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I think it's not a shame to be scolded and cried by a leader at work, but it's a shame if you don't correct what you did wrong after scolding and crying. The psychological quality of everyone who has just entered the workplace.
It's not very high, and many people seem a little humble because they don't know how to get along with the leader. Fear of doing something wrong and fear of being fired.
It's embarrassing to cry in the company and see your colleagues looking at you, but this phenomenon is very common, and those who have watched you cry may have had this experience before. Maybe they just want to come over and comfort you, but they don't know where to start.
1. Have I ever been scolded and cried by the leader?
When I first started my career, I was really under a lot of work pressure, and my master said that I was stupid, and I was criticized by my boss after accepting the job. But I didn't cry, because I felt that I was already working hard, I can only say that my strength is not good, causing users to complain to the boss, I feel that even if there is a big grievance in my heart, I should not cry in front of the boss, he is neither my relatives, nor can I give me comfort, instead of showing cowardice in front of him, it is better to improve my ability and let the boss refresh my opinion of me.
Second, I have seen workplace whites who have been scolded and cried.
After working for a few years, the company also recruited a lot of employees, and I became one of the few old employees in the company. In these days of working in the company, I can also see some Xiaobai, after entering the boss's office, they come out with red eyes, maybe the data is not good. She didn't know how to deal with it, and she was terrified when she faced her boss every day.
I once saw an employee sobbing on her workbench, and I went over and asked her what was wrong? He said that the boss scolded him for being useless and stupid, and she was fired by the boss. Before leaving, he also said that he would not be able to do it for a long time in any company, because no company would accept a useless employee.
This is really hurtful, I told this sister, maybe this job is not suitable for you, but what the boss said is not all right, every employee will have their own suitable career, although you are trying to prove yourself, not to discourage your desire for work.
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I don't think I'm ashamed, I feel ashamed just because I take myself too seriously, but in fact, others won't always remember when you are embarrassed and ugly, so after being criticized, it's good to improve yourself, improve your ability, and strive not to be criticized in the future.
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Don't be ashamed, because if you are scolded and cry by the boss, it is because your strength is not enough, as long as you are strong enough, the boss will never say anything about you.
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I don't think it's a shame to be scolded and cried by the leader at work, which means that you don't do a good job, just continue to work hard in the future.
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Leaders can scold you and think you still have value for improvement. That's why they will point out and even scold you. This proves that the leader has high expectations for you. Even if you are scolded and crying, there is no shame.
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It's not a shame, because many times the leader hits himself too seriously when he scolds, so it's normal to cry.
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There's actually no shame in it. Everyone has self-esteem and dignity, so it is normal for the leader to cry when he scolds you.
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Shame, I think that if this is the case, many people may look down on it, and it is very embarrassing for many colleagues to look at it.
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What she said was not to fall in front of people, life will always erase your talent, so she was aggrieved and silently shed tears. I think many people have experienced it, so smoking and drinking have become the life of most people.
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Yes, it was my first time working, and I was still immature at the time, so this kind of thing happened, and my heart was very fragile, but now that it has changed, I will no longer be scolded and cry.
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I believe that everyone often encounters some grievances in the workplace, and most people will hold back their tears if they encounter some grievances. But there are some girls in the workplace who encounter some grievances, and they always can't control their tears, so they cry. I don't think it's a shame to shed tears in the workplace, everyone will always have a moment when they can't control their emotions, so at this time, everyone can also release their emotions.
Crying is also a way to express emotions, plus many people always can't control their tears, and they want to cry after some grievances. I can understand things like this, and I think it's perfectly normal. If we are always compulsively trying to control our emotions, we will find that we will become less and less inclined to communicate with others, and we will become more and more autistic.
There is no shame in crying in the workplace, Chen Zhuoxuan.
Directly on the stage, he said that he did not think it was a shame to shed tears in the workplace. I believe everyone has seen it, most celebrities have cried in the workplace, and they have also cried on stage, and many people will always say that these people are very contrived. However, when we encounter some unfair phenomena or phenomena that we can't accept, and we don't know how to express our emotions, then crying can indeed express our emotions well.
There is no need to hide your emotions, and everyone has a different view on a thing, we may think that this matter is very embarrassing, but relatively speaking, these celebrities feel that this kind of thing is very normal. Most boys are not tired in the workplace, but some male stars will cry in the workplace, because these male stars know how difficult their success is, and most of the stars cry on the stage, because their efforts are finally seen by the audience, and because their abilities are finally seen by everyone, so they finally can't help crying. In any case, when people cry in the workplace, don't feel that this is a very shameful thing.
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I don't think there's a shame in crying in the workplace. No matter what the occasion, although you must control your emotions, you must also vent your emotions reasonably. The workplace is no exception.
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I think it's still a shame, because in fact, everything should be digested by yourself, and crying to others will not solve the problem.
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I don't think it's a shame, because in the workplace we will be wronged a lot, and it is normal to cry under a lot of pressure in normal times.
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There is no shame, this is because everyone has their own situation, and after being wronged, this is also a way to express it.
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It's very humiliating, because no one will sympathize with you in everyday life. Be sure to work silently, not through tears to vent yourself.
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There is no shame, in fact, in the workplace, it is because of the pressure, which can only show that you are a very serious and responsible person.
