Why is it so easy to change your mind because of someone else s words?

People who are easily changed their minds because of a word from others usually care a lot about other people's opinions and feelings, so they usually take the opinions and ideas of others first in the process of getting along with others, and their own ideas are usually secondary. This kind of flattery can sometimes be due to the fear of being abandoned and the destruction of the relationship.

This kind of person is generally not assertive and not strong enough. This kind of person is sensitive in his heart and can easily become wary of others.

If others say what they say is right, it's okay to listen to it, but whether it's being a person or doing things, the most important thing is to have your own independent thoughts, have your own judgment, and then refer to the opinions of others.

It is easy to change yourself because of a word from others, which means that you are a person who has no opinions, and it may be that your usual thoughts or actions are not so solid.

Because your will is not strong. Often change yourself because of the advice of others, you need to be firm in your own beliefs, have your own goals to know what you want to do!

People's willpower is very changeable, and it is easy to become unfirm, so they will easily change their thinking because of a few words from others, which shows that this person himself has no opinions.

It shows that there is no assertiveness, so it is easy to change your mind because of other people's opinions.

Generally such people are quite selfish, self-centered people, they want others to change for him, they don't know how to tolerate each other, and they don't have self-knowledge, people with self-knowledge will only try to change themselves, and they won't change others, and such people are quite smart, smart people will change themselves, stupid people always want to change others, because it is much easier to change themselves than to change others, although it is also difficult to change yourself, but it is definitely much easier than changing others.

In my sophomore year of high school, the homeroom teacher asked us to take turns to be the shift leader, and it happened that I was the third. The first two classmates, one is the class president and the other is the deputy class president, and they both have good popularity, so some disciplinary violations were recorded, and nothing was said. When it was my turn, I always insisted that responsibility was the most important thing, and as a result, I watched with wide eyes all day and recorded all kinds of disciplinary violations.

The result can be imagined, those male classmates who are strong and rebellious in the period of rebelliousness used this as a talking point, exploded the pot, tore the note behind my back, and the sound of passing the note was endless. Those whispers during the evening self-study seemed to be related to me, like an invisible mountain that made me unable to raise my head. It was a very dark day, and no one in the class was with me.

Then one weekend, my neighbor's brother came to play with me, and when he talked to me about it, he talked to me for one night and told me to come out and not let these things be wrong and affect my life. I'm a person who is particularly prone to getting caught up in emotions, so I don't react too much. He was very anxious, and helped me to analyze how many greater challenges you have to endure when transferring to another school, how important the current pass is to you, and how important things are in the long road of life.

I confess that he was not a comforting man, unable to speak softly to soothe wounds and pains. But his anxious and anxious demeanor and eagerness, knowing that this is your own business, still can't bear to see you sink and see your enthusiasm for greater suffering in the future, moved me for a long time. Yes, who won't encounter bumps in the road of life?

Maybe you didn't get out of the haze right away, but there was a ray of sunshine, albeit a little dazzling, that made you face up to your situation and grit your teeth to get through it as soon as possible. This process may be difficult, but when I look back, I am extremely grateful to this kind of person who is purely for your good, and does not hesitate to bear your misunderstandings and complaints for a while. Maybe they don't try anything, but we have to give them a hug back.

Mine won't. Because, everyone's requirements for themselves are different, and secondly, everyone pursues differently, and everyone's goals and plans are different. They all think according to their own goals and ideals.

Everyone's way of thinking about problems is also different.

It's like a boyfriend or girlfriend we find ourselves, whether the other party is good to you or not, whether they live with you. Only you know. If your boyfriend treats you the same as everyone else.

That's not right. Because others have not experienced it, they have not experienced it, so don't change your opinion easily. I am reminded of the saying, "Don't comment on other people's lives if you haven't experienced them."

It's about being responsible for yourself and for others.

No matter what you do or what you think, you must first listen to your inner voice. Because that's who you really are. Our plans and arrangements are all based on our own goals, according to our own life needs, according to our own ideals, how to do it, what to do are all made after our own serious thinking, and the decisions are all made after our own serious thinking, and they all have causes and consequences.

For example, I have a good idea of what I have arranged, how to do it, what the result will be, and how long it will take.

Don't change yourself because of other people's opinions, which may disrupt your own plans and disrupt your progress.

I don't think I'm going to change myself for anyone, but I've quietly changed. Because love, life, and children have exhausted me, it's too hard to say. It depends on how much the other person loves you, how happy the two people are, whether the personality and life together, and how the habits treat you.

I change my mind appropriately because of the opinions of the people around me, and I also listen to the opinions of others. After all, friends who have had similar experiences may have experienced more, and these experiences can help us make more correct decisions.

But I think about it carefully, because other people's opinions can only be an auxiliary to me. Can't decide what I do, and can't decide how I do it. I have some good friends around me who give advice when making certain decisions, such as buying some clothes and products.

I might pick a few suggestions from friends and ask them which ones are more suitable. After listening to my friend's opinion, I will carefully think about whether the other person's opinion is really reasonable and whether it is more appropriate and reasonable.

