I don t have anything to say to my boyfriend, what should I do

As soon as you sit in front of the computer, even if it really catches fire, you have to finish the game or run the character to a safe place to put out the fire, and then go to find out what he is doing online.

Talk to him about the pressures of work. Can we share it together? ...It's okay to have a fight!

Or ask for clarity when whispering at night. He has a problem now! To look up or ask, in short, to figure out!

You may live together for the rest of your life! If you love each other, cherish it! If he doesn't love you....Leave to find something better.

Don't give him your youth. Otherwise, I will regret it even more!

You are so worried about how can you laugh naturally, and there is still a face problem between the two of you?

What about living together, hey.

I was connected with my boyfriend every day before, and I was very happy, what do you have to say, but now I suddenly don't want to talk to a man? First of all, we need to know: What is the purpose of your speech?

Indeed, many people are puzzled, they used to talk about everything, but now they have nothing to say, but when two people get along, there are so many words, and there is no need to say it a second time if you say it once. You told me about your family, and I already know about your life, so do I have to worry about this issue any longer? That's all there is to it, and it's gone.

So what you should pay attention to should not be whether the other party is talking to you, but what you should pay more attention to is, what is the purpose of you want the other party to talk to you? Do you want the other person to value your attitude? Or do you want to see the other person's attitude of loving you?

Could it be that he talks to you every day, and he keeps talking to you every day, does he love you? What if the other person asks you the same attitude? He thinks you should sleep with him every day, then he loves him.

Can you do it? So you pay more attention to what should be attitude, so pay attention to your attitude can only be through chatting? There are really no words, do you have to talk awkwardly when you talk?

So we need to recognize clearly, what are our real needs in the process of expecting each other? If you don't feel secure, how do you feel secure? The sense of security is given to you by yourself, and if you want the other person to give you a sense of security, then you will always be insecure because the other person can't give it.

When you can't get it, you will go all kinds of ways to thirst for it and get it, but the more you get it, the more you grab it, the more you can't get it. We need to recognize where your insecurities come from. What behaviors can be done to yourself? Don't let yourself get caught up in a state of gain and loss.

I'll give you an example, for example, the same person, the same couple, some husbands work outside at night, for example, there is a drinking place, I think it's normal, she can have her own business; She can study at home, practice her hobbies, play with her children, go shopping, etc., and she is fine.

But what are some people? What about the husband being out with clients? So she is very anxious at home, so annoyed, why hasn't she come back yet?

Then I started all kinds of speculations, and then it didn't work, I hit a**, I didn't answer it, oops. What's going on here? Are you going with someone else?

began to struggle again, in fact, this insecurity comes from himself.

Many people will be afraid that the other party will leave you, and then they will ask the teacher: "Teacher, how can I make a person inseparable from me?" Then I would tell him, "The first thing you want to do without a person is that you have to be separated from him, but you don't leave him."

The husband is indisputable, so the world can not be with it" is that you deliberately get it, but you can't get it. In the same way, if you deliberately desire to see if the other party can not leave you, then you will do a lot of things, and these things will actually become your passive state, making the other party feel that you can't do without him. Hey, what about the end?

Do you want to eat and live in others, and end up being eaten by others? Got it.