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There's no shame in it, because I think everyone can be vulnerable at some point.
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I agree with her that there is no shame in shedding tears in the workplaceIn fact, I don't think it's a shame to shed tears at any time in life。Because everyone's mood changes with the environment, if you encounter something unhappy, you will naturally be sad, and it is not an exaggeration to shed tears。It's just a way to vent my emotions, and if shedding tears makes me feel better, and my sad mood is relieved after crying, I don't think there's anything I shouldn't do
Speaking of mood, I think this is a very mysterious thing, there is no way to measure it with reason, and there is no trace to followThere may be some people who feel sad because of some indifferent small details, and there is no reason to talk about it, but the mood is uncontrollable. I think that life is to be happy, and if you are in a bad mood, you have to vent it in your own way. Crying is actually a good solution, some people will vent their emotions through some more violent ways, so in comparison, there is no shame in shedding tears, she only affects herself, and will not affect others too much.
I think Chen Zhuoxuan can say such things, in fact, he has a lot of life experience. She should be a person who lives more transparently, and has her own unique interpretation of some workplace survival rules。She also knows how to regulate her emotions, and it can be seen that she still has a lot of self-ideas, and she didn't say that she thought that crying would make some people think she was weak and gave up this way, but said something like this.
I also don't think it's a shame to cryThe important thing is what to do after crying, maybe some people will be slumped and still immersed in pain after crying, but more people will find their emotions after crying and think about how to solve the problem, the latter is what should be done after crying. Shedding tears is just to vent emotions, but more importantly, to have a fuller emotion to do the next thing. So don't be afraid to cry, wipe away your tears and walk the rest of the road after crying.
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I don't agree, because shedding tears is shedding tears, and that's a sign of your vulnerability, so I don't agree.
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Personally, I agree with this point of view, because the workplace is a place of hard work. Shedding tears is also because of work, there will be motivation when there is pressure, and shedding tears is also a kind of growth.
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I don't agree more. Because the workplace is a place of work, if you cry because of a setback, you may be taken care of by your colleagues or seniors, but it should also make you feel that you are weak, so if you are really sad, you can cry and vent alone, but it is best not to do this in the workplace.
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It's very agreeable to shed tears in the workplace, whether it's a man or a woman? Shedding tears is very common, it is normal, as long as you can laugh after shedding tears, that is the most important thing.
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I don't agree, the workplace is an arena, there is also competition between colleagues, mature professionals should not cry in the workplace, if there are any grievances to vent, you should stay calm and rational when working.
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Agree. Because as long as there is a harvest in the workplace, even if it is tears, there is no shame.
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I agree with him, because no one's workplace can be smooth sailing, adults should bear the corresponding pressure, crying tired, you can choose to shed tears to vent.
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It's normal to encounter setbacks in the workplace, and tears are just a way to vent, and you can pick yourself up again after that, and there is no shame in shedding tears!
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I agree with this, because there is a lot of pressure in the workplace, and even tears are very understandable.
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I don't agree with it, because no one in the workplace sympathizes with you, but it will make others laugh at you, and you think you are incompetent.
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Chen Zhuoxuan is not ashamed to shed tears in the workplace, crying is not necessarily a cowardly performance, it is sometimes just an expression of emotion, crying is not ashamed and not terrible, giving up and escaping is the most cowardly performance. <>
Recently, Chen Zhuoxuan bluntly said that there is no shame in shedding tears in the workplace. Many people should have shed tears in the workplace, even if they haven't fallen in front of others, they have shed tears behind their backs. Personally, I believe that crying is an expression of emotion, not necessarily a sign of cowardice, and it does not mean that I am afraid or I have given up.
In reality, some people have been wronged or encountered unhappy things in the workplace, they will choose a way to vent it, some people will choose to use their thoughts to make themselves better, some people will choose to vent through running and fitness, different people have different ways, because their experiences and personalities are different. Shedding tears is also a vent of dissatisfaction, which may be dissatisfied with this matter or dissatisfied with oneself, and everyone should not treat it differently. Chen Zhuoxuan also said that there is no shame in crying, and the most important thing is to laugh again.
Some people think that crying means cowardice, but doesn't crying mean being strong? Sometimes even if we don't shed tears on the surface and restrain our emotions, maybe we already have mixed feelings in our hearts. What really determines whether we are cowardly or not is our heart, whether we have given up on this matter, whether we can face setbacks again, as long as we can get back on our feet, everyone is a warrior.
We have also seen many celebrities shed tears in the entertainment industry, and sometimes tears are very precious because it teaches us a lot of things, and sometimes it is cheap because it may be nothing but make you cowardly. All in all, I hope everyone will treat this matter with the right attitude, don't look at people who have cried in the workplace with colored glasses, and give them a little more understanding and tolerance. I hope that you in the workplace can gain tears again and again, and you can become better and better.
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No, this is a natural manifestation, it can only be said that when we are unhappy, we can cry out, this is not cowardice, even if we don't shed tears, it does not mean that we are strong.
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No, because sometimes crying is to vent, and it's also a way to decompress yourself, so it's not necessarily a sign of cowardice.
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Crying is not a sign of cowardice, it is a good way to vent and be able to adjust your emotions in the fastest time.
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