If it makes sense, I'll change my mind. But if I don't think the reasons he gives are enough to convince me, then I'll stick to my idea. Listening to your friends appropriately can improve the stability of your decision-making.

I don't change my mind easily because of the opinions of people around me, because for me, other people's opinions are just a reference after all. Because it wasn't me, he couldn't understand my feelings. It's like buying clothes.

Some people like big names and thousands, but some like cheap ones and some people like cheap ones.

He stands from different angles and has different ideas. I will listen to their ideas and think about who is more suitable, but I will not be influenced by their ideas or from my reality. People must have their own ideas and learn to stick to them appropriately.

Although it is important to listen to your friends, if a person does not have an independent opinion, then the person is not an independent and complete person. We should listen to our friends appropriately, but we should be self-standard.

Yes, I will change my mind because of one person, and I should respect the other person's choice, and I will also try to change myself.

I would never change my mind, and if I did, it might not be me. Therefore, there are some principled things that must be adhered to.

No, because I'm a very independent person and have my own opinions and opinions, it's impossible for anyone to change their minds.

Each of us thinks differently, and everyone will have bad points and behavioral habits and other ......, and it's hard to change other people's minds if you want to.

Our family members, relatives, friends, or strangers we meet ......There will definitely be people in a relatively pessimistic state of mind, so how to deal with this problem? There are also some such people around me, who are too pessimistic, that is, they say that it is not good to mess up and delay themselves, and they will not get better in the future, and they dislike their age. I really can't stand it, and then whether I'm by my side or not, I'll go to deal with this issue with the consent of the other party.

First of all, give the other party some advice, and then carry out an enlightenment to dredge the other party's psychological state, and finally listen to it or not and do it is the other party's business, anyway, I also gave some suggestions for reference, but also to make the other party good.

Of course, the ideas and suggestions I give myself may not mean that they are suitable for everyone, nor that they are not suitable for everyone. Sometimes I don't know if it's good or bad to do it myself, but the most important thing is that it's good to do it because it might help the other person. You may also find that the person who accompanies you to do it will not change the other person's mind, and the other person is still the same, or even worse, but what?

It's not your problem, it's that the other person wants to change his thoughts and state, and he doesn't do it or is still in a pessimistic mood as always. Another is to ask you to give advice, and then be told by the other party how you are bad.

When I deal with such a situation, I find that even in the process of giving advice and ideas to the other party, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts between concepts and ideas, and there will be a lot of various arguments, and in the end the other party still agrees with my ideas, but I don't know whether to do it or not, even if I am around, I have no right to interfere with what the other party makes decisions, or change the other party's mind. Sometimes others don't know the situation and only see the surface, or they may have experienced a case of failure, and they will think that you can change the other person's mind so easily, but it is not easy, it is really difficult to change the other person's mind.

When we encounter a situation where we need to change the other person's mind, and the other person also asks us for help, all we can do is give advice and our own ideas. Because it has nothing to do with us whether the other party does it or not, and we have no right to interfere with the other party, it is enough to give our own suggestions and ideas.

Let me put it this way, others want to change you, but will you change yourself for others, just because the other party doesn't like that, and then want you to change, then will you change yourself for him, it's obviously impossible, isn't it, habits have been formed, basically it is difficult to change, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, if you are not a special person, you can't change yourself for others, right?

So you always want to change others, who do you think you are, do you think you are money, you let others go east, others don't dare to go west, you are just an ordinary person, you may be a special existence for the other party, but it has not yet reached the point where others change their own nature for you, so don't always whimsically think that you can change others, you may not even be able to control yourself, what else to talk about changing others.

For example, when you are in love, two people want each other to change for themselves, and they always feel that if the other party changes for themselves, it means that the other party really loves themselves, sometimes I want to laugh, why don't you want to think about it, whether you are willing to change yourself for others, you don't get along well, you are not willing to change yourself for each other, you go and let others change him for you, do you think it is possible.

In the process of getting along, we can only change ourselves to make the relationship more comfortable, you can only decide to change yourself, and you can't say that you feel that a relationship is uncomfortable, you feel that others ** make you uncomfortable, and then you say alas, brother, you change, otherwise I think it is too painful for the two of us to get along.

And then people just because you feel uncomfortable getting along, and then change your personality, do you think it's possible, you are not his anyone's who, even if it is a lover, it is not necessarily that people are willing to change their original personality for you, and become what I like. So in reality, don't always think about changing others, but think about how to change yourself and how to make yourself better.

This is because it is very difficult to change the other party, only we can change ourselves, and when the other party can't change him, we can only adapt to the other party. Only change yourself.

Because forcing others will make the relationship between the two parties very stiff, and changing yourself can be run in with him.

Because often in the end, others do not change, but you are angry with yourself half to death, so instead of trying to let others change, it is better to change yourself.

Personally, I think that it is not very easy to change others, but it is easy to change yourself, so we must look at problems from our own perspective.