Suddenly I felt like the whole world was getting cold. Can anyone tell me what s the use of kindness

Kindness is sometimes useless in this society, but it is a weapon for others to hurt you, many people will use your kindness to hurt you, and then let you have questions about the world and yourself, you think you will feel that the world is cold or cold, the world is black and there is no light, but if there is no kindness, have you thought about what you will become? Do you want to be like that? Do you want to hurt others in the same way as those who hurt you?

If the answer is no, then you still have to be your original self, although sometimes kindness will encounter ugliness and greed, but you have to believe that there are still many good people in this world, but it may be that temporarily you meet more ugly people, then you must have hope, in the future you may meet better people, better things, don't let hatred and ugliness occupy your heart. In fact, I have also raised this question, and I have struggled for many years, and I always feel that kindness, the only use is to be used by others, to be bullied by others, but once I saw a sentence that was written like this, God made you a good person, isn't this the best gift for you? After I saw this sentence, I instinctively wanted to refute it, but I couldn't find any reason or words to refute it.

Later, a long time later, a few years later, I wondered if kindness met with something bad, then we would have a reason to choose not to be kind at this time? The choice is the same as them, but are you really willing to be like them? Can you even help others hurt others for the sake of abuse, and take advantage of other people's kindness?

I asked myself if I couldn't do it, so how to say it, kindness later had a certain measure and scale, that is, it was not the kind of bad good person, not so casual to give kindness to others, but you must have good intentions.

Be kind and don't ask about the vicissitudes of life.

Kindness is useless, don't expect kindness to bring you anything, the key is whether you can do it if you are not kind, so let it be, don't be deliberately kind or unkind, do whatever you want.

The world is very beautiful, but you haven't felt it yet, go outside and take a look, don't always be with people with negative energy, you will find that kind people are the happiest

Maybe you've been hurt all of a sudden, and you feel like you're facing a cold world, and you don't think it's useful to be kind. But you have to know that you can't generalize, you can't resist the whole world because of accidental injuries, kindness can fill your heart with peace, it will make you get good rewards, you must understand that good people will be rewarded.

Because there are very few people in this world who can cherish it.

Not cherishing you does not mean that you are at fault, but his fault.

The harvest is only a matter of time.

Wait until the time comes.

You are the harvest season.

You will also get a life that satisfies you.

I hope you will be able to maintain this good character.

Why are you being trampled on.

If you don't have a sincere intention, you will definitely be rewarded by others.

Either it's not sincere enough, or it's not long enough.

To be specific... What is your standard when someone is trampling on arbitrarily? What is a sincere and kind heart?

In fact, there are many good times in the world, and whoever lets us discover it with our hearts can find it.

So our world is full of kindness, love, and warmth, because the world is also our home, and we should protect it and let us be full of love together.

Yes! Last year's exchange study in Taiwan coincided with cross-strait tensions, and many schools canceled their Taiwan programs. But I was lucky enough to get to Taiwan.

Studying in Taiwan, in addition to studying, is of course traveling around the island. I'm no exception.

One weekend, I went to Taipei with my friend, because she didn't have a lot of interest in Jiufen, so we went to Jiufen by ourselves in Taipei.

Yes, there is a line in Jiufen, there are many small attractions, connected by trains, and the daily frequency is fixed, because I go around relatively quickly, and there is still an hour before the next train arrives at one location, so I want to try to hitchhike.

I stood on the side of the road for about ten minutes, raising my hand to make the international hitchhiking gesture, but the cars came and went, none of them stopped, I was about to cry, thinking that I was alone in the field and no one I knew hahaha, the more I thought about it, the more I felt that I was very miserable.

Wow, at that time, I really felt that I saw an angel, I got in the car and saw that they were a family of three, and I knew that I was a student in the mainland, and their son was about 6 years old and asked me, "Are you a foreigner?" Well, it was a little embarrassing, and the child's father quickly said, "Baby, don't ask this question, it's a political issue." "Wow, although they didn't take a stand, it was warm to get such a speech.

They took a detour for me and had a great time chatting along the way. After the road destination, because I was in a hurry, I didn't have time to take pictures and I got off the bus, and now I think about it a little regrettable.

I hope that when I have the opportunity to post a message in Taiwan in the future, I can find them and express my gratitude to them!

In fact, most people in this world are kind, and many other factors are beyond our control, but we should try to always give kindness to ourselves.

Once when I went to school, a puppy chased me on the road, and after following me for a few hundred meters, I went to a nearby supermarket and bought a ham to feed him.

A big man with flower arms gives a place to an old grandmother.

The world really isn't what we see.

I personally feel this question very deeply!

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The world is kind.

The cold wind is biting in the winter, at 12 o'clock in the morning alone dragging luggage from the big city back to my hometown, to the station was told that it is not today's car, I bought the next day's car, stunned, at a loss, what to do, next to the police uncle said: There are still a few minutes to leave the car, hurry up to the window to change the ticket, should be able to catch up. My obedient immediately pulled the box and led the things to run away, shouting along the way, "I'm sorry to let go, my car is about to start", and when I arrived at the ticket gate, I didn't look at it, so I was asked to go in quickly.

There is a true love in the world, thank you to all the other passengers who let me keep cutting in line, as well as the railway workers

You always have to pay it back when you come out to mix, and history is fair.

It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish.

It is better to save yourself than to rely on others to save you. We can't change what kind of family we come from, but we can change ourselves. There are many ways to do this.

For example, read more books. Read 10,000 books and travel 10,000 miles. Reading can increase knowledge and broaden horizons. See how other people make choices when they encounter problems.

