How to make choices in life? 5

Make a list of your favorite options, conduct various analyses, point out the advantages and disadvantages and compare them, refer to your current situation, and judge whether these options are feasible, whether they are beneficial to you, and whether you can do them. Think carefully and choose carefully!

Talking about trade-offs》 Many times, we will find that life is not like an exam, many difficult questions, and there are no standard answers.

In particular, the widely discussed, morally relevant choices are often confusing and confusing.

For example, the tram problem is indeed classic; Many people must have heard of it, so let's simplify it: should we sacrifice a person who is not in danger in order to save the people who are going to die?

The complexity lies in the inseparability between "whether to abandon less and keep more" and "whether to block the natural development of things".

When faced with trade-offs, we should distinguish between right and wrong first, and then distinguish between the important and the important. Profit is to put others before yourself, and harm is to put yourself before others; Take the light of the harm, take the heavy of the benefit: that's right. Otherwise, it's wrong.

And there is no right or wrong choice, only a difference between the important and the serious. In the case of multiple-choice questions, if the answer is all wrong, it is all right. If you have to choose one out of many, and you don't choose any one, it's wrong: then you have to choose any one, it's right.

Right and wrong are easy to distinguish, and it is difficult to distinguish between the important and the serious. It is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, which is even more painful. After all, there are often public opinions to learn from right and wrong, and the severity is all measured by selfishness.

Generally speaking, there is often no right or wrong choice without an accepted answer, and it should not be subject to moral judgment and legal sanctions. Since there is no right or wrong, you can choose according to your heart's priorities: this is the case with the tram problem.

Some people are precious gold, some people are precious jade, and they all value the treasure and the loved one. Obviously, the weight of a thing depends both on itself and on the person who weighs it.

But the name in the heart varies from person to person. If you use your own standards to weigh the weight of others' trade-offs, there will definitely be deviations. Therefore, when we seek common ground, we should also pay attention to reserving differences; Don't be within the right range and harshly question the answers of others.

However, the ancients said: "Great virtue is not more than idle, and small virtue is in and out, but also." "If the decision is so important that it may affect the natural evolution of humans or other living beings, it should not be taken lightly. If human beings act too much and too heavily against the heavens, they will surely bring harm to themselves.

There will be retribution for the great good that benefits the heavens and the great evil that hurts the heavens—this retribution is not in the present generation, but in the future. And the punishment of heaven for human beings is small for the manifest and great for the hermitted; Among them, the most important is to shorten the time of human existence.

The trade-offs in life are large and small, and there are all kinds of trade-offs. And regret, like an incurable disease, can only be prevented, not **: the choice has been decided, and regret is useless. If you are not confused about big things, you are wise; As for the little things, don't be too shrewd.

The wise man will be hazy in his little things; Those who are ignorant will be observant of small things. Covering the service is the root of ignorance, and the hole of hazy wisdom is also. (Uttered in "Caigen Tan").

Choose what you need, there's nothing that can't be done!

Trade-offs are crucial in life. Lu Xun's abandonment of medicine and literature changed his life and began his literary creation. If he hadn't made such a trade-off, he might just be a doctor who heals people and healed people, and he wouldn't have become a generation of writers.

Successful people succeed because they know what to do and what not to do. What should be insisted on, and what should be discarded.

It is not an easy thing to choose, it should be: to give, to give up first. And if you give up, you will eventually get it. And whether you are reluctant to give it up, and how to give it up like a hidden wisdom, and how to get it, it all depends on yourself.

Therefore, the trade-offs in life are very important for everyone.

There are many things I want to do, and there are many things I can do, but there are very few things that I really like to do. If you want to do it, you can give it a try, experience it, and then you can put it down; It doesn't hurt to choose to do some of the things that you can do, but if you don't want to do them, you will naturally let them go; Only the things you really like, you can't easily say let go, so you can experience more and more at will. Socks are changed indiscriminately.

So, look back. For those things that are fishing for three days and drying nets for two days, we don't have to blame ourselves, feel guilty or even attack and deny ourselves. In the dark, that is not our true love, whether you let go or give up, it is just the best choice.

Those pursuits that we are eager to try and want are just natural experiences, there is nothing to judge, and it is normal. Because, it is these things that seem to be wanted and can be obtained that constitute the scenery along our life journey and enrich our life experience.

If we must explore and seek truth, it must be about the love of life, and those things that we truly like. Therefore, it is especially important to try more and experience more. Only in continuous exploration can we discover the love of life and clarify our true love.

Whatever makes you feel joyful and selfless, put in a little more time and energy. What you are really passionate about is a very subjective choice, and everyone is different. Therefore, the journey of life is a unique experience, and there is no need to copy other people's choices, nor do you need to live like others.

It's just about exploring and discovering your passions and true love, and immersing yourself more in what you love. As for whether there is money, whether there are prospects, whether it is a big event, whether there are broader resources, we must all let go, this is not an important factor that we need to refer to when we choose.

If you must set a standard for what kind of life and life to choose, it must be, do you like it? Do you really like it?

What is a simple question does require a simple guideline. At any time, in any environment, calm down and ask yourself, do I really like to be happy? Your answer is never in someone else's, it's always in your heart.

The sculptor and painter Giacometti said: "Sometimes in order to depict a head, it is necessary to give up the whole body; For the sake of one leaf, you have to take care of the whole forest."

In a hurry, sometimes it has passed in a flash before you have time to savor it. There is a give-and-take, and you only have a time to wither. Therefore, we should learn to make trade-offs and know how to give up, so that we will not be pale when we come to the end and guess the mold.

The meaning of this sentence is that when faced with different choices and choices, you need to clearly weigh the trade-offs and make a wise decision. Everyone will face various opportunities and challenges in life, and they need to make continuous choices and trade-offs, and this process is life. We need to learn to make the most suitable decision among the many choices we have, and go all out to achieve our goals after choosing.

In order to achieve a better life, we need to be clear about our needs and values, and make rational and responsible decisions based on them.