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You are not me, how to empathize with the sentence is as follows:1. The joys and sorrows of the world are not connected, how can I empathize with you if I have not experienced your suffering. In the past, I couldn't sleep because I slept too much, but now I can't sleep because of the environment, because of people, because of things, because of troubles.

2. You are not me, how can I empathize, in fact, empathy does not exist at all.

3. Even if two people are facing the same thing, they will have different thoughts and thoughts.

4. Empathy is false, mutual understanding is true.

5. You will never be me, you can't empathize with me, how can you understand me, you don't know all the true thoughts in my heart.

6. You can never figure out my heart, you are not me, how can you understand me, make me feel that only I can understand all this.

You are not me, how can you empathize. ＂

In the past, people comforted others and always liked to say, I understand your feelings, as if you can quickly stand in the same camp of the other party and be more convincing, but now people look back and find that the so-called empathy is often not the case, so they will sigh like this.

Indeed, everyone has different backgrounds, different experiences, and different personalities, so the perspective of looking at the problem will be different, and the people who usually play the role of persuaders are either older or more knowledgeable, so the tone is always condescending, what is your pain, why can't you think about such a trivial matter, the money is gone, and then you can earn it, and you lose your job, and then look for it, and if you fall out of love, the next one is better! From their mouths, it seems that life is really happy and easy to watch, there is nothing difficult in the world, those chicken soup articles on the Internet Zen quotations also teach you to learn to let go all day long, it only takes one second to let go, it only takes one second to become a Buddha, backgammon point reader, so easy!

And what is the truth, everyone understands the truth, but there are very few people who do it, I fell, it really hurts, ** I fell, that's my salary for half a year, I was scolded, the baby is really wronged, love is over, but I still miss him very much....People spend their whole lives overcoming all kinds of weaknesses, greed, fear of loss, vulnerability, vanity, self-esteem...Those who can overcome half of them are already the strongest in the crowd, and those who overcome two-thirds can already disguise themselves as Buddhas.

I'm not you, of course I can't empathize or feel it, if you're sad, I probably won't tell you a lot of truth, to persuade you how to see it, I don't understand that it doesn't matter to you, the important thing is that I'm with you at this moment, if I happen to be the person you care about, you should feel warm and comforted, that's enough, isn't it?