't cry" when the child is crying.
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Do as he wants.
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