It s miserable to work for relatives 20, it s miserable to work for relatives

It's disgusting, when it's good, you have to pay a lot more than outsiders to be recognized, and others think it's normal for you to pay extraordinarily, and you can't get the due return, after all, it's a relative! Pay is due. When it's not good, you have to pay for the meat, and others think it's normal, after all, it's a relative!

So it's better to stay away from relatives' stalls, and it is most cost-effective to work according to the rules of the market (the situation of immediate relatives can be exceptional, and you don't have to think about the side family), disgusting! I have experienced it myself.

Since your relatives are not kind, then why don't you change jobs.

Do everything to know what the purpose is, you help relatives to work, do you want to learn social experience, or do you want to learn work skills, if so, a year, the goal has been achieved, if not, simply quit.

Also, if you are just trying to make a living, you are advised to find a regular business, according to you, your relatives do not treat you as a relative. (But look at it another way to see if you're working hard).

Relatives may not treat you as an outsider, since this is the case, let me give you a few suggestions:

1: Communicate with your parents first to see if they want you to go back, but don't tell them that your relatives are not good for you, otherwise they will be very angry and worried about you.

2: Tactfully tell your relatives that you are not convenient to do things here, just find a reason to leave, 3: After going home and stabilizing for a while, find a job you like, your life road is still very long, don't lose confidence because of this little thing, I wish you success.

It is better not to work for relatives (unless you are going to be a leader).

As long as you work for someone, it's the same.

1 All the work you put in is not easy to get a corresponding reward You feel that you have worked hard and want a raise, but you are embarrassed to say that if your relatives do not take the initiative to give you a raise, you feel uncomfortable. If you work for someone else, you can bargain with others without any scruples, and you should get as much as you do! If it's a big deal, I'll leave and go to another company.

And when you really make up your mind to ask your relative for a raise, if he doesn't agree, then the relationship will be awkward in the future. Relatives will think that you are a person who does not care about family affection, affects relatives, and values money very much.

2 It is also possible to ask you to help you do all the big and small things in the company, but you are embarrassed to refuse, although you are not satisfied, relatives will feel that he gave you the opportunity to work, you should be grateful to him, there should be no complaints, or feel that because you are relatives, you have to help him, and you should do more things. And no matter how uncomfortable you are, it's impossible to say.

3 If you ask for leave for something, even if you give it, you will feel that you are slacking off on your work because of your kinship.

4 In another case, if one day you leave your relative's company and go to another company or start your own business, doing the same project and the same job, then you and your relative's company will become competitors and the relationship will become very delicate. You will be an ungrateful person in the eyes of others.

Therefore, working for relatives can do more harm than good.

Personally, I don't think it's good, because in addition to working for relatives who have a particularly good relationship with you, it's okay to work with relatives who are not familiar or have a bad aura, and then if you want to do something bad, they may say bad things about you behind your back.

It's not good to work for relatives, after all, there are some things that can't be said, some things are not easy to do, and relatives can't tear their faces apart, so it's best not to work with relatives.

Suppose this relative is relatively close to you. Then working for him is equivalent to you invisibly going through the back door, which is actually more convenient for you. Others want to be envious but can't envy it. And you can also gain a lot of experience from this work.

I don't think it's good to work for relatives, although no one dares to bully you, but there is always a feeling of being under the fence, no matter where you work, as long as you work hard, you can earn money.

It's not good, you worry too much about each other, but you can't improve yourself better. And my colleagues guard you all day long, and I'm quite tired.

Whether it's good or not depends on what kind of person the relative is. If you are willing to give money, you can do it with energy. If it's picky, then you have to think about it.

It's better not to work for relatives, and it's hard to give any opinions.

Stealing relatives doesn't want money to make money, and I really want to help you look forward to adoption,

It's not good to work for relatives, and there will be conflicts after a long time.

Working for relatives is really not that simple, and there is often a feeling of being under the fence and unable to raise your head.

