Why can t the married daughter spend the Lantern Festival in her parents house?

Married daughters can celebrate the New Year at their parents' home.

But it's best to communicate well with your in-laws, after all, there is a good saying, the daughter who marries out is like water spilled out, and the bride is the man's person after marriage, so of course she has to spend the New Year at the man's house.

There is also a saying that the daughter who marries out will disturb the feng shui when she comes back for the New Year, so in some places, daughters are not allowed to go back to their parents' homes for the New Year, especially on the first day of the Lunar New Year, they can only stay at their in-laws' house, and they can not go back to their parents' house until the second day of the new year. Of course, if you want to go back, you must communicate well with your in-laws, so as not to cause family conflicts.

The meaning that a married daughter cannot celebrate the New Year in her parents' house:

The married daughter can't go back to her parents' house for the New Year, it's not that the married daughter will cut off her relatives from her parents, and it's not that the parents don't love their daughter, but just a feudal idea, I don't want the daughter to return to my parents' house for the New Year, I just hope that he can live better in her husband's house, the New Year is a situation of family reunion, and the married daughter can spend the new year with her husband and mother-in-law in her husband's house, start a new journey, and start a new family.

The daughter's parents hope that their daughter can go out to open up another world of their own, and they do not hope that during the Chinese New Year, they will return to the protection of their parents and become a child again, and they hope that she can take on a social responsibility, assume the responsibility of being a parent, and experience the good intentions of their parents.

According to traditional Chinese customs, it is generally believed that the daughter who marries out will go back to her mother's house for the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year, which will damage the feng shui of the mother's family.

After getting married, the daughter cannot celebrate the New Year in her mother's house", "A divorced woman cannot celebrate the New Year in her mother's house". There are many places where this custom is exquisite.

The implication is to let her daughter not feel homesick, build her new home in her husband's house wholeheartedly, and live a good life.

Especially on the first day of the Lunar New Year, as the first day of the new year, my daughter can't celebrate the New Year at her parents' house.

Chinese New Year is the biggest festival of the year in China, and the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year will invite God, and when you invite God, you must be present with your own family, and if there are outsiders, God will not invite back. And the daughter is married out of a foreign surname, so she can't go back to her parents' house in the thirties and the first day of junior high school, otherwise it will break the feng shui of her mother's family, and her mother's family will be unlucky in the coming year.

In addition to the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year, there is also the fifteenth day of the first month, and the daughter who marries cannot return to her mother's home.

These are just the traditional customs of China in the past, and now there are many young people who no longer pay attention to these, especially those families with one child, they will take turns to celebrate the New Year, so that they can spend more time with their parents.

During the Chinese New Year, you should ask the gods to send the gods (that is, the ancestors of the family), and the daughter who gets married becomes a member of someone else's family.

If there is a married daughter present during the Chinese New Year, the ancestors will not come back, and the family will be unlucky in the new year, which will ruin the family's wealth, especially for the elder brother or younger brother of the mother's family.

This is just a traditional custom, and there is no such thing as a necessity. This can still be said according to your own family situation, if you and your family don't care, then you want to spend the New Year there, if you pay attention to customs, then it's good to settle customs.

This is the custom of the old early years, saying that the daughter who marries out will return to her parents' house after the new year and the first day of the new year, which will affect the mother's family to live a good life.

Hello, married daughters can't spend the New Year in their parents' house, mainly because: 1. Traditional customs: In the culture of defeat and dismantling, it is believed that married daughters should stay at her husband's house and cannot return to her parents' house for the New Year, in order to symbolize the daughter's loyalty and loyalty.

2. Social concept: The society believes that the married daughter should concentrate on serving her in-law's family, rather than returning to her parents' house for the New Year, as a way to express respect for the society. 3. Economic reasons:

Due to the family's economic constraints, the married daughter could not afford the expenses of celebrating the New Year at her parents' house, nor could she support the family to buy new clothes and food, so she could only stay at her husband's house for the New Year. 4. Family environment: Married daughters generally have their own family life in their husband's house, and they also have their own family, and if they return to their parents' house for the New Year, it may affect the lives of other families.

These are all superstitious claims and cannot be believed.

1. One saying is that women will miss their families when they just get married, and if they go back to their parents' homes on this reunion festival, one is that their in-laws' family cannot be reunited, and the other is that they are afraid that women will be homesick, resulting in unstable life in their in-laws' family, so when three years later, women have children, and naturally they are not taboo.

2. Another theory is that the fire of the mother's family in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve and the lamp of the fifteenth year, the fire means the day of fire, and the lamp means the people, and if the married girl sees the lights of the mother's house, she will not be rich and the people will not prosper in the coming year.

3. Then there is the deceased ancestors, who come home from heaven to enjoy the offerings. If the ancestors saw that there were "outsiders" in the house, they would not want to enter the house. Married women are recognized as "outsiders", and after the ancestors enjoy the offerings, they return to the heavenly limbs on the night of the first (or second) day of the new year, and the daughter can go home.