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The more you feel that love exists, the harder it is to give it up, because you have to think about how to give it up all the time.
So, it's better not to miss her, you should have a study or a job, keep yourself busy, otherwise you always have friends, play with friends more, don't look for her often, after a long time, if she is still like this, I think she really doesn't love you.
If you don't want to give up yet, then keep tossing yourself.
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Time is the best**, stop ignoring her and thinking about her, you won't feel it before you know it!
Good luck!
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It's hard to say ,.. such thing as hot and coldTalk to her to make sure she still loves you or not. If it's time to give up, make it clear to her.
Men have to make decisions on the spot, especially when it comes to feelings. It's good for you and good for her. Otherwise, only two people will suffer, and they will delay their own time.
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Since you know that it is impossible, you have to let go, and giving yourself a chance is also giving others a chance. And thinking about her has become a habit, don't deliberately forget, and don't deliberately think about her. Don't insist on it needlessly. So much is a harm to oneself and a harm to others.
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It's just used to existence, not love.
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Don't care about her, the more you think about her, the more she will be on top, insist on ignoring her for a while, maybe she will slowly get better to you.
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Delete all his things ** text messages and delete all the contact numbers, QQ, etc.
It's better to change the space.
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Take the initiative to love another person.
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If you're obsessed with someone but haven't made any real progress yet, I have a few suggestions:
1.Calm down first. Strong feelings can affect judgment, so first of all, you must examine your feelings calmly and rationally.
3.Respect each other's feelings. Don't impose your ideas on others. If the other person doesn't feel the same way, you need to accept and respect.
4.Hidden love is not as effective as explicit letter jujube dust. If your relationship has accumulated to a certain extent, and it is weighted again, you may want to consider making your intentions clear.
5.Don't worry. Unrequited love is not a competition, and there is no need to chase it blindly. If the person is not able to reciprocate your feelings for the time being, you can slowly stay in the life of the Slippery Meditation Person.
6.Make new friends and don't get stuck in a single relationship. Broadening your social circle can be a distraction, and it's also possible to meet someone who is more in line with your expectations.
7.If you are rebuffed, accept it. Pursuing not all of them is successful, it's important to learn from them.
8.Slowly change your feelings. If you determine that you can't get Requite, you can try to look at the person from a different perspective.
9.Let go of obsessions and let life return to nature. Don't let attachment interfere with other aspects of your life.
In general, liking a person can't judge aspects alone, let alone force. Be respectful of the other person's heart. If you can't be together, don't take your feelings too seriously.
And, be more in touch with life, and don't let feelings take over. Over time, the obsession may fade.
Hope it helps you a little. If you still have questions, please feel free to contact me.
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Many times, the reasons that can make you let go of someone you once loved are often not as complicated as we think.
Or, it's because we all know that there is some force majeure between us, and even if we try, we have little effect.
Or, because we all understand that we are not as good as we used to be, then since we are destined to separate, at least we can get together and disperse.
Love can indeed help us overcome many things, but the love of most people often cannot overcome time.
Spring goes to autumn, and when love is consumed little by little, love also leaves. At that time, letting go is the best outcome for us.
No one can say that we haven't loved. It's just that we all know that if we only torture each other, it's better to let each other live.
From being young and affectionate, to hating each other, some people have never finished it in their lifetime, and some people have only used it for a few months.
People can blame time, blame their own conditions, blame their looks, but they don't think about blaming themselves for meeting the wrong person.
In the slogan of the marriage registry office in a certain place, there is this sentence: "The person who loves you does not get married, but he loves you very much." People who don't love you can't protect you if they get married. ”
Because, from beginning to end, love is the reason for happiness. What makes people feel satisfied and happy is never marriage.
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Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.
Learn to give up, and life will be easier. Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories of the sedan chair; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently withdrawing his hand and saying goodbye, I really feel the lead friend La Xie, there are you along the way.
I once said I loved you, and I still love you today. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. It is like loving the flame of the wilderness, loving it, but not returning with it.
Whoever says that if you like someone, you must be with him. Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, they do not hesitate to use the most primitive method of "crying, making trouble and hanging themselves", in order to keep their lovers. Maybe this keeps the lover, but it can't keep his heart.
What's more, he lost his young and brilliant life for this, maybe this will evoke a response from his lover, but it also brings him more guilt and self-blame, as well as uneasiness, and from then on happiness will wave goodbye to him. In fact, if you like someone, you don't have to be with him, so some people often say "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", and people who are together may not necessarily be happy. Like one, the most important thing is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your heart.
So there is also such a saying, "You are happy, so I am happy." "So, when you like someone, a crush is also a good idea. If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere.
If you can't do it, then you better let it go, so sometimes, some people, too, have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.
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It's painful to make up your mind to leave, but it's going to disappear with time!