What is it like to have a mean and fussy father?

Hello, very understanding of the pain of having such a father. Every time there is a conflict, he will say that I am worthless, as if I live in this world is a waste, and I should die. How to hurt a child's self-esteem.

He will say whatever he wants. The economy is also very harsh, compared with the children of the same family, clothes and transportation when studying and just working.

Something has been a shabby life.

For so many years, although she has graduated from a prestigious school, has a good job, and is also a beauty recognized by everyone, it can be said that she is the object of envy of many people, but her character has been formed, her inner trauma is serious, and it is difficult to be self-defeating. The personality is very depressed, very anxious, very realistic and utilitarian (because he has been hurting for many years, so there is a feeling that even the closest people can't be fully trusted), not sunny, and has no trust in the world and around him, and a sense of security.

It is easy to be timid and fearful when in contact with people, and there is no self-confidence, which indirectly has a great negative impact on making friends and falling in love.

It's painful, there is this kind of father, sometimes I hate him when I think about it. Because it is the kind of serious mental injury and destruction that has been slowly invading for more than ten years and erupting from time to time, it may always remain in life and character.

Now, I am also worried that my distorted personality will have an impact on my future family life and my children's education.

I hope I can slowly change and put an end to this tyrannical and mean family style in my generation.

Regardless of whether your parents are bad or not, they are the old people who gave birth to you and raised you after all. There is no old man who has your life, and there is no old man who has your happiness today, but all your happiness is given by the old man, and it is only after the old man has cultivated you. Of course, without your own efforts, you would not have been able to get ahead, or even be complacent about your achievements.

However, no matter how good you are now, or how powerful you are, you should never forget the nurturing grace of the elderly, let alone feel that the old man is bad and embarrass yourself, that is, no matter how knowledgeable and capable, you will not be able to reflect a respect and love for the elderly, not to mention that the dog is not poor and the son is not ugly, so you can't violate your conscience.

The father is the heavens, the mother is the earth, and you are a seedling growing on the earth. Without the careful care and care of your parents, then you will not be able to grow up, let alone become a talent.

Therefore, no matter how much your status has changed, and no matter how brilliant your life is, you must put your parents first in your heart, and do your best to repay the old man's nurturing grace, otherwise you will be infamous for being unfilial, and let others look down on you forever. Besides, a person who even dislikes his own old man will not be a good thing, let alone get mixed up in the world. Even if he is worth a hundred times, even if he has a lot of money, even if he is in an important position, even if he has a bright future, etc., he can't hide his ugly face and expose his dark side.

Obviously, no matter how strong such a person is, no one will envy him in the end, and even compare him to something with a wolf's heart and lungs, with no humanity to speak of and no value to talk about.

Therefore, no matter whether the old man is bad or not, don't care about these, the important thing is to talk more about conscience and filial piety in front of the old man, so that you can have a good reputation and be famous.

Everyone is born of parents, and everyone is raised by parents. The strength of the old man, the quality of the old man has nothing to do with himself, since God has made you his child, there is no need to dislike it. Because disgust will damage your image, let yourself not necessarily hold up in front of others, and even be scolded by more people, and become an unfilial son, you don't want to let yourself have a bad reputation.

Therefore, instead of disliking the elderly, it is feasible to respect the elderly, care for the elderly, and respect the elderly.

If respect is in place, care is in place, and filial piety is in place, you will be highly praised and praised by others.

Any dislike of the elderly, dislike of the elderly, discrimination against the elderly, abuse of the elderly, etc., will be immoral, uncivilized, and at the same time illegal.

It has to be corrected, it has to be corrected, it has to be corrected.

Having a very bad father is a particularly uncomfortable experience because everyone deserves to be cared for by a father, but you just lose this opportunity, you lose a very important part of your upbringing, and it can have a great impact on your personal character.

I feel like having a very bad father, and that's the most unfortunate thing I've ever had in my life. Because it not only brings harmony to its own family, but also hurts the mother who often blows. And sometimes I beat myself and feel that I hated my father very much since I was a child.

This father is not responsible and is not a good father.

A very bad father makes the family have no warmth, he has no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, will make the mother and children very tired, drinking and scolding every day, will make life very bad, no interest, no motivation, will make us lose confidence in life.

I think it's really a really bad experience to have a really bad father, and you feel like you don't experience fatherly love at all, and when something happens. Dad doesn't always help you, and she often blames you. I think it's a bad feeling.

Having a very bad father can be a very heart-wrenching experience, because you are his child, he is your father, so no matter where you go to the ends of the earth, you have such a relationship of separation, and sometimes your father's behavior may be very disgusting to you, but as a child, you are helpless.

My dad is a bad old man who doesn't do his job.

When he was in his 30s, he was supposed to be the age of struggle, but he found a job as a gatekeeper, with a monthly salary of 1,800, not to mention for me and my brother to go to school, and even the family's living expenses were not enough.

In desperation, my mother found a job as a waitress in a restaurant, getting up early every day and staying late at night, supporting the whole family with her thin body.

As for my father, I don't leave the bottles and jars all day long, and the money I earn is not enough for him to spend alone, I was thinking, is this my father? It's really sad that I don't have any dad responsibilities at all.

