What should I do in the face of vicious people?

Kindness can't prevent malice at all, so you can only be silent and forbearing, and then wait for an opportunity to counteract.

Let's not talk about verbal provocation for the time being, let's first consider how to deal with ** attacks. If someone around you suddenly pulls a machete out of their bag and slashes at you, how do you react quickly? It's simply impossible!

Even a martial arts master with the kung fu of "empty-handed to white-handed" is helpless against this sudden attack. This is true of attacks, and so are verbal attacks. In fact, language attack is also a kind of **, and the essential attributes of the attack are the same.

When the subject asks this kind of question, it is easy to be poured "chicken soup". Some people may make up stories to show off how nimble they are to fight back against provocateurs, or even to fight back against provocateurs. In reality, however, these methods are hardly used, because there is no chance of reacting in reality.

By the time the provocateurs reacted, the opportunity to strike back had been lost.

Why is it difficult to cope with the sudden withdrawal of machetes from the people around you to attack you? Because people don't be wary of that situation, they always imagine that the people around them are "not carrying knives". And for those villains who hide machetes in their bags at any time and wait for others, they themselves tend to be defensive against others.

That is to say, it is difficult for villains who are always thinking about how to ** others, and it is difficult to be ** by others first. Because they themselves are villains, they will naturally beware of other villains attacking themselves in advance.

The same is true for verbal aggression, where the wicked are always thinking about how to use language to attack and insult others, and are always wary of others attacking themselves with words in advance. If someone can react quickly when they are attacked with words, then it can be concluded that he is also a wicked person, even worse than the evil person who attacked him, because he is always thinking about how to attack others with words.

Being stupid doesn't mean you're mentally retarded.

Many stupid people are just because they are relatively kind, subconscious.

He is not defensive against other people's verbal attacks, and he is not mentally prepared for a sudden attack, "the whole person is confused". If a person is just stupid, but not intellectually low, is it possible to become sharp-tongued? Almost impossible.

Because human nature remains unchanged throughout life, a good person does not become vicious, and a wicked person does not become good. That is to say: before being attacked by a person, a good person is always subconsciously defenseless towards others, while a vicious person is always subconsciously defensive against others.

Therefore, it is impossible for a relatively good person to immediately fight back against the verbal provocateur at the scene of the attack. It's wise to do your best to remain silent, even if your heart is burning with anger.

It is best to have a cold and serious expression, and try not to expose the anger emotion. It's okay if you really can't restrain your angry expression, but try to restrain the urge to justify, because it is easy to be incoherent and only leave a laughing stock for the attacker and other onlookers. Remaining silent is a counterattack in itself, especially if the silence with a cold and serious expression can make the attacker feel less easy to deal with.

There will definitely be those who feel that hitting an attacker can be an immediate and effective counterattack. However, since the other party dares to use words.

In the face of vicious people, we must learn to return it tooth for tooth, don't panic when it happens, think about countermeasures, and have the courage to take up the law to protect ourselves if you substantially hurt yourself without breaking the law, and never give in.

In life, it is inevitable that we will be misunderstood by others, and sometimes others envy us when they are rumors, we must learn to face these problems correctly.

Get your mindset right. Rumors are not terrible, what is terrible is that we can never let go, rumors are always rumors, they can't be true, rumors are self-defeating, you can't mess up because of rumors, you must first calm down and learn to face it correctly.

Don't be angry. Your first reaction when you hear the rumors is that you are very angry, and you want to find out who is the culprit, but it is difficult to find them, so when we hear them for a while, don't be angry yet, maybe the rumor maker just wants to see your anger, in this case, it is in his arms.

Find a way. When we encounter a rumor, we calm down, we have to find a way to deal with it, to ask people how they react when they hear it, to see if they really believe it. Then find a way to solve it.

Find friends and explain as necessary.

We need to find our good friends, who can believe us, and who will not help us because of rumors, we need to calm down and discuss with them why someone is spreading rumors like this, or who they have offended, and think about it quickly. If most people believe the rumors after hearing them, we have to explain that everyone should not believe and ignore unnecessary rumors, if everyone will not believe these rumors after listening to them, there is no need to make a big move, humorously face these rumors, and tell colleagues that the rumors make themselves angry. If the rumor sees that the rumor has no effect on you, some will just give up.

Speak for yourself.

There are some rumors that we may find no one to clarify, so we will speak with facts, and we may need to endure for a while, but for the sake of our own innocence, learn to endure, and use our own actions to tell others what we are like, and don't believe rumors.

Analyze carefully. Find out what motivates those who gossip about you. If the other person is envious, jealous, and hateful, forgive them; If the other party is malicious slander, you must take precautions.

Repay grievances with virtue, fight poison with poison, thirty-six strategies, go as the best plan, and can't provoke those who hide. There's no other way.

If he has a bitter hatred for you, then blood for blood, tooth for tooth. You can't feel that he is vicious and retreat, it is the best choice to face the reality bravely, otherwise you will be bullied for the rest of your life.

If you feel that you are not capable of fighting him, then choose to avoid it, which is not a sign of cowardice, but an open-minded attitude towards life.

I don't think you need to deal with the insidious and vicious people, because you are not his opponent, he is insidious and vicious, can you do it? So if you fight him, only you will be injured, so I can't afford to deal with this kind of person, can't I hide? It would be good to have more embankments in the future.

Treat the insidious and vicious people with respect and avoid being deceived. For those who have such behavior in the workplace or business partners, we must pay attention to staying away, strictly keep the secrets of our work or life, and try to properly deal with problems when encountered, so as not to escalate the contradictions, live in peace, and strive for a relaxed, harmonious and civilized working environment.

Those intrigues like theirs seem to be innate, and if we want to fight with them, we are really asking for hardship, too much brainpower and spirit, it is better to do our own business with this kung fu, at most let them calculate once, more embankments in the future, keep a certain distance, if possible, don't deal with them for the rest of your life, there is no need to get involved in the struggle with them!

If we know that our colleagues around us have this shortcoming, then we can try to avoid these shortcomings, for example, when you want to let this person pay a certain kind of money, it will be better for you to go in person, if he has to ask you to give him money, and it is not a card, but cash to him, and he does not let you follow, then it means that this person must have calculated something behind his back, so you can avoid this kind of person from making mistakes, It's better to choose a good way to handle things.

I have encountered a sinister villain, and the villain has no shame, so he can't tolerate it, and he must fight wits and courage. First of all, usually the appearance is casual; Secondly, unite the people around you and establish your image; Third, find an opportunity, collect evidence, and send it to the big leaders. Fourth, seize the opportunity for him to bully you, point at his nose and scold him in front of all his colleagues, speak quickly, have sufficient evidence, and don't give him a chance to fight back.

That's what I did, forcing the leader of this sinister villain to transfer him away. His leader was embarrassed.

If you are pure, then you are not afraid of anyone, and no matter how insidious and vicious people are, they will not be able to hurt you.

Fight poison with poison. You can't be merciful!