How can you tell if a person has ever been injured?

In general, it is nothing more than two core performances: indifference to others and harsh criticism of oneself. The latter is easy to understand, because people who have been injured rarely receive positive feedback from others, so they often habitually feel that they are not doing well enough, whether they have a problem.

Their experience doesn't tell them that they are worthy of love, so naturally they blame themselves too much for not being good enough for themselves. But the former is not so easy to understand: why would a person who lacks love be indifferent to others?

It stands to reason that a person who lacks love should not crave the attention of others, so should he be doubly good to others?

It may be easier for you to understand that because their nerves are tense all the time, and they are often in a self-defense mechanism, so they are constantly trembling and walking on thin ice.

They crave and fear intimacy, want to get it but don't have the confidence to keep it, and end up in an awkward state in the middle, looking very indifferent to others, but simply because they are afraid that they will mess up a relationship.

No matter what they do, they keep a certain distance from others, although they feel polite to people, but you can feel that politeness is politely pushing you away, not used to accepting other people's kindness, if you feel that others are good to you, you will instantly become very embarrassed and entangled.

It is difficult to contact at first, and it takes a long time for others to enter their hearts, but once they enter their hearts, they will become very clingy again. They are very sensitive to other people's words and behaviors, and your unintentional words can make them change their emotions a lot, and even before you know it, they begin to alienate you.

It may be a people-pleasing personality who doesn't know how to reject others and will try his best to avoid conflicts, but being nice to you is not about wanting to make friends with you and not being willing to share his life with others, and when others share their lives and thoughts with him, he will become at a loss.

They will also crave intimacy, the circle is small, and they are devoted to the people in the circle, but if the new acquaintance wants to enter this small circle, he needs to go through a long time of getting along and testing. After all, they have been hurt before, and they will all be afraid of being hurt again.

Women who have been hurt in their relationships often have these manifestations, and men should be clear.

If a person's feelings have been hurt or deceived in the near future, it should be visible on the face, if a long time has passed, there may not be anything on the face, but the pain in the heart should still be there, for example, a sentence, a familiar scene, may make yourself into pain. So no matter what, I hope you can get out of the predicament and find your own happiness again.

Eyes and attitudes, there are always times when people who have been hurt can't be suppressed, they can be exposed through their eyes, and their attitudes will become cautious.

One is that he keeps silent about his feelings in the past and is unwilling to contact the opposite sex, and the other is that he is indifferent to everything and will not change for anything.

It depends on the specific person. Some people hide well and won't be seen by you. Look at what kind of character you have suffered, some people will never mention it, and some people will tell you heroically. Respect each other's past no matter what.

In the process of integration, there is a dull or disgusted behavior towards certain people or things, the appearance is strong, but the heart is very fragile, and the blind non-stop work is a manifestation of emotional injury.

He will be listless, not concerned about anything, not interested in anything, and he will be very disgusted at the mention of being in love.

Only by knowing him on his face and in his mood can you see the hurt in his feelings.

Generally, they are always unable to keep up their spirits in the process of dating. I don't talk much, I guess I have something on my mind. Especially listening to the other party's words, a bit of a submissive feeling, what I'm talking about is only the phenomenon of some people, don't sit in the right seat.

I wish you all happiness and a lifetime of holding hands.

The former is used for the sprint college entrance examination and is used for the review of the third year of high school, while the latter is synchronized with the high school and the textbook. The bound version consists of all the fascicles of a single subject together, but with some deletions.

If a person is not injured, he can understand that he belongs to a person with high intelligence and high emotional intelligence;

A person is often injured and cannot understand that he belongs to a person with low IQ and low emotional intelligence;

A person who knows that he has been injured but still does not understand is an obsessed person.

We are people living in the real society, and we have to face the real society and survival. Therefore, we can't delusionally dream of the love and affection in Qiong Yao**; I don't expect Jin Yong's love and love. In reality, if you are hurt, you will lose yourself, you will give up persistence, you will be submissive, and you will complain about life.

From now on, your life will not be beautiful; Your life will also become numb because of this. In this life, you will never understand again that you have been hurt!