Sick of it. My mom said in front of me again how other people s children are doing 5

If you don't study, go out and find a job and live alone, which is the best way. Others don't say anything to pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and parents should love their children in moderation and respect.

You just tell your mother: Having more girlfriends doesn't mean that you have the ability, just one wife.

Find a student, you don't have to buy her cosmetics and clothes.

My parents were like that, and my mom always said that when I was a kid! Just listen to it.

That's to save face, don't be jealous.

To understand your mother, she wants you to start a family as soon as possible, for your future plans, maybe her expression is inappropriate, but the starting point is good, pity the world's parents.

Mothers all hope that their children are better than others everywhere, maybe your children get married earlier, so the mother is a little anxious, understand.

That's not good. Every family has an excellent child from someone else's family. But the family is like this. Just don't take it to heart.

Mom also said this because she was anxious for her son, she loves you, so don't take it to heart, and let it be natural to find a girlfriend.

It's too early to fall in love at the age of 20, hehe.

Sympathy, but your mother is really worried about you, I don't know how many times I've been nagged, and I'll do my own thing after I go out. Looking for a girlfriend depends on fate, and fate can't be forced before it arrives.

Hehe, your mother is in a hurry to hold her grandson. You're still young, so get a job and take your time.

Then you say, why don't you have a son who can have so many girlfriends.

It can only comfort you that you can get used to it.

You're right, it's expensive to find a woman right now, but you don't have a favorite target?

In fact, my mother just hates that iron is not steel, and my mother also hopes that you are as good as other people's children, but he just won't express what he says, in fact, he hopes that you can become good.

Mom always hopes that you are better than other children, just compare you with other children, always say your gap, hope you can eliminate the gap, so that you are better than him, don't care too much, but to understand the mother's painstaking efforts, work hard, let the mother rest assured, in the mother's heart, your own child is the best!

Because there will always be comparisons, mothers are always afraid that their children are worse than others, so it is better to be silent.

Because the mother only sees the goodness of other people's children, and when other people's children come home, once the door is closed, they can't see the problems of other children, which is just like adults, and the Chinese people have the tradition of "drinking porridge behind closed doors, but also going out to look bright". FYI@

Because every parent wants their children to become successful children, just to motivate you and make you study harder.

Hate iron does not make steel. It's just that the approach is a bit radical.

My mom used to do the same.

Copy the usual, then I compare the top students in the class, you see how people are ......But to be said, you must be great, but you are great every time, and your mother won't praise you every time, she can't praise you. It's not that other people's children are really good, and they definitely have shortcomings. But what will be shown in the eyes of outsiders will be the advantages, and the eyes of beauty will be found because the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, and the shortcomings of the children will be hidden at home.

Mom wants to encourage you, and your mom must have said that other people's children are better than you. It's not that you're really bad, it's because every time your mother says something, it's just your weakness. If you don't believe it, if you didn't take class notes before, and now you suddenly do it, your mom will definitely praise you if you find out, but you do it every day, your mom won't praise you every day, right?

It's going to turn out to be a killing.

There is another person who has the wrong method of education.

AI This is the parents, in fact, parents are the most selfish, they want their children to be the best, but they can't show it, so they can only show it in the form of envy of other people's children, and let the child know that if you want that child to do the same, you will also get praise, but parents are insatiable, and the more obedient you are, the more you put pressure on them to date, so when they cross other children, you just treat it as routine and ignore it.

My mom used to hit me a lot and say that I was fat, and I was sad for a long time when I was thin and looked good in clothes. In the end, I couldn't bear to say loudly, you only hit my self-esteem when you say that, I'm inferior enough. Then slam the door and leave.

My mom hasn't dared to say anything about me since. Just say from the side that I'm going to **. Just tell your mother directly, she thinks you have no self-esteem, but in fact you do.

He thinks you won't care, but you do.

Every mom is like this... Just get used to it.