The world s great scientist Meiwen who influences a child s life

Hehe, so much, how to say.

Any accomplished person can influence a child's life.

Albert Einstein, The Theory of Relativity.

Newton, the law of gravitation.

Archimedes, Archimedes' theorem (Give me a fulcrum and I can pry up the earth).

On the football pitch, you have a few chances to score, but when they come, do you take them? For football players, they need opportunities, but also superb skills. So for life, there are not a few opportunities, when the opportunity comes, you have to master superb skills, grasp the opportunity, and create brilliance.

We, the children of the world, declare to the world:

The world of the future should be peaceful.

We want a planet free of war and **, we want to eliminate destruction and disease.

We don't want hatred and hunger anymore, we don't want homelessness anymore.

We will share enough food that the earth has given us, and we will defend the beautiful rainbow in the sky.

We will protect the source of our life, and we will keep the river clean forever.

We need to play together, laugh together, learn from each other, explore together, and strive to improve everyone's living standards.

We are for peace, for the peace of the present, for the eternal peace, for the peace of all.

Let the adults of the world join us, throw away fear and sorrow, and grasp laughter and fantasy, and the world will be peaceful.

1986 was the Year of World Peace. On September 25 of that year, at Farrachen Lawn Park in New York, representatives of children from all over the world signed the World Children's Peace Pact

Introduction: The children of our world want peace.

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Although I haven't seen it, I still support it!

Passing the buck Reading "Children all over the world cry when they hit the table" in the "Education Digest", which describes how mothers in China, Japan, and the United States deal with their children when they hit the table and cry. Among them, the Chinese mother's handling of this matter caused me to think deeply. The child hit the table, which was originally caused by the child's own carelessness, but the mother said:

Xiaobao don't cry, mom hit this table. This sentence of the mother made a qualitative change in the cause of the problematic behavior, and it was the fault of the table, not the child, that the mother had never thought that the same thing would definitely happen again. Some parents may think that this is just a trivial matter, and the mind is very simple, just to divert the child's attention, so that he can forget the pain and stop crying.

But in the child's opinion, if he accidentally falls, he can find the floor and table as a 'scapegoat'. In this way, he will form in his mind the concept that he can not admit his mistakes and evade responsibility. Later, when he grows up, in the process of interacting with others, once he has a conflict with others, he will naturally push the mistake on others!

It can be seen that parents usually see the short-term effect of this approach - the child does not cry anymore, but does not see the long-term effect of this practice - the child learns to shirk responsibility. I teach in the first grade, and there are many children in the class who shirk their responsibilities, which can be vividly reflected in the small things of sesame. For example:

When cleaning, the little girl Dan swept the floor fast, the little girl Tong was slow, Dan wanted to sweep the front of the classroom, let Tong who was standing in front give way, Tong gave way a little slower, Dan directly pushed it away with a broom, Tong came to complain to me, I found Dan, asked her what happened and the reason, after she finished speaking, I was surprised, from Dan's mouth a large paragraph of words did not admit that he was wrong, and pushed the reason for the mistake to "Tong speed is too slow", I then asked: "Are you not wrong?" "Looking at Dan's somewhat confused eyes, I was really disappointed in my heart.

What happened to our children? Where is their sense of responsibility? As a parent, when you see your child's mistakes, you must point out, and when your child doesn't think it's a mistake, you should patiently reason with your child, let him know that both parties are responsible, and learn to tolerate others and take their own responsibilities.

Passing the buck is not just a child's behavior, we adults also think of excuses to avoid responsibility. The psychology of escaping responsibility is the fear of criticism, that is, not wanting to be denied. Responsibility training should begin when the child is still young, parents must imperceptibly influence and cultivate the child through words and deeds, parents by helping the child to take on the real responsibility, not only let the child learn moral reasoning as soon as possible, but also can prompt them to develop the corresponding moral behavior, in the long road of moral maturity to take an important first step.

Tolstoy said: "A man can achieve nothing without passion, and the basis of passion is responsibility." ”