I think this experience is very frustrating. As a father, he has to shoulder the responsibility for the family and take care of the children, but he doesn't, and he lives so badly, which brings a lot of disasters to the family, no matter from that point of view. None of them are a qualified person.

I feel that my life is very gloomy, my father is not only irresponsible, but also very rude to my mother and me, which makes me feel afraid, I want to grow up quickly, so that I can protect my mother, I can't bear this kind of fatherly love, I just want to escape from this home.

I think no matter what kind of person my father is, he should be the greatest person who brought us into this world. But in life, some fathers do a good job, but some fathers don't do so well.

My mother is a strong woman, but I think all women in the world don't want to become a strong woman, if they are not the pillar of the family, if they are not persistent enough, no one wants to become the master of everything. I remember one rainy day, my mother rode the tram out to buy goods, and then walked halfway to the power and ran out of electricity.

But my mother didn't call my dad for the first time, because I knew that my dad had no way to pick her up, and then it was raining on my way to work, and when I went to find my dad, he didn't say that he wanted to send me, but let himself go. At that moment, I felt that in this world, there was a father and a father, almost the same feeling. It felt as if nothing could be counted on him.

doesn't have a sense of responsibility, he can't even take care of his wife and children, and I really think he is a failure. At that time, I also wanted to grow up quickly and get out of his world.

When other children want to grow up and find a man like their father, I hope that I will never find a man like my father.

It is said that the daughter is the father's little padded jacket, and the relationship between the daughter and the father should be nothing to talk about, she can be coquettish, she can make requests, she can be willful, and the father will tolerate her, but having a bad father will make you feel that hatred is not steel, why is my father like this? Why do I juggle my studies? I also have to take care of my family at the same time.

No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. It is normal for children to be stronger than their parents, face up to the reality and make themselves strong is the right way!

What is it like to have a very bad father? It must be that Bai is in a very depressed mood, and Du is very inferior. Zhi in short.

Surely DAO hates him very much. I don't want to see him either. Because he didn't have the appearance of a father.

Nor did he establish the dignity of a father. I really don't want a father like that. A lot of troubles for me.

No matter how the parents can't bai power or anything.

Don't dislike them, after all, it is dao who gave us life, from the heart.

Inside, they also want to give us the best tolerance, but it is true that some abilities are limited, children do not dislike the mother is ugly, the dog does not dislike the poor, there are parents to have our warm home, respect them, filial piety to them, is the responsibility of each of our children.

Unreasonable, Bai still has a bad temper, and he is small

Wait for him to drink too much domestic violence me zhi and my mother. Even if it is.

As long as there is a big discussion, he likes to use me as an excuse to keep repeating how "tall" he is, but he will not face the problems he encounters! Give him two words of advice, and he jumps to his feet! Because of this, he made a lot of noise every time.

Although my mother and I also quarreled, it was like a girlfriend quarrel, and it was basically fine the next day. But every time he quarrels with himself, how can there be any respect! It's because of his stinky temper that I want to make money as soon as possible and let my mother divorce him!!

He treated me well, but only for my education, food and shelter, and I never felt any tall fatherly love from him, and I would only give him money in return.

The so-called is not disgusted with the ugliness of the mother, of course, you can't dislike your father, you have to

Respect your father, though

However, you may be very good, but you can't answer your father's upbringing and training, without your father's upbringing and training, there would be no you today, you can't forget your roots, you should be proud of the source, because your father raised such an excellent child.

Low self-esteem, discouraged, unwilling to see him, no warmth, no love, disheartened.

I also think so, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and harmony makes money!

The greatest love in the world is the love of parents for their children! There is no substitute for the affection of parents for their children.

How do you say that? Every father copied. The love given to children is selfless. It's just the way they show it. No.

It's the same. If. You dao think. Your father didn't live up to what you thought he was. You can talk to him head-on. I'm sure it will change. For there is no father who does not love his child.

It's just better than nothing.

Sometimes I really want to make my own decisions, but my dad always vetoes without asking the reason, and there is no room for freedom at all.

His strength is intimidating, and it has cultivated an inferiority complex in my heart...

Everything you do will never be recognized, what he says will always be right, and what he does not agree with will never be supported by him.

Having a bad-tempered father should be a very bad experience, because he may be very bad for himself and take his temper out on himself.

Father's temper is particularly bad, there is such a father, I feel very depressed and painful in my heart, I feel too unlucky, how can there be such a father, there is an indescribable inferiority complex in my heart.

My father had a very bad temper, when I was a child, he would yell at me when I did something wrong, and I was so scared that I didn't dare to speak, and it is the same now, and the distance between me and my father is also very large.

Having a father with a particularly bad temper, this experience can be said to be very depressing, feeling that I am really unlucky, how can there be such a father, and I never care about myself, and often beat and scold myself.

I have a deep understanding of being beaten and scolded since I was a child, to be honest, I am now in my 50s, my father is 80 years old, in life, I am meticulous and meticulous, but the emotions are not deep and the temper is not compatible, besides, my father is not satisfied with what others do, and it is difficult to serve.

I wronged myself in this life, and in the end I didn't get better.