If you don t have a good birthday, can t you get married?

It's up to you to convince your parents and family, don't believe it. You used a computer before you got married, your parents may not have used a computer before they got married, you say no, the times are different, and your thinking must keep pace with the times.

We have to keep and pass on the good things of our ancestors, and there are some things that let him be history, and we can understand it, don't agree"Eight characters"Now, there are a lot of people who even have their own"Eight characters"I don't know, I'm not married.

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1.It may be a high-sounding excuse that the woman's parents didn't like you. When I was looking for a partner, I was very good with a girl with the same surname, and my mother told me after seeing the girl, our family is not looking for the same surname, otherwise it will not be good for your next generation (I am not related to that girl).

2.There are superstitions in the woman's family, you have already found a fortune teller by yourself, calculate it anew, and let the fortune teller give something to her family to see.

There is a saying that the eight characters are not suitable for marriage, but life is dead and luck is alive.

You can study the reasons for the disagreement, and then find a way, and the specifics are not clear.

Of course, in fact, the quality of marriage is not determined by the birthday of two people, in a certain sense, the birth of the eight characters is compatible with the marriage relationship has a certain relationship, but the same year and the same month of the two people in the case of the birth of the eight characters are similar, that is, if both sides of the eight characters are good, it is also possible. In addition, some situations where there is a disagreement in the eight characters of the birthday can be resolved by relying on external forces.

The most important thing is that it is the husband and wife who decide the marriage relationship. So what kind of husband and wife can maintain a harmonious relationship between husband and wife?

1. Have an emotional foundation.

The emotional foundation is very important, whether it is the emotional foundation established before marriage or the relationship established after marriage, only those who love you will be willing to pay for you and pay for this family.

2. Be responsible.

The sense of responsibility is very important for both a marriage and a family, and only two people who have a sense of responsibility for the family can regret and manage the marriage better.

3. Gu family. The Gu family is a trait that married men and women need to have, only the Gu family can be closer to each other, and everything is considered for this family, so that the marriage relationship can last for a long time.

4. Understand each other.

It is very important for husband and wife to understand each other, only by understanding each other can we tolerate each other's shortcomings, see each other's strengths, and help each other in difficulties.

5. Communicate frequently.

Frequent communication is very important between husband and wife and between family members, only communication can better understand, be able to understand more aspects of each other, help each other, support each other, and grow together.

Marriage does not rely on love to last, marriage needs to be managed, only mutual love, mutual giving, mutual understanding can make the marriage relationship more long-lasting.

It is not absolutely impossible to get married if the birthday is not suitable, but it is important to note that getting married in this situation may face some challenges and difficulties.

According to the eight-character numerology of the traditional Chinese culture, couples with inappropriate birthdates may have problems such as incompatible personalities, poor getting along, and unstable relationships.

Therefore, if a couple with an inappropriate birthday wants to get married, they need to work harder to manage their relationship, enhance their communication and understanding skills, and respect each other's individuality and differences. At the same time, it is also possible to resolve unfavorable factors and improve the happiness index of marriage through some traditional methods, such as choosing a day and choosing a good day per mu.

When we come to this world, it means that we have our own birth date, so from what aspects, we can understand some of the effects of our eight characters on all aspects of life, and we also need to understand that if there is a disagreement between two people's eight characters, can they still enter the palace of marriage?

What is the meaning of the eight characters of birth

The eight characters of birth, in the science of fate, refers to the date of the stem branch calendar when a person is born, and there are four pillars of stem branches in the year, month and day, each column has two characters, a total of eight characters. The eight characters of birth occupy an important position in Chinese folk beliefs, and ancient Chinese Taoists and astrologers used them to calculate the good or bad fate of people. In the almanac, the stem of the year and the stem of the day are basically there, and the stem of the month and the hour can be calculated according to the stem of the year and the day according to the formula to get a very accurate result.

People who don't have the right birthday can get married

If there is a disagreement, usually the parents of both parties will not allow the two to get married. Because in the eyes of the ancients, the marriage of the eight characters will meet with misfortune. There are four pillars in the eight characters, the year pillar represents the adolescent period, and also represents the relationship between the grandparents of the parties; The moon pillar represents youth and represents the relationship between the person concerned and his parents; The sun pillar represents the middle age period and is also the location of the conjugal palace, representing the interaction between the parties and their spouses; The time pillar reflects the relationship with children in later life.

Therefore, people who are not compatible are usually not suitable for marriage.

Which two people's birthdays do not match

In the eight characters of two people, if there are many comparisons, they are born and combined. For example, if there is more wood and more gold, more soil needs water, more water needs soil, etc., so that the five elements can complement each other and each has its own place. Therefore, the marriage of men and women is actually the result of the five elements of yin and yang, compatible, and relying on each other.

On the contrary, not to mention falling in love and staying together, even ordinary friends can't do it, which is the phenomenon of incompatibility.