Why do you find it so difficult to find a partner you can marry?

I just sighed, you don't seem to really feel the existence of love, what is something that you haven't even figured out, what happened when you got married? You need to figure out these questions, if you don't understand them and take root, then your happiness will be short-lived, not long-lasting, and may make you regret it for life.

Love has no boundaries, it's just that some of us can't be careless, since we are biased towards the side we are worried about, then what are the complaints? The choice is your own.

You are actually not bitter in the first place, but you think a lot of things too perfectly and naïvely.

Silly sister, everything is destined, but everything is chosen by yourself. If you want to be happy, you should think about it. If you don't understand, you get it is equal to nothing.

Originally, marriage was a bit about finding a refuge. True love is not nothing. It's that life now makes people more realistic.

To say that marriage is the destination of love. I can't see it. Because people are getting married now. There are many people who have only known each other for two or three months and got married.

Hehe, the world is like chess, who could have predicted, you are still young, why bother, don't worry. If there is a fate, you will meet it, and you can't force it on anything.

You're still young, don't be in a hurry. It's still yours to run to**... Fate is destined.

Nothing can be perfect, and it is better for women to be stupid and easily feel that they are very happy.

Work and career bring us economic income and something to do, in addition, human beings also need the love and support of others, always alone, life is inevitably bleak, there is no shortage of lovers in the world who have repeatedly shown frustration and conservative harm, people are willing to find true love hand in hand for a lifetime. But people of all ages find it really hard to find true love. There are several main reasons:

1.Got in the wrong place. Some people say that bars and parties are not the best occasions to find the love of your life.

But many things in life are not so simple and clear, some people are impatient and rash, they add friends and attention when they see someone, they may get carried away and forget to expand the scope of their involvement, and even forget those who are already in their lives, and they are closed and locked in their hearts, unwilling to seek a new encounter.

Didn't give enough opportunities to others. Someone who hits the south wall once will push all the chances, are you looking at everyone too badly or are you just making excuses? Fear and high expectations make us more restrained and conservative, just a date and not a lifetime.

We need to realize that we have turned away many opportunities, and we need to keep an open mind when we are in love.

3.Fat house at home. If you stay at home after work and on holidays, you naturally can't meet the person you like.

You might as well go to the gym to work out, or you will meet him (her) who also likes fitness, you can also join the circle of calligraphy and painting, instrumental music performances, etc., and maybe you can meet like-minded people. You can also use reliable marriage and love software, such as a companion marriage and love, only marriage and love, these platforms have a strict certification system, which greatly ensures the safety of users, and you can rest assured that you can find a partner on it.

At the beginning of the new year, are you always full of confidence and like all kinds of wishes? New Year's resolutions are different for everyone, but for single people, there may be many wishes, but wanting to get out of the list and find the right person must be one of them. At the beginning of the previous year, you made a wish to get rid of last year's singleness, but last year you were still alone.

At the beginning of last year, you made a wish that you could get rid of singleness this year, and now that this year is coming to an end, have you really said goodbye to being single? Now, do you have a lover by your side, or are you still alone? You haven't been able to find the right person, and no one can even think about it.

You just think it's really hard to find the right person to marry. Falling in love and getting married seems to be a very simple thing, but it is actually to find someone and then be with him. But it seems so simple, but at the same time, it's not easy.

When I was a child, I always thought that as I grew older, I would become more and more capable of understanding too many things, and I felt good about myself. Don't you think it's so hard?

It is very difficult to meet the needs of marriage and love at the same time, because the marriage partner has to be evaluated in many ways. So it's hard to find the right person to marry.

Because there will always be conflicts and quarrels in marriage, but if there are no quarrels in the life of two people together, it is estimated that the probability is very small, because these are things that need to be constantly run-in.

Hard. On the one hand, the difference in the ratio of men and women is that people nowadays have different ideas about marriage, they used to marry for the purpose of reproduction, and now they choose marriage for the sake of a better quality of life. If you can't bring a high-quality married life, it's better not to get married.

As a result, many people are picky and fearless!

In fact, it depends on how you think and whether you are demanding or not, if you are particularly demanding, of course it is difficult. For example, if you ask the other party for their job, the other party's appearance, the other party's education, and the other party's family.

1.This problem is also the problem of the elders, and it is very direct that most of the elders do not have a clear understanding of the real interests of the younger generations when they introduce them to the younger generations, but only match them according to the very superficial one, family conditions and personal income, in fact, most people lack understanding of the two parties he wants to introduce.

2.In addition, many elders are not seriously introduced, but spontaneously, and when they talk about gossip with relatives, neighbors and even colleagues, they arrange blind dates as they wish. You must know that even professional matchmakers may not do a good job in blind date introduction, and they are introduced at will, of course, the success rate is not high.

3.There is another point, sometimes the blind date introduced by the elders may be deliberately arranged to fail. In order to get married to their children, many elders have also put a lot of thought into the blind date.

In the conventional practice, I will deliberately find a few people who are not suitable or have lower conditions than the child's vision, let the child feel a round of frustration first, and then arrange them. The main reason is that the elders look at the object from their own point of view, so they ignore our feelings, so the success rate is naturally not high.

In fact, everyone has this illusion, and it is difficult to meet a suitable marriage partner. The first thing is to be a suitable person, a person who is responsible for feelings and sincere. While asking the other party, the other party is also examining themselves.

