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Whether parents are kind or not will affect their children's lives. Because the parents are the originals and the children are the copies, the words and deeds of the parents directly set an example for the children, which will directly affect the formation of the children's values and ideological system.
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Absolutely. Because after all, parents are the first teachers of their children, and what parents do will affect everything about their children, so the character of their parents will affect their children's lives, so as parents, you must be kind and set a good example for your children.
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Not necessarily, some maybe, because children's ability to imitate is very strong, and when they see what their parents do when they are young, they may imitate it; On the contrary, it is useless if parents are kind alone, but do not educate their children.
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Yes, because parents are the best teachers for children, children will definitely learn from their parents in their daily life, so it will affect children.
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Children grow up watching the backs of their parents, they will learn from each other, parents are kind-hearted, children will grow up to be a kind person, what kind of parents have what kind of children.
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Yes, if the parents are very kind, then the child will also become very kind and upright in the future, which is very beneficial to his future growth and development, otherwise it may ruin the child.
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Yes, the family is always the best teacher for children, the kindness of parents will be reflected in life, and children will also learn from their parents imperceptibly.
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Yes, because parents generally have a great influence on their children, and if you are not kind, children will learn your behavior and will not be very kind when they grow up.
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Of course, as a parent's first teacher, many things are taught to the child through the words and deeds of the parents.
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It will affect the child's life, unkind children are often distorted in their hearts, and the darkness and destructive power of the world have underlying thoughts, as parents should guide their children to be a kind person.
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Yes, because when children are not in school, parents are the best teachers for children, and children don't understand anything, so they will learn from adults, that is, parents will follow their every move to learn, learn from them, learn from them, learn from them to do things.
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Yes, the child's first teacher is the parent, and when the parent sets an example for the child, the child will follow and learn, thus changing his life.
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It will have a big impact because children are very capable of learning when they are young, and if their parents do not set an example, children will also learn.
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I think it will. Because children grow up with their parents. And the child will imitate the behavior of the parents. So it's very important for parents to be kind.
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Parents' distrust of their children is a sign of negation of their children. It will cause children to have low self-esteem, isolation, deepening estrangement from their parents, and even alienation. Many parents think that they have done their best to treat their children, but they ignore a very important psychological question, are you the person your child trusts the most?
As a parent, you should not only worry about your child's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also pay attention to your child's respect and establish a relationship of trust between your child and you!
Parents who don't trust their children can have a bad impact on their children's lives, and I believe everyone agrees. Most parents know to trust their children, but due to some unexpected situations in life or deep-rooted beliefs in our minds, we often doubt our children.
Some parents suspect their child of cheating because his score rises too quickly, and some indiscriminately label his child as a bad child because he fights. We trust our own eyes and our own ideas more than we believe in our children.
<> encounters something, it is really important for parents to choose to believe in their children in the first place. Of course, I believe that the child is not blindly affirming, but it is important to give the child a chance to explain before the matter is clarified, and it is not too late to punish after confirming that it is your child's fault.
Being wronged by their own biological parents is a dark memory in many people's childhood. In order to give children the confidence to be happy for a lifetime, when we are carried away by anger, we must pinch ourselves, tell ourselves not to be impulsive, and listen to the child's voice first.
For the sake of children's growth, let's do our best to trust them!
It's a very simple topic, if you put yourself in your shoes, if your father didn't believe you, how would you react? So if you don't believe in your child, it will have an absolute impact on the child, it will lead to a decrease in the child's self-esteem, and the decrease in self-esteem will affect the child's creativity, self-confidence, and brain development. So why cultivating children's self-esteem becomes the most important lesson for parents.
As a parent, you should love your child unconditionally, so that your parents realize that they have always loved themselves, and it will have a good effect on you to set rules and discipline them. The discipline of children should be kind and firm, which is the education method of positive discipline and admiration, and unconditional love can make children reduce their self-esteem for firm ways and behaviors.
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It will make the child become unconfident, unable to do things bravely, and will cause low self-esteem over time, and will be more likely to rebel, no longer communicate with parents, and will not ask for parents' opinions when doing things.
