What is it like to be able to take things and put them down?

That's probably to live a relaxed life, no matter what is very heart-wrenching, you can always forget it casually, and you will never worry about being too persistent to let go, and your life will suddenly be brighter.

Many people belong to the kind of people who are more rigid, like girls are easy to be very dull about things, once they encounter something difficult to solve, they will be particularly annoyed, and they will be entangled in it all day long, but if they can afford to put it down, it is really great, I know that this is difficult for many people to do now, no matter who will have their own points that they can't mind, adults will worry about their work, family, old people will be anxious about their bodies, children's careers, So it's really hard to look at one thing very openly, after all, there are really too many trivial things in life to take care of.

I'm really envious of this kind of person.,Imagine if we can do what they can do to be relieved.,How much less unnecessary troubles will life have.,So you will find that life is so simple and happy.,Every time you encounter difficulties, you will feel that it's a big deal.,Isn't it okay to face it well?,Or encounter any emotional problems that are difficult to let go.,The person who has been hiding in your heart as long as you want to let go of him can disappear from your world., You can go back to your normal life. This simple and casual way of life believes that everyone will desire it, but it is true that they have to submit to reality, after all, no one is so strong, strong enough to be brave enough to make themselves happy.

For a while, I was also very self-indulgent, anyway, it was all kinds of hilarious, regardless of the many practical factors of this world, and finally I understood the rules of survival in this world. It's really hard to take it up and put it down, it's hard to really convince yourself to really let go, and even when we face some things, it becomes very difficult to even pick it up, let alone let us put it down.

I think this is a good self-regulation ability, since you have this free and easy, it is better to face your life well, so that you will live a happier and simpler life.

I once had a friend, the kind of straight man with advanced cancer, who said that we girls are easy to be indecisive, easy to drag things out, and not to be simple. Then I would say that my friends and I may be fake girls. Although we are not decisive to the point of being crispy, we can definitely afford to put it down, and we do things cleanly.

One of my best friends is also my type, and she is also quite principled. She went to college a year later than me, repeated a year, she failed the college entrance examination at that time, everyone was quite a pity, and her family was also immersed in that blow, but she herself was only sad for a while, and she adjusted herself in one afternoon, and then the next day she discussed with me whether to repeat the matter (her family has not yet relieved), we met for more than an hour, and finalized the matter of repeating, and then went to the school to register, and had lunch. After going back, her family cautiously asked her if she wanted to consider repeating, and she calmly took out the registration form and put it in front of her family, saying that it had been done.

It's still this best friend, she broke up with her boyfriend after repeating it, the reason was that she split her legs, she told me on the day she knew about it, and then I was stunned for a moment, and contacted her very calmly to break up, she was very angry over there, and said to give me back ** in ten minutes, I waited patiently for ten minutes, and then she replied that I just broke up with that scumbag!

My friends and I are like this kind of things that we can afford to put down, do things cleanly, and neatly. In fact, this style of doing things makes us feel that we have saved a lot of energy and time, and we have not wasted time on choices and entanglements, nor have we wasted energy on inconsequential things.

I can take it and put it down, because in the end I won't regret it, and there will always be a result.

Being able to afford to play and let go is a disappointing overreach, and there is no way, choose a way to turn around. As far as the relationship between men and women is concerned, there are many people who can't let go, maybe because of regret or because they still love but can't be together. The first boy I liked could only stop at liking, and the love at first sight at that time was only a regret in retrospect.

The two years of high school were the happiest for me, not only meeting him like a bosom friend, but also meeting a crush on him. In my sophomore year of high school, I transferred to the liberal arts class, and the first person I met was him, and there were not many people in their class who went to science, so there were seven or eight people who came in, because many people didn't know each other, so there would be some constraints, and a character like me was a quiet and terrible woman who was unfamiliar with it, and was crazy after talking. On the first day of evening self-study, the two of us began to talk, and I felt that we were familiar with a lot in this evening self-study, and we could talk and feel very good.

Later, they got along with each other, but they just fell deeper and deeper. After the college entrance examination, the contact has gradually become less, the people who come into contact with each other are not the same, and the topics between them are becoming less and less, if I don't take the initiative to talk to him, the contact should be gone for a long time.

Finally this year, in a chat I told him that I liked him, but he changed the subject, I knew that I probably didn't give up, since then we have never spoken to each other as agreed, and slowly stopped thinking, for me, regret let it become regret, have been thinking that it is not good for me, anyway, it is impossible to be together, after these two years, everyone has changed, it is no longer the way it used to be, maybe being together is not what it was at the beginning.

To really be able to afford to put it down is to go with the flow ......

People must be able to take it and put it back.

Under. To be able to afford it is to survive, and to be able to put it down is to live; It is the ability to take it, and it is wisdom to let it go.

Some people can't take it, so they don't care to put it down; Some people can afford it, but they can't put it down. If you can't afford it, you will be mediocre; If you can't let it go, you'll be exhausted.

There are many things in life that need to be let go. Only by letting go of those unnecessary burdens can we move forward in style.

Don't be proud of success, don't give up for failure.

Men have to be able to afford to put it down.

It's up to you! There's nothing you can't put down, the question is whether you want to put it or not!