Therefore, if you want to find a suitable marriage partner in the vast sea of people, you must work hard to pursue, love life, and help others enthusiastically, so that when you meet fate, you will meet someone who is excited.

In fact, after coming into contact with many people, when I find that there is no one who really matches my imagination, I feel that it is actually very difficult to find a partner. I don't know if everyone will feel the same way as me, in fact, my own feelings in this regard are more profound, especially when I really want to fall in love, I will find that it is difficult to find a person in the circle around you who really likes or says that you want to fall in love with each other. At least I haven't found it myself so far.

In the past, when people talked about finding a partner, they always thought that it was actually a very simple thing, which means that if you want to fall in love, then there will always be one of you who matches your heart. In fact, most people think so, but it actually only exists in your imagination, if you really practice it in real life, you will find that you want to find a real favorite person among many people, or people who can really be in a relationship with each other, in fact, very few. Then such a person may be difficult for him to find in real life.

Because you will find that when you are in contact with the other party, it seems that there are always one or two points in the other party that make you dissatisfied, such as the other party's appearance is very suitable for your aesthetics. But in the process of getting along with him, you find that there is a conflict between each other's three views. In other words, you and this person, you think he is very suitable in all aspects of thinking, but the only thing is that when you get along with the other person, you will always feel that there is a certain point in his life habits that is difficult for you to accept.

In this situation, you can't really fall in love with each other. When I want to fall in love and then start looking for a partner, I feel that finding a partner is actually a very difficult thing, and it is not as simple as I imagined.

Yes Right now, because I'm still single, and I find it very difficult to find a partner.

Yes, you want to have children together, you want to grow old together, and you have to live with money. You must keep your eyes open so that you will not regret it in your life, and not be impulsive.

There was a real moment when I felt that finding a partner was a difficult thing to do, because it takes a lot of energy and time to find a partner.

Everyone's feelings and experiences are different, and they can vary greatly.

As long as you find the right person and fate, it is quite simple to find a partner to marry. If you don't find the right person, you can't get lucky, of course, it's very difficult.

I think it's hard to find a partner to marry. Because among all living beings, it is difficult to find a person who is more spiritually compatible with oneself, who can have the same goal with oneself, and care for each other to grow old together.

Excellent boys or girls, no boyfriend and girlfriend or no one pursues, it may be that the three views of thinking and mate selection requirements are stricter, the opposite sex can not be satisfied or dare not approach, marriage is not child's play, carefully choose the matching object, it is also reasonable, the mate selection conditions are very complex, such as the right family, economic foundation, living conditions, temperament, talent, personality, self-motivation, sense of responsibility, filial piety to elders, etc., must be carefully considered, so it is inevitable to miss some marriage, leads to the situation of being single at an older age, first of all, you must be yourself, whether you can find your favorite object, everything is fate, and there is barely happiness.

It depends on what kind of man it is? There are those who are difficult and those who are not!

For example, it is very difficult for a lazy Chinese man who "daydreams" all day long to find a partner to marry! Because he has the ability to support himself, and he is even more capable of supporting his wife and children!

For example, a Chinese man who works very hard, also strives to improve his cultural knowledge, and likes to help others, he has many friends, and girls like him, and he can easily get married!

Although the Chinese have a lot of bad habits:

If you want to get married, you need a large bride price.

Some have cars and houses.

But there are many people who don't want a bride price, and there are many people who don't want to have a car and a house!

You can find such a person as a partner, and you will have it all around!

Such a girl is more inconspicuous and simple. As long as the girl is hardworking and kind, she can be a partner to get married!

The premise of finding a partner is that you can't ask the girl to be good-looking and have a good figure! Because such girls chase too many people and have high requirements for boys, you may not have them!

If fate arrives, you will find that it is not very difficult to find a partner to marry, because when your fate arrives, there are some things that you can't avoid, and he will always surround you. If you don't have fate, you may find it very difficult to find a partner to marry.

It's a very difficult thing in the first place, this is a lifetime event, how can it be simple. For the college entrance examination, you spent at least 12 years studying and preparing. How much time do you need to study and prepare for getting married?

Was there a moment when you found it difficult to find a partner to marry? I think it's normal for young people nowadays to find a partner to fall in love, but when it comes to getting married, then when you think about your future income and the bride price on the meat ceremony, then at this moment you may feel that it is very difficult to get married.

Dear, the answer is trying to come, please wait.

Actually, it's not that hard, right? It is only after getting married that there may be a difference from your original expectations, which will make it difficult.

People live to learn all the time, just like learning things and recharging. It's all about learning. Find a partner to marry, and after marriage, you have to learn. As long as you have the determination to ask questions without shame. It's not difficult.

For a moment, I felt that it was difficult to find a partner to marry, especially after a series of failed blind dates, and that frustration would make people feel that it was too difficult to find a partner to get married.

Finding a partner to marry is indeed a major event in a person's life, which determines whether we will be happy in the second half of our lives, so agree with you, this is a thing that needs to be very cautious.

Be. When you see that someone else has already started a family and is still alone, you will feel how useless you are. It's so hard to get married!

I have always felt that it is very difficult to find a partner to marry, and it is really not a simple thing to test a person's patience and vision.

Most people will have such an idea, of course, most of them are people who don't have much money, and rich people will be worse, mainly because of the problems of this era.