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Opposite: 1Mom and Dad cherished this antelope wood carving very much, because it was not only a precious handicraft carved from black hardwood, but also brought back from Africa by Dad - it was a memorial of his youthful blood sprinkled in Africa during the era of support for Asia, Africa and Latin America.
2."I" do not cherish this wood carving as much as my parents, and I lack their affection for wood carving, because after all, I do not have the experience of sprinkling my youth and blood on the land of Africa, nor do I lack the understanding of my parents.
3.Students of the "me" age group attach more importance to friendship, think that "friendship is priceless", and often put friendship above family affection, and will also think that their mother "values wealth over righteousness". It's a dislocation of feelings.
4.This wood carving must not be given away, as she said later: "That antelope, even my parents are reluctant to give it away!" ”
6.The largest ocean in the world is the ocean, bigger than the ocean is the sky, and bigger than the sky is the kindness of parents to their children. This kindness is something that I can't repay in my life, but the "I" in the text puts my feelings for my friends above my parents .......
7.Who exactly is "light"? Not respecting and understanding your parents, and giving the precious gifts your parents to others is "light righteousness".
Parents raised themselves with a handful of and urine, how much heart, how much effort, how many sleepless nights they have endured, and how many grievances they have suffered! What a friend paid for herself is nothing more than a pair of pants and the punishment of her parents, while what your parents paid for themselves is more than ten years of hard work and more than ten years of youth! But "I" value friendship and ignore family affection, think that "friendship is priceless", and put friendship above family affection!
Also, why did my parents give me such a valuable wood carving? That's when they think "I" is their dearest person and love "me" the most. So, how can "I" give such a precious gift to someone else?
Students must remember this sentence for a lifetime: the largest ocean in the world is the sky, and what is bigger than the sky is the kindness of parents to their children.
8.Ask your parents for advice beforehand, and this will not happen. By extension, by asking for parents' opinions and communicating with them on everything, we can avoid childish behavior, because parents are better at dealing with things than we are.
9.In this way, the father to the child is not only the material wood carving, but also contains the parents' love and expectations for the child, you give the precious gift to you from the father to others, is not the spiritual abuse of the parents? ”
According to the law, the actions of minors under the age of 18 are invalid. So you can't make your own decisions.
10. Children are nurtured by their parents. Parents are the dominant position, and parents are responsible for their children's shortcomings, so instead of blaming their children for making their own decisions, it is better to blame themselves for not making it clear in advance. The author's inclination is primarily to educate children.
If you look at it from the "me" side, there are lessons to be learned. After all, I was naïve when I was a child, and it was necessary to discuss what to do with adults.
Pure handmade, do not copy, hope, thank you.
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Parents give their children items that are very precious in their hearts because the children are also invaluable in the hearts of their parents, and the purpose of giving them to their children is to let them share their parents' experiences and emotions together, not to let them turn their heads and give them to others. The child does not understand the meaning of his parents, and he transfers precious and commemorative items, which betrays the feelings and kindness of his parents, and should take the initiative to correct them and ask for them back.
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Passed down from generation to generation, responsibility passed on.
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8 In this way, the father gives the child not only the material wood carving, but also contains the parents' love and expectations for the child, you give the precious gift that the father gave you to others, is it not the spiritual abuse of the parents? ”
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I don't think we should come back, because Albert Einstein said, "There is nothing better in the world than to have a few true friends who are honest in mind and heart."
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I don't think the antelope wood carving should be returned, for the following reasons: First, my parents said that the wood carving had been given to me, and I had the right to be the master. The second is that Wan Fang is a good friend of mine and has sincerely helped me.
The third is that since I sent it out, I want to come back, which hurts my heart and my friend's heart. Fourth, the author's ideological tendency is to criticize parents for valuing wealth over righteousness, which hurts the feelings between children. Fifth, a gentleman said that it is difficult for a horse to chase ......
Students of the "me" age group attach more importance to friendship, think that "friendship is priceless", and often put friendship above family affection, and will also think that their mother "values wealth over righteousness". It's a dislocation of feelings. I don't think I should go back, because Wan Fang made a great sacrifice for "me", is a good friend of "me", sends wood carving, but also sends friendship, friendship is priceless, parents are heavy on wealth and light on righteousness, it can be said that it is a "spiritual abuse" of children
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As a parent, you should pay attention to the friendship between children, not over wealth, but also talk about it, since the wood carving has been given to children.
Then the right to give away the wood carving is also given to the child, so the rights and interests of the child cannot be interfered with.
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I gave the gift away. My parents wanted me to come back, completely ignoring my feelings, so I was right. Give me a point.
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。。。Don't you understand, Shenma Dongdong?
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