How to maintain a good relationship with friends, and how to distinguish between getting along with

I don't know how old you are. Whether it's a new career or a long time of work, you have encountered a problem. As a person, I think it is certain and necessary to be treated differently.

Colleagues at work, no matter how well they get along, as long as they work together, they must involve interests. Some people may disagree. But if you want to stay with the company for a long time and not be exposed to possible rumors, remember not to get too close to your colleagues.

With the friends in your life, that is, those who have nothing to do with your work circle, you can exchange some little secrets with them, or complain together, talk bad about the boss, and make an appointment to meet and have fun when everyone is free. Eat, drink, drink tea, fart, chat, and talk about celebrities and gossip. Holiday greetings, birthday gifts.

You can maintain a good relationship. I often chat online, exchanging recent life situations and moods. Isn't that what friends are?

But! With friends at work. There are a lot of things that can't be talked about.

Any opinions and remarks about other colleagues, bosses, and bosses, if you can, don't talk about it. If you want to talk about it, the principle of absolute observance is to say good and not bad. It's not hypocrisy, it's just a necessary form of self-preservation.

More people who don't explain, people who have worked, especially those who have suffered in this area, understand. Other times, if you think this person is worth being friends with, be friends with him. It's all written roughly.

Work and life are not wrong, there is no intimacy at work during the day, and everyone is friends, buddies, and brothers after work!

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I think it's normal for me to get separated from some of my friends at work. After all, everyone takes a different path. If you lose the intersection, then it means that you are going to be separated.

There are several reasons why we and some of our friends grow apart because of the following reasons:

First of all, when I have a career, I don't have as much time to keep in touch with my friends as I did when I was a student. Hang out with friends a lot, and everyone has to be busy with their own careers. If I spend more time with my friends, my career will inevitably suffer.

I'm an adult, and I have to be responsible for the rest of my life. So from this point of view, it's understandable that I'm drifting away from some of my friends.

On the other hand, the reason why I separated from my friends was because when I had a stable career, I would soon get married, have children, and have my own family, which further reduced my chances of getting along with my former friends. After all, for many adults, it is difficult for me to have enough time to juggle my former friends when I have to juggle both career and family, and a person's time and energy are always relatively limited. But true friends, I personally don't think they will lie in the form of these days of frank communication, because true friends will not be separated, and they will often miss each other in their hearts.

I've never had such an experience, and I don't know what the relationship is, but I think friends have to get along with each other in a hurry!

1. There is no need to be so deliberately longing for friends.

Maybe I'm more Buddhist, and when I was studying, I often met classmates who confessed their friendship to me when they weren't particularly familiar with me, and told me all about the situation at home at once, which made me a little unnatural.

In fact. It's not because I'm indifferent, but I'm actually a slow person, and I'm not used to this sudden goodness, and I feel a little pressured. Later, as I grew older, I realized that this balance was right, and friendship was not something to be rushed, but an emotional dependence precipitated by long-term shared memories.

Second, there can't be too many interests involved in friendship, but they must be together for a long time, at least they can see each other's taillights. When you were once young and frivolous, you always thought that some friends had broken bones and tendons.

Third, the more friends the better, but a few real intimate friends are enough. Sometimes we have a lot of troubles from family, growth, and love, and there is nothing we can do but find someone to talk to and share, this person knows you well, and there is no need to disguise and cover up each other, this is a bosom friend.

Fourth, the sudden appearance or gradual fading out of anyone is the normal state of life, and you don't have to worry too much. The emotions between people in Qinchang socks are often mixed with various social and psychological factors, and sometimes you can't figure out at all that years of brotherhood and sisterhood are plasticized at that moment.

Many people have encountered similar situations, some people are with friends, some people are with relatives, and friendship is brittle and weak in the face of interests. To protect friendships, don't allow yourself to have overlapping interests with them, don't think that you can "forget what is right", and human nature is selfish when everyone is thirsty. The icing on the cake and the charcoal in the snow are the umbrellas to protect friendship.

Good friends should treat each other with sincerity, consider the problem from the other party's point of view, be more tolerant and understanding, and give up in times of distress. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to etiquette and sophistication, respect each other's family, do not pretentious, do not cater to each other, and make both parties feel relaxed. If there is a contradiction, we should communicate in a timely manner, make it clear, and do not break out into a cold war.

In short, good friends should trust, support, understand and care for each other and grow together.