For example, making friends. There are more friends, and the road is easier to walk. Many times when you encounter something bad, it may be good to talk to your friends, and there will be friends who can help you solve some difficulties. It may seem difficult to you.

Child, you are not losing your kindness, but an inner conflict that makes you start to question life, and its root may be related to your original family and growth environment. You can't choose your parents and family, but you can choose to stick to kindness and love, and insist on your own beauty and purity! Everyone will experience growing pains, don't be afraid and run away, you have realized that you have some problems, such as cognitive biases, feeling that there are many bad people in the world, actively seek improvement, and strive to improve yourself, you will find happiness again!

Child, Nietzsche told us long before the White Strip that God is dead.

It's not your fault that you lose your kindness, but you have to save yourself, and no one can help you.

Kindness is compassion, shame, resignation, right and wrong, and doing these is a kind person.

Go to station b to listen to Mr. Wang Defeng (Yangming Psychology and its Modern Significance), you will be very rewarded.

You don't need God, when you know that you have lost your goodness, in fact, you are already good, many people, you don't know that you have lost your goodness!

No one can save you, only you are your own savior.

When I was an adolescent, I really wanted someone to take me away from it all. I put my hope in my friends. But my friend left me. Later, because of reading, I redeemed myself.

You're on your own. If you're feeling negative, keep a confident journal. Write down a small thing that you feel happy every day. Write down the things you feel are lucky and beautiful in your life. But then you feel too sad, so you look at your diary.

You can go to a book, you can go to sports. This is also a transfer. A way to escape.

Human nature is good at the beginning, your heart is still kind, but you close yourself off, no longer so emotional, it may have something to do with your family environment, you don't want to open yourself, and you are indifferent to everything. Try to open yourself up and be kind, it's just that our goodness is to be reserved for those who deserve it.

If you are aware of your own problems, it means that you are still a kind person at heart, but you have received too many negative influences and have doubts in your heart. But you have also grown up, you have your own independent thoughts, you can choose what kind of person you become, there are indeed many bad people in this world, but there are also many good people, and we all like to over-amplify negative things.

can't be saved, everyone has their own black history, correct the mentality. , looking for difficulties in the face of difficulties.

If it's okay, you can believe in Buddhism.

How can I save you, artificial respiration?

Because I broke with my best friend and was trapped in the same office as her, I was rejected and isolated by her and her good people (I was isolated when I was a child, and this lingering nightmare reappeared again), I was isolated by them for two months, I almost committed suicide, after she knew, she immediately asked the leader to quickly transfer me to another uninformed department (for fear of being implicated), and then it was relieved but still very bad, and every once in a while I would dream of being excluded and isolated by them, and I could hardly sleep normally, Always wake up in the middle of the night and watch the alarm clock until dawn. Now I don't dare to appear in crowded places, and if there are a little more people, I will want to escape, so I even reversed my biological clock, sleeping during the day and working at night, but because I was not in a good state, I could feel that I was not here for long.

I am now stuck in the quagmire and unable to extricate myself, I am depressed and sad every day, and I often think about suicide, I used to have it, but I thought it was ridiculous and stupid at the time, and now I have considered the rationality of suicide, and my reason is the last door, but I don't know when I will cross it. My parents didn't understand me, they thought I was doing so well, why did I have negative emotions (since I was a child, and I still have the same feelings), and my good friends and friends ignored me, thinking that I was just thinking too much. No one wants to pull me, no one wants to help me, the people who can help me are perfunctory to me, I want to save myself (the mentality of self-sufficiency on the Internet is completely a joke, you can't get out of it by yourself, and you can't forget those painful experiences and encounters, but you hide your true self deeper), but I can't do it, and now I can only live a trembling day with unrealistic fantasies and broken hearts, waiting for someone who is willing to help me to pull me (I don't know if there is, But I'm willing to take the time to wait, and I'm sure there will be).

All I can tell you is that before you are truly abandoned or experience something worse, adjust yourself, prepare for the worst, be mentally prepared, even if you are going through the peak of your life right now, you can't indulge in it, and don't give too much emotion. In this way, even if you experience a catastrophe, you have a better chance of being reborn (not everyone can get back on their feet after a blow), and you don't have to be like me.

Before you become "strong", I ask you not to be the last straw that crushes others, there are enough people in this society.

No one abandons anyone.

Friends, you can change the way of life, such as laughing at life.

People always have to learn to be lonely, adapt to solitude, and enjoy solitude.

It should be when you abandon the whole world (no one can tolerate anyone) that you will feel the cruelty of the world, as if the world has abandoned you. No one will be abandoned by anyone in this world, as long as you are kind-hearted, have enough love, and have sunshine in your heart, there is no darkness in the world, you can illuminate others, give warmth to others, and you will also feel warmth and love in return from others. (Giving roses, leaving a lingering fragrance in your hands) is the principle of giving and reaping.

No, the world doesn't abandon anyone, and God doesn't favor anyone. When you feel this way, it is most likely that you have intentionally or unintentionally abandoned the ...... of the worldIn fact, whenever you want to be isolated from this world, the world will not be as you wish, and there will always be all kinds of drags.

The world, or that world, your desires have changed, and what you feel is only a subjective judgment!

Don't care about this world, no matter how it changes, the world is still that secular world, take good control of yourself, if you can't grasp it, you will feel that the world is also far away from you! Be strong and firm in your heart, and the world will be on your side!

And people who are independent and strong in their hearts have a world of their own!