As the old saying goes, the so-called brothers will settle accounts, or relatives, you do well is his credit, if you don't do well, it will spread all over the world, just say that individual, some relatives will also be jealous that you earn more, so I think even if you are looking for a job outside, don't work with relatives, after all, you earn more and earn less outside, and it has nothing to do with relatives, and it is different when you meet good relatives.

Because people around me have had similar real experiences:

I have a college classmate who went back to work in a relative's factory in his hometown after graduating from college. We were quite envious of him at that time, and if we stayed with our relatives and did things, we would definitely not be bullied. On the one hand, his colleagues were reluctant to get too close to him, worried that he was an undercover agent sent by relatives to supervise the work, and on the other hand, his relatives always asked him about his colleagues' work performance, words and deeds, which made him annoyed.

He didn't like this feeling very much, he couldn't get along with his colleagues, and he always felt like a spy.

The reason why some people choose to work under their relatives is that they want to be taken care of, but as time goes by, even if their relatives have given him the greatest preferential treatment in all aspects, it is impossible to satisfy him in everything, and whenever there is something unsatisfactory, he will complain that his relatives are not interesting enough and do not take care of him. In this way, instead of improving his work ability, it will promote bad problems.

There is also a situation, that is, after a long time, all aspects of their work, big and small, relatives are also very understanding, whether the relatives have the intention or unintention, more or less will tell their own situation to the family, especially some things that they are unwilling to let their family know. For example, mistakes at work, conflicts with colleagues, etc., I feel that there is no privacy and space in this way. Some people are so concerned about this that they are reluctant to work under their relatives.

Therefore, what I want to advise everyone is that it is best not to work for relatives unless absolutely necessary, even if you go to work in other places, or do business and trade, you must do it alone, which will be a lot less troublesome.

The experience of working for relatives has pros and cons, good and bad! On the bright side, you can be taken care of by relatives, such as eating problems, relatives will solve you well. On the bad side, sometimes the work is not done well, and relatives may use themselves as shields, being stricter than colleagues, and sometimes making you feel innocent.

In short, there is no privilege to do anything. You must set an example by working for your relatives, otherwise you may have conflicts between your relatives and end up with your relatives gone.

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I thought I could take it easy, for the sake of the boss being my relative, and other employees would please me, but in fact, you not only have to help the boss supervise the employees, but you have to do a little more than others, otherwise you will feel embarrassed.

If you work for relatives, you will always be looked down upon by your relatives and elders, and you will always be coldly spoken; And because of your yellow coat status, the workers always snub you and dare not make friends.

In fact, if the financial conditions in the family allow, I suggest that it is better not to work for relatives, because I think it is difficult to negotiate the salary of working for relatives, and it is difficult to say anything.

What's good about doing things under their noses, and some of them will feel that if they don't have the right heart, they will take it for granted that they are condescending and let you do things outside of work. Because I've experienced that once you don't do it well, you will say all kinds of words, but if it's good, you should take it for granted.

There are two sides to everything, relatives and kindness may take care of it, if he only recognizes money and not people, you may be embarrassed to speak and suffer dumb losses.

What should be said cannot be said, and what should not be done must be done.

That's scheming thoughts.

If you do it well, you should do it, and if you don't do it well, you don't do your best.

Don't work for relatives.

Not recommended except in particularly close relationships.

Working for relatives, in fact, is not recommended, because of the special kinship relationship with relatives, do well, feel that it is because of the relationship, do not do well, but also feel that it is the hind legs of relatives, in short, the heart is particularly uncomfortable, will be treated differently by others, and to worry more than others, but also because of the special relationship, if it is an ordinary worker, then only need to be responsible for their own work, but in view of the relationship with relatives, for some things may be more careful, It's more tired, and I haven't been recognized.

I was scared, afraid that something would go wrong and be embarrassed.

Money is not much, there is not much to do.

I'm embarrassed to open my mouth if I want to go.

There are still benefits to working for relatives For example, it is not too embarrassing to rub food or something at any time, and relatives will also take care of themselves during the part-time job.

But that's what wages are paid.

I feel too much, I'm embarrassed, too little, and I feel unbalanced