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Adults don't trust children, children's hearts are hurt, and children will not give their trust to adults. It's a process of mutual trust. If the child's heart is hurt, his inner emotions are also weak.
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The child is not too kind to the person who bullies himself, so he must resist bravely, and then tell the teacher about it. Although it can be harmful to the child, it is also a lesson.
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In terms of forbearance, we can't let the child be wronged all the time, and the child must be alleviated if he is wronged.
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When it comes to money, it involves friendship, and it comes to safety. Matters involving the interests of the defense. If you don't educate your children about it, it can lead to harm to your children.
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There will be harm, such as not being able to blindly tolerate what others do wrong, knowing what is right and wrong, and having the courage to correct what is wrong.
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Because each child's personality is different, and it also helps the child to be healthy, and can also set a good example for the child, many parents still have to teach their children to be kind.
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It is a simple but important common sense to teach children that "the beginning of human beings and the nature of nature is good", and to tell children to stick to the bottom line of "not doing evil" through personal actions. In the process of children's growth, the most important thing we should teach our children is not to become bad, not to do evil, and not to do things that harm the interests of others. This is to let children realize that no matter what kind of situation they are in in the future, they must maintain their own ethics and bottom line, because those who lose the bottom line will have no constraints, and it will be extremely easy to do things that harm others and themselves for their own interests.
If you do a lot of evil, you will have trouble.
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This is because letting children stay kind can maintain their nature, and they can let them have the correct three views, and they will not change their kindness because of the sinister nature of society.
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Parents are their children's first teachers, so of course they have a great influence on their children.
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If the child's performance is not as good as expected, or if the child's academic performance is lagging behind others, the child will of course suffer from the complaints of the parents. Parents often belittle and blame their children, often causing emotional trauma to their children. In the past, children would deny themselves and feel that they were "waste".
Children must be praised and praised in the process of growth, and parents should try to avoid belittling and scolding their children, so that the children's mental and physical growth will be healthy and happy.
Some parents promise that their children will give them some material encouragement if they test their development, but when the child holds the report card and asks for rewards from the parents, the parents gradually lose their word. If parents do not keep their word for it, when the child grows up, he or she is likely to become more and more untrustworthy and prefer to find subjective reasons instead of correcting himself.
Whether there are parents who feel like that, the child is still young, and he can't tell the difference between the good and the bad, so he often makes decisions for the child. When parents make all the choices for their children, are they really as happy as their parents want? But not really.
It is important to understand that even children who are not minors have their own way of thinking and feelings. When parents take away their children's right to make their own choices, they actually lose their ability to step into the road of autonomy and independence. Only when a person has the right to choose and can gradually assume the obligation of choice, can he have a lot of autonomy and happy energy in his own world.
I once read a story like this: "When a child wanted to snuggle in his mother's arms as a child, the mother would always get bored of pulling him away!" Now that he is in his thirties, he still can't forget the dark shadow left at that time.
The mother has always felt very aggrieved, feeling that he is not close to his mother, he said: "Actually, I am also very helpless, I didn't get a good face when I was a child, and the black shadow left by being beaten and scolded was too heavy." This incident informs parents that compared with adults, children's moods will be more sensitive and brittle, and the market demand for care will be higher.
Children may not understand what love is, but they can recognize love by waiting, smiling, and embracing each other.
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First of all, I think it's some language habits from my parents. Some parents have a habit of shouting loudly or being very irritable. Children who grow up in this kind of family will actually learn these habits of their parents subtly. And that kind of swearing, abusive language all the time.
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Scolding a child, this kind of behavior can affect the child's life. Because scolding in his heart will leave traces. thinks that his parents don't love him.
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Parents often insult their children, and often beat and scold their children, and they will insult their children, and they will taunt them coldly, so that the child's heart will be hurt, and they will also have an inferiority complex.
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Many parents have a common characteristic in educating their children, that is, they like to compare the advantages of other people's children with the shortcomings of their own children. This is very bad for the growth of children, family education is very important for the growth of children, parents must be cautious and wise to have the correct concept of parenting, master the appropriate education methods, and make reasonable use of all educational resources.
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Yes. You should say more positive things to your child, so that your child will be positive when he encounters